I think that the Emtional Intelligence issue was based mostly on common sense. I don't want that statement to misinterpreted to mean useless. Even though the concepts are basic, not everyone applies them to working with their teams. I think that the "prevent relapse", "reinforce change", and "evaluate" parts in the chart in Goleman's book in chapter 11 were very good ones to apply to most business tasks. To do thesse things when referring to emotional intelligence is very helpful too. One must keep evaluating themselves to keep growing. Some examples of an evaluation are inventories or a paper liek the one we wrote in class. These things are very helpful to realize strengths and weaknesses. They are also helpful for self-confidence because you can see how well you have improved from the last time that you took an inventory.
Posted by at October 18, 2005 11:06 PMHi Erica - Thanks for your honest reactions to Goleman. I'm glad you found some concepts to be useful for you. I very much agree that "one must keep evaluating themselves to keep growing."
You'll be surprise how things from Goleman that you find to be commonsensical - are in practice much more difficult. Situations can arise that seem so petty and so immature. I'm glad that you can use what you've learned in Goleman to handle any difficult situations you encounter in team, in personal life, or in your professional with grace and charm and a lot of EQ!
Posted by: Aimee at November 23, 2005 12:51 AMkeeping track of your performances or checking your inventory could help you in improving self-confidence. knowing that you have improved your self-confidence would help you gain more confidence. Thinking that you have succeed in improving it, there is no reason for losing it anymore.
Posted by: improving self confidence at May 23, 2007 10:28 AMEvaluating yourself is helpful. It helps you see the things you need to improve and maintain. As what the author have said, it also increases confidence.
To keep motivated, writing down your evaluation could help. Like having a social skills checklist, you can track down your skills. It will motivate you to work on your weaknesses on your social skills.
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Evaluating one's self about his progress can really help in building self confidence. Being able to track your progress can help you plan what to do next. Knowing how far you went with your goal can give you the confidence that you can succeed.
Building self confidence through evaluating yourself could be effective and can help you think positive about it.
Posted by: Building Self Confidence at August 9, 2007 1:13 PMEmotional wellness is also important. Being positive all the time will make you feel better not only in the emotional aspect but as well as other aspects like intellectual, spiritual, and the likes.
The Sedona Method is an effective way to get positive. Many have spoken about how effective the method is and how it changed their well being.
Posted by: sedona method at April 4, 2008 10:37 AMI am a huge fan of Daniel Goldberg's work. Here it comes back down to is your social skills. Emotional intelligence isn't just about knowing your own self and controlling your emotion, but being socially savvy and perceiving and knowing the other person's emotion. You control the interaction the way you want by accessing the emotion you want to generate in the other person.
Posted by: Social Natural at July 24, 2010 4:53 AMI am a huge fan of Daniel Goldberg's work. Here it comes back down to is your social skills. Emotional intelligence isn't just about knowing your own self and controlling your emotion, but being socially savvy and perceiving and knowing the other person's emotion. You control the interaction the way you want by accessing the emotion you want to generate in the other person.
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My friend and I keep going back and forth with this emotional intelligence thing. He hangs on to this word, but has no idea what the meaning is. As far as it being common sense, I agree with you to a point. If we can let go ot our "ego" we could have a better grasp on things and a better understanding of ourselves.
Posted by: Social Skills at October 2, 2010 9:05 PMMy friend and I keep going back and forth with this emotional intelligence thing. He hangs on to this word, but has no idea what the meaning is. As far as it being common sense, I agree with you to a point. If we can let go ot our "ego" we could have a better grasp on things and a better understanding of ourselves.
Posted by: Social Skills at October 2, 2010 9:20 PMI'm like a goof in the case of measurements. I'll tell you of which chicken bones I'm tossing now, for whatever they discern concerning future.
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