Ani Concert
I recently attended the Ani DiFranco concert in Madison, WI. What struck me the most was her attitude and her presence. I love love love her music and I love the way she stands up and does not take anyone's abuse. Sometimes, her music surprises me because it comes from the softer center that I don't see from her in person. Her performance was so awe-inspiring and so real; it was amazing.
I think that one of my favorite songs by her is Out of Range. You can read the lyrics here. What I love about this song is the personal relevance it has in my life. I recently was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a guy that broke my spirit for a long time. To me, this song reminds me of what I went through and how I dealt with it. Reading the lyrics and listening to the song has helped me heal and brought me closer to where I used to be.
Another song that reminds me of myself is Used to You. You can read the lyrics here. My friend, Carina and I both dated this guy and we both understand what the other went through and know how emotional abuse can in many ways is worse than physical abuse because not only does it affect you personally, but also on a physical level. It makes you so tired you don't know what to do and it makes you feel so awful that you find it difficult to talk to anyone other than you're significant other because you feel like you have nothing worthwhile to say.
If anyone may be experiencing any type of relationship abuse, visit the Aurora Center in Boynton Health Services and they can point you in the right direction. You can also get more information at their website.