blake332: November 2011 Archives

Looking at the Big Five personality assessment and even the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator assessment, the area of extroversion versus introversion plays a large role in determining personality types. Most personality tests have some sort of focus on extroversion and introversion, but what do these two words even mean? The concept of what introversion is and what extroversion is seems to be up for debate; some categorize introverts as being shy and not enjoying socialization or people in general, and some categorize extroversion as being sociable and lively. Although, on the outside it may appear to be this way, I believe that there is something that is not being said in regards to what it means to be and introvert and what it means to be an extrovert.

introvert.jpgThere seems to be a misconception that introverts dislike people, as depicted in this cartoon, but I would have to disagree with this idea. A better way of explaining what it is to be and introvert or extrovert is where their energy is directed and what is stimulating for them. As quoted from this website, which I think defines extroversion and introversion quite nicely, "The energy of extroverts is outwards, toward people and things. They need a lot of stimulation and often express emotions. [...] The energy of introverts is inward toward concepts and ideas. They need little external stimulation - and in fact they can easily be over-stimulated."
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I feel that introversion is often viewed negatively, and some members of society think that introverts should conform to society's norm of extroversion, when neither extroversion nor introversion is better; they are both equally acceptable.

Although this video is somewhat strange, it's interesting if you just listed to the words themselves; it provides even more concepts as to what it means to be introverted. As they said in this video, "there's nothing wrong with being an introvert, just like there's nothing wrong with being an extrovert." Either one should be viewed for its positives, and neither one should be viewed as superior to the other.
Amanda Blake

expressions.jpgWords can only convey so much information, and without nonverbal cues, body language, and gestures, we may not be able to interpret many of what is said to us properly. Mere facial expressions can say a lot in themselves, words aren't even needed in some situations, so when we are robbed of the ability to communicate through nonverbal expressions, the perfect example being e-mails and texting, many things can get misinterpreted and this can lead to difficult situations, whether they be with friends or with your boss at work.

We use body language and facial expressions to convey emotion whereas words are used to convey details; nonverbal expressions are like the music and words are the lyrics, without the music the song is not complete. As humans, we can easily pick up on underlying meanings just by looking at a person's stance or facial expressions (we may cross our arms to take a defensive stance, or we may widen our eyes to convey surprise).

There has been many times where I have been confused as to what someone else is trying to say in e-mails or text messages, I may think that a person is angry in their message when they were really being sarcastic or making a joke. Sarcasm and jokes are especially difficult to pick up on in messages because they both require a certain tone of voice or some sort of facial expression to go along with them, which messages can't always convey effectively.

One example of how e-mail or texts can be deceptive is the fact that some people consider all capital letters to be a good way to emphasize a point whereas others think of it as yelling. One of my father's coworkers sent an e-mail once that had several statements in all capitals to emphasize a point, but some others thought that he was basically yelling at them; there were definitely tensions that arose from that situation. So, we always have to be careful when we communicate through messages because much communication is lost without nonverbal cues.

Amanda Blake

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