Love: It's not just for young whippersnappers

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Let's be honest here for a minute, when does one ever see an elderly couple be sexually active. Now, I am not saying that I want to see this, but because it is not portrayed as a commonality everyone has the false idea that as one ages sexual activities cease. The truth is that many people are still sexually active well into their seventies and eighties. There is a larger chance they are still active if they are healthy and are sharing their life with a significant other. There are some statistics to put it in a better view: three-fourths of married men and 56 percent of married women are sexually active over age 60 and 30 percent of women 80 to 102 years old. When I first read these numbers my mind was blown! I ended up sharing this information to everyone I knew. The unfortunate part for the ladies is that at age 80 women are only able to pick from 39 men to every 100 women...those are some slim pickin's. This psychology information about frequency of sexual activities and aging is something that will stick with me for years and is something I will remember when I am older. You never know what percent you may be in. My best advice is to find someone you can grow old and gray with.

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Your post definitely caught my eye from the first sentence! It was very fun and enjoyable to read the rest as well. I agree that the sexual activity of old people is alarmingly high. I myself, was one of the people that thought sexual activity was very rare for older people.

My first thought to your first sentence was: do I WANT to see elderly people being sexually active? (ha). I wonder how this number compares to the past. Also, what role has Viagra played in the high amount of men having sex as they age? I would be interested to know.

Definitely an interesting article, no doubt about that. The title caught my attention, which is why i chose to read your post among all the others available to me. I must agree with Sarah, who commented above, that, "NO. I do not want to see elderly people being sexually active." However, I found this information regarding the frequency of sexually active people in their elder years to be quite surprising, just as you mention. I also am interested by the question posed by Sarah in here comment regarding the role Viagra has had in the alarmingly high amount of men having sex at an older age. I would have to think Viagra has greatly increased the number of sexually active older men from years prior to its existence.

I was actually fascinated to learn that people of the age of 80 or more are still sexually active. Of course I never really think about it, but the fact that passion and love can stay in a relationship for decades is just incredible. It was more surprising than anything, and after we had read about this and after reading your phenomenal blog post, I feel like that I have always wondering what old people do for love once they reach those astronomical ages. But I guess I know now!

I have to agree with your last sentence! I think it is extremely important to find someone you can laugh with until your old and gray. But as I was reading your post, I could not believe the statistics. That is crazy to think! In our society it is hard to think of a relationship lasting even a couple of years with the divorce rate being so high. I think it is adorable that old couples can stay together with each other in love for that long!

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