Peggy Anderson's personal survivor story
As a diligent and dedicated teacher who has had a very fulfilling career life, I came down with breast cancer one year after retiring.
I asked myself, “Why Me? Will I live? Will I die? What is next? How will this devil’s dance burning in side of me be conquered?
I wanted to poke the pain out of its eyes because I had burning pain in my chest. Even though pain is not often associated with early stages of breast cancer, I could feel the uncomfortable pain. I desperately wanted peace with my overtaxed body.
Cancer was not distant to me. It had occurred in other countries or places in my body.
I had cervical cancer in my early 20s, and a vaginal recurrence of bad cells in my 30s. I cherished each day from my 20s on. I had counted all the blessings in my life.
Now my darkest moment came back--I was told I had breast cancer when I was 56.
First I went to my doctor. She and I both felt the lump. I was sent for an ultrasound and only gave half of one. My doctor found this out and sent me back. She wanted a full ultrasound, which I was not given. Instead, I was told to go home and put tape on the lump to see if it would grow.
I had biopsy, had a genetic breast cancer test, and three surgeries.
I couldn’t deal with having my breasts cut off, even though my son, Chris, assured me in his comforting words that years ago women from one ancient tribe would have it done because they could shot a bow and arrow better.
I had 21 lymph nodes removed, a lumpectomy and two more surgeries to get clear margins.
I came to realize that there was more breast cancer in my family than I knew about. It occurred at an early age in some cases, and I find how important it is to know your family medical history.
I didn’t know many people with breast cancer three years ago, and now I know hundreds locally, regionally, and nationally. I have met many wonderful women and men who have had breast cancer. They have amazing strength, humor, and a desire to end breast cancer.
Kathy Heide’s is a place where you can feel comfortable. You can chat with three wonderful women who know what you have gone through. I find warmth, solace, and a sense of healing by going there. They even sell my book for me, “Dear Auntie, Why Me?�
Heide’s is a supporter of both of our Dragon Boat Teams: Survivor Sistership and Survivors and Supporters.
I have lymphedema and have bought products there such as bras and arm sleeves.