You are your winner
Everyone can be happy in this world. The happiness depends on the view points of each individual. People generally think that one become happy only if they are being in a place or situation where they have everything they want. Their wants vary with the life situations. Some people need excess of money and some other expects peer groups for their enjoyment. My experiences teach me that this is a big misconception. Every situation has at least one thing to be considered in the positive way by a person. Just find out that thinking or thing to be happy wherever you are. Thus you can enjoy in the biggest boring party too.
Having all satisfying needs in one’s life is pretty difficult to achieve. Even if this task is accomplished that is not everlasting and moreover he/she cannot use the achievements fruitfully. After struggling so hard by giving up all enjoyable moments in life and finally if you are not able to find joy in your achievements then what is the point of all the struggles went through their life? I would say such a person’s life is a waste. He is a zero in his life when turns back and give a look into the past life. People who have enjoyed every second with whatever money they got are simultaneously struggling hard to maintain their way to goals, when these people turn back, they have a lot of memories to be remembered with their family and friends. Along with all these they have reached the same level of accomplishments as the opposite side-unhappy people. These people are heroes in their life whereas others remain as zeroes. So find something for making each seconds an enjoyable moment.