Jyothy Chemmacheriljoby

Doing sacrifices for making your loved ones happy is a good thing. You can ignore so many things to keep up a relationship. Nobody is perfect. Everyone has their own defects. Realization of their own negative qualities helps them to not let others hurts by the wrong quality. Nobody can ignore something hurting which is really common in their daily life for long time. Well in that case, I think it is better to open up to the person from whom the hatred feeling comes. That helps your friend to understand you more. Moreover the key thing of keeping a healthy everlasting relationship is the ability to read the second person’s mind or heart. If you can accomplish this task, there won’t be any misunderstandings or problems between them. May be fights are possible, but on small issues which are really short living and it is good to have some small silly fights for strengthening the relation.

These qualities make you a winner in every kind of relationships. Nobody can hate you and will be interested to keep the relationship forever. With this mentality you can be a winner of yourself. You can always ignore the small irritating things of your friend if you really care about them. Ignorance, patience, understanding are the main qualities of a successful relationship. Help each other, do things which makes both of you happy.

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Accomplishing the love of everyone should be the greatest accomplishment in one’s life. But being nice to others by keeping negative feelings about them in the mind will not help. May be one can act until certain point of time. After the level has crossed, everyone just explode which create more complicated problems that cannot be solved or would not be able to solve easily. This is a true fact which I learned from my life experience. Just be the way you are. And express your own feelings and emotions. Keep away the show offs and behaves the way your heart says. People always appreciate the real YOU. Nobody can be an actor or an actress in their entire life. Once in life they have to show others “who are they.” Then people will be surprised seeing your real personality (which is different from his normal expressive nature).

Many people think that society will not accept them with their real personality. Being in this competitive world, people fight hard to their own souls to be a perfectionist. No one is perfect in this world, which is a key idea that people like to forget. It is always good to express the way you are, and is an appreciable thing. You will have achievements and can be happy (without any controversy between your soul and you) in the life. Because as people know you, they keep their expectations within your limits and capabilities. No confusion, no frustration. Whereas if you try to behave differently from your soul, it is not going to be a successful thing. This is similar to wearing a mask which makes others laugh and happy by hiding their own tears behind the mask. So I believe; be always the way you are, accept the way you are and success will follow us.

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