You are your winner
Accomplishing the love of everyone should be the greatest accomplishment in one’s life. But being nice to others by keeping negative feelings about them in the mind will not help. May be one can act until certain point of time. After the level has crossed, everyone just explode which create more complicated problems that cannot be solved or would not be able to solve easily. This is a true fact which I learned from my life experience. Just be the way you are. And express your own feelings and emotions. Keep away the show offs and behaves the way your heart says. People always appreciate the real YOU. Nobody can be an actor or an actress in their entire life. Once in life they have to show others “who are they.” Then people will be surprised seeing your real personality (which is different from his normal expressive nature).
Many people think that society will not accept them with their real personality. Being in this competitive world, people fight hard to their own souls to be a perfectionist. No one is perfect in this world, which is a key idea that people like to forget. It is always good to express the way you are, and is an appreciable thing. You will have achievements and can be happy (without any controversy between your soul and you) in the life. Because as people know you, they keep their expectations within your limits and capabilities. No confusion, no frustration. Whereas if you try to behave differently from your soul, it is not going to be a successful thing. This is similar to wearing a mask which makes others laugh and happy by hiding their own tears behind the mask. So I believe; be always the way you are, accept the way you are and success will follow us.