February 14, 2005

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Sexual promiscuity and “friends with benefits” in today’s society has been associated with many different connotations and ideas. The majority of these ideas are split at the very opposite ends of a large spectrum. At one end, “friends with benefits” holds a very negative tone, threatening morals and traditional values. On the other side, the term comes with a positive, new age connotation. This second view considers the concept to be a healthy, positive method of fulfilling basic desires in a safe manner. Some people use “friends with benefits” as added enjoyment while already in a romantic relationship. For others, the time needed for an extensive relationship is not available due to work, school, etc. “Friends with benefits” offers a chance for these people to remain satisfied while accomplishing their goals.

Posted by john7697 at February 14, 2005 1:40 PM
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I totally agree. People think that this way of taking out your sexual frustrations and urges is perverse. Personally, its the same as masturbation (which EVERYONE does whether they admit it or not)

Posted by: Eric Perry at February 14, 2005 2:43 PM

As someone who has been in a "friends with benefits" type relationship, (although I never called it that) I would have to say that I think that they can work out and be benificial in some ways. I also think that honesty is extremely important, as is the setting of some basic ground rules for the relationship. Another key part of these types of relationships is being honest with yourself abut why you are in the relationship, and doing an occasional reassessment (that sounds so clinical...) to make sure that you and your friend both see the relationship going in the same direction. It seems to me that problems usually arise when one person becomes more attached or emotionally involved than the other.
Finally, I just wanted to say that I do not see "friends with benefits" relationships as a substitute for masturbation. Otherwise, why not just masturbate? To be honest, I wouldn't want another person viewing me (an entire human being with thoughts, feelings, etc.) as the equivalent of their hand, if only because most people don't make sure that their hand is having a pleasurable experience while they are masturbating.

Posted by: Kathryn at February 17, 2005 3:26 PM

I think "friends w/benefits" is a completely normal way to be able to satisfy needs that we all have. Unfortunately, I have to agree with Kathryn when the only problem with it is if someone does get more attached. That is why you need to keep communication open between you and your "friend" so if either person needs a break or has become interested in someone else you can make a clean break, no feelings hurt. However, as many of my friends have experienced, it usually doesn't seem to turn out that way. Is there a better way to tell if someone's starting to fall for their "friend" without waiting for them to tell you? And how would you cut off your physical relationship if you suspected they were falling for you or if you were falling for them? Just a couple of things to consider...

Posted by: Kristen Dahl at February 17, 2005 4:55 PM

I have to agree with the two people ahead of me... Friends with benefits is a good thing, if you know you can handle it. True that it satisfies your needs, but it also helps academically. As weird as that sounds, it is true. Helps you relax when you are stressed from studying, and allows you to concentrate more when you are finished.
The only problem that I can find with friends with benefits is that you can't go back to being friends. Once you sleep with someone, their is a wall that is always there. It's like something happened, but you just don't want to acknowledge that it happened in the future when you stop sleeping with each other.
Before you even think of starting a "friends with benefits," just make sure that you are mentally capable of handling that type of relationship. Or should I say lack of it. But if you decide to start one good luck and have fun. Cause really that's what they are for.

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Posted by: Mike J at March 17, 2005 9:48 PM

I believe that the sexual part of the "freinds with benefits takes priortiy over the friendship itself. I have just recently ended a "friends with benefits" relationship. I unfortunetly was the one that had more feelings for that person but there were games played as in I had a date friday and my partner had a "date" sat. I got the feeling that I was being lied to about time spending together and decided to take a break for a week, that person has not called in several days after the break and Im left wondering. does anybody have experience with this?

Posted by: mike at April 27, 2005 9:49 AM

I'm currently in one of these relationships. Except we hadn't seen eachother in over 2 years. I wonder, should I go over the ground rules or does she actually have feelings for me? Here's the kicker, she's also my ex girlfriend.

In my experience, these types of relationships can be just as, if not more confusing than emotional relationships.

Posted by: Paul at July 12, 2005 7:57 PM

I had a friend with benefits for several months until my friend went back to her old boyfriend. That was good because it made me move on.

At the time we never had full intercourse but we used to make out a lot and pretty soon I started touching her breasts while we kissed. That added a lot of pashion to making out but the best was fingering her because it drove us both insane.
She never gave handjobs because she thought that was too slutty. I still sometimes wish we would of had sex though but now its too late and she probably wouldnt of

Posted by: Jerry at December 26, 2005 1:37 AM

i have a question...

what are the basic rules [as in how far should you go] for friends with benefits?

Posted by: Stephanie at March 28, 2006 2:42 PM

My ex and I broke up because we did not love each other or care in the way we thought we should. Several weeks later we sleep together...and decide to reconfigure the relationship as "friends with benefits." now he's met someone and it is not clear how either they or we should progress. i believe we are on equal grounds as far as emotional attachment goes, but this still complicates things. neither of us seems to want to give up the sex prematurely in case things don't work out with the other girl, but we also do not want to be unfair to her. at this moment i see the friends with benefits as a nice, safe way of expressing our sexuality.

Posted by: Melissa at April 1, 2006 2:42 AM

These relationships can get very confusing and more complicated than traditional bf gf relationships. Someone always ends up getting attached which is what happened to me. I started a friends with benefits relationship during the summer with a girl who i've been friends with for years. We ended up dating a few months later but she couldn't express her attachment to me and quickly broke it off. We didn't speak for a month and recently we started being friends with benefits again. The sex is more satisfying now than ever but again the question of attachment looms over the relationship which gets annoying. While it can be fun, FWB leads to jealousy and prevents you from meeting people who actually care about you.

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Posted by: Allison Trump at May 24, 2006 12:22 AM

i would like to try this kind of relationship. Actually it started last night during a casual text. hmm.. I'm still confused.

but can anyone tell me if this kind of "relationship" is more on a positive side or negative side?

Is this "thing" okay???

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A FWB situation has to be understood by both parties involved. It's a very tricky thing b/c as women we are programmed to care about people. I am single & love being so b/c it's my choice. I don't want to be tied down & keep that in my mind. However, it's very hard to turn off feelings. I just kinda ended up in a FWB situation recently & it's great, but the guys is a friend I've known for nearly 2 years. It'll never turn into more b/c he's hung up on a married woman, which makes it safer for me b/c he won't get emotionally attached to me. But feelings just happen, the key is to be aware of them & remind yourself that this is basically a matter of convenience to be able to have sex w/someone you trust & that will not hurt you. But like I said, FWB can be complicated b/c of biological programming in woman (& I can only speak from that p.o.v. - but I would guess some guys may have problems as well).....on the upside though - it can make for some great fun & relaxation!

Posted by: Renee at July 18, 2007 9:22 AM

A FWB situation has to be understood by both parties involved. It's a very tricky thing b/c as women we are programmed to care about people. I am single & love being so b/c it's my choice. I don't want to be tied down & keep that in my mind. However, it's very hard to turn off feelings. I just kinda ended up in a FWB situation recently & it's great, but the guys is a friend I've known for nearly 2 years. It'll never turn into more b/c he's hung up on a married woman, which makes it safer for me b/c he won't get emotionally attached to me. But feelings just happen, the key is to be aware of them & remind yourself that this is basically a matter of convenience to be able to have sex w/someone you trust & that will not hurt you. But like I said, FWB can be complicated b/c of biological programming in woman (& I can only speak from that p.o.v. - but I would guess some guys may have problems as well).....on the upside though - it can make for some great fun & relaxation!

Posted by: Renee at July 18, 2007 9:23 AM

yes it was nice reading each person thoughts. since i start reading, i start to understand how it works and what is expected, or not.
yes i am a married individual, but my husband is away. i meet this person and the first time i saw him, i fancied him greatly... but as time goesw by i became emotionally and sexually attached to him. so yes i am the one that is mostly falling for him, bu t i know he is not for me, because of his own opionion , about what he is looking for in a relationship.
i used to call him mostly everyday, and i feel so upset when he do not want to talk to me, or when he wants to rushed me off the phone.
So now i have learnt not to call him too much, but i cannot help not wanting to be with me sexualy, he makes me feellllllllll sooooooooooo good, and i think that what makes me so crazy about him.

Posted by: angella duberry at August 16, 2007 7:18 PM

I've been involved with my friend with benefits for nearly 3 yrs. now. I think we are starting to get more and more attached to each other though. In his profession he has plenty of opportunies to meet other women but says he doesn't want to be with anyone else. It's easy to get confused in this type of relationship so I don't kid myself about anything he says. I know he likes that I give him my undivided attention once a week. Listen to all his complaints about his job and never judge him. I know he likes that I'm far from being clingy. I text or call him once a week to see how he is doing and if there's anything I can do for him. I think that's why we've been "friends" for so long. He works long hours and has a son to care for and really no time for a "normal" relationship. And I dont want the hassle of a steady bf so this works out real good for the two of us.

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Posted by: bradley at September 4, 2007 1:34 PM

ooh! my! my advice to anyone who hasn't done it is never try.this shit is adictive and it can make someone do some crazy shit.Believe me at one point somebody is gonna fall in love and it won't be good.For a woman u ll feel stupid, used and worthless and especially if the other person is committed lol! mh! mh!! noooooo don't do it, it's not worth it

Posted by: mellisa at December 21, 2007 3:31 AM

As a mother I can't for the life of me figure out why anyone would want this kind of relationship, taking chances with pregnancy, AIDS, STD's,.. is it really worth risking your life for, there are to many things that can and will ruin your life from this, it will haunt you, I guarantee it. It's pure stupidness and very irresponsible. There are other ways of dealing with "feelings/urges" without destroying friendships and yourselves. I was young once, I was stupid too, I regret "everything" and it does haunt me to this very day.

Posted by: amom at December 29, 2007 1:11 AM

In further thinking on this back in my day it didn't have this "labeled name", it was love'em and leave'em, a one night stand, girls were called horrible names, slut, whore,...and you may as well be considered a prostitute w/o pay, because that is "exactly" what this is - supposedly no emotional attachment. This is degrading yourself when and where there is NO NEED, not that I would approve even if there was one, there are other jobs available.

Posted by: amom at December 29, 2007 11:19 AM

FWBs ARE HORRIBLE BECAUSE WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS AND EVENTUALLY ONE PERSON WILL GET ATTACHED. THAT PERSON WILL BE HURT. THE OTHER PERSON WILL FEEL HORRIBLE FOR HURTING YOU AND LEAVING YOU. THEY ARE JUST NOT WORTH BOTHERING. IF THERE IS A THIRD PARTY(SPOUSE, FAMILY MEMBERS, GIRL/BOY FRIENDS) THINK HOW HURT THEY WILL BE TO FIND OUT ABOUT YOU BEING IN A FWBs.

Posted by: alex gundy at February 2, 2008 8:26 PM

FWBs ARE HORRIBLE BECAUSE WE ARE ALL HUMAN BEINGS AND EVENTUALLY ONE PERSON WILL GET ATTACHED. THAT PERSON WILL BE HURT. THE OTHER PERSON WILL FEEL HORRIBLE FOR HURTING YOU AND LEAVING YOU. THEY ARE JUST NOT WORTH BOTHERING. IF THERE IS A THIRD PARTY(SPOUSE, FAMILY MEMBERS, GIRL/BOY FRIENDS) THINK HOW HURT THEY WILL BE TO FIND OUT ABOUT YOU BEING IN A FWBs.

Posted by: alex gundy at February 2, 2008 8:26 PM

what goes around ALWAYS comes around. you will have to get hurt a few times before you know what you did to that/those people. Someone in a FWBs is always being more taken advantage of than the other. they are the ones to get attached and hurt.

Posted by: Anonymous at February 2, 2008 8:30 PM

My friend went through FWB with a player. He thought she was 'hot' and not 'cute' so he told her that he only wanted her as a FWB. I thought it was quite sad that my friend sank that low, and went so far with him.
Now ive started to talk to this boy as well. Everytime we talk, he makes a hint we should hang out together. Im frightened he wants the same thing he wanted from my friend since he admitted he would try something on me. Its fun to talk to him though. Im ready for many things, and prepared, but i dont want to feel used, hurt or worthless... Plus is there always physical and emotional attraction in the start of such a relashionship?
If anyone has any tips or advice, please give it, because i am lost..

Posted by: Claire at February 3, 2008 3:11 PM

I just started a friends with benifits relationship. I looking forward to the adventure. I don't want a relationship right now because i'm just now single after a very long relationship. I'm exploring what is out there in the world and what I want. I think this is good because now I won't be making poor choices of men because i'm thinking with my hormones and not my brain. So for now FWB is perfect in my life. He has some of his own commitments so he is also cool with this. We are keeping this a secret. Everyone knows we are friends but they don't know about the benefits and that is how we want to keep it. We are up front and honest about what we want. We have agreed if either one wants out to tell the other and we will just remain friends. I really hope that is possible because the only down side to this whole thing is the possibility of loosing a great friend for many years.

Posted by: Anonymous at March 17, 2008 9:33 AM

I find fwb relationships empty and painful...they are not truly anything more than a way for a person to get what they want and walk away scott free to persue their dreams or passions without any guilt while having fun at the same time...seems a bit selfish to me...they pretty much will fry you in divorce court for this same action only i realize your married but committed none the less... the only difference here is no commitment...and lets face it why be responsible for our actions right???? its another way of just fing around...no commitment no ties no loyalties...and if they do find someone they are lol attracted to whats to say they will become loyal and true....nothing, once a cheater always a cheater......just a new fad for online dating so they can check out as many dates to get the one they want.....and of course why not have fun while they are at it....this way no one gets hurt right??? but i do agree what goes around usually comes around.....and maybe just maybe the player gets played and yes im a bit bitter been there done that and it does hurt especially when you have no idea your in a fwb till you break up...if your in an adult relationship i think the biggest thing of all is to be an ADULT and be HONEST and upfront...leave the games for high schoolers and stop playing with peoples hearts....and emotions...and make sure what you want is what the other person is ok with....thats and fwb...mutual respect and understanding

Posted by: arbyq at March 17, 2008 7:42 PM

I'm in this type of relationship currently, too. I actually like it the way it is. I am free to do as I please and still see him from time to time.. although, he was jealous when I went out on a date recently. However, if either of us were to sleep with someone else we are supposed to tell the other one. Works fine for now.

Posted by: FWB at April 23, 2008 10:25 AM

To the concerned mother from above: Just because you are friends with benefits with someone doesn't mean that you aren't using protection. Im in a FWB relationship and we use condoms plus I'm on birth control. So how is that stupid?

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Posted by: lisahottietotrot at July 18, 2009 11:39 AM

FWB the emotions involved there, eventual one of you will fall in love what then? I am falling for my FWB, he makes whole he makes feel like a woman. he satisfies me sexually, We both involved with other people but we just cant seem to get our hands off each other. Everytime i see him I just have these butterflies in my tummy. I think i am falling in love with the guy.

Posted by: Kelebogile at February 23, 2010 5:16 AM

I am in this type of relationship - however, I am 12 years older than he is, and I have fallen in love. I know its time to end the relationship, but can't bring myself to do that. We see each other every second weekend and he stays for three or four days. Trust me, someone always gets hurt in the relationship

Posted by: Krissy at June 29, 2010 10:51 AM

In a FWB situation, someone will always get hurt. It's not worth it.

Posted by: Jason at July 6, 2010 9:22 PM

Interesting to get different views - hard to see this as sustainable however. Communication and honesty, as in all relationships are vital. It's hard enough to do when you're in a 'proper' relationship and have more time/reason to focus on other person. Would say something like, different strokes, different folks but that might be a little cheap. Good luck to anyone but rememeber keep talking and keep safe.

Posted by: Robert at July 28, 2010 2:58 PM

Is there ever such a thing as "No Strings Attached?" Can a friendship between two people withstand casual sex? Or is that just an idealistic concept? Use your head to consider wisely what may be lost if you enter into a Friends with Benefits arrangement.

Posted by: Online Dating at August 1, 2010 9:39 PM

I think friends with benefits is a must. Unless you find love you need friends with benefits. It's healthy human nature to satisfy our animal instincts. As long as the two friends are really adult and not childish in any way it can work. Communication is the key to friends with benefits

Posted by: andrew at August 15, 2010 1:58 AM

friends with benefits is never a good idea. I truly believe that the term "friends" is misused when it deals with sexual relationships with that person. and always someone gets hurt in the end. just thought i put in my two cents

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Posted by: Meaffrautle at September 29, 2010 8:45 PM

Hi, Thanks for your post.
In my opinion, sexual relationship should not go hand in hand with only the animalistic part of our self. It involves love and trust.
If people are too busy to find and attract the right person in their lives, then they should not look to hurt other people by keeping them as friends only for their sexual fulfilment.
Thanks again for your post.

Posted by: Noah from attract women help at November 19, 2010 12:05 PM

I think that friends with benefits can actually be a good thing.

Take a student for example, everyone has sexual needs but a student for example wont want the extra stress and emotions that come with relationships.

Even if the relationship is good then it will still be distracting from such things as exams, coursework etc. I'm not saying that a friends with benefits is not distracting as I'm sure it actually does come with some emotional attachment.

If you could truly have a sexual partner who simply is a friend with benefits and holds no other emotional attachment with you then I believe this is only a good thing - provided both parties feel this way.

Anyway, I'm sure lots of loving couples started by being friends with benefits and then realised they wanted to try a relationship together.

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Posted by: Raye Yori at January 15, 2011 1:01 AM

Friends with benefits is exactly that. Friends-with-benefits. The key to making that situation work is to make sure both of you are on the same page and to have open communication. Because more times then not, someone get's too "emotionally" attached and wants from the friends with benefits agreement.

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I think that, as we live in a modern society, these types of relationships have become more and more accepted by the mainstream. However, where they do seem to cause a potential problem is in the smaller number of cases where these types of arrangements are made by married people. Whether with the other spouse's consent or not, they at best undermine the marriage, and at worst could be a short cut to the divorce court. Nice post.

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Yeah its a tricky one. I personally believe that you are better having a friend with benefits than going out into town and having a different 'friend' every weekend. You gotta keep your love log down for the person you do finally marry. No guy wants to hear that he is number 32.

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