BA 1001
There is nothing more than being an orientation leader that I want in my life right now. Ever since the first few months of being at the University have I grown and broken out of my potential as a highly extroverted person that likes to communicate and network with hundreds of people around campus. I am at the University of MN not exactly by choice, but more by default. By default I mean in the sense that I never really had an idea of where I wanted to go, I got into the University of Minnesota, and a few other schools, including the naval academy but didn’t know much about where I wanted to head with my life. I knew the most about the U because it is close to home and my father works on the St. Paul campus. I knew that I could enjoy life and learn here, with my family close by and the knowledge of knowing about the Twin Cities. It took only a few only until I realized that I love the twin cities, the people here, and the connections that I could easily make since this was my city. After one month a school I ran randomly into a few fraternity gentleman in the lobby of frontier hall. They invited to a Gopher Sports Challenge. I almost declined because they needed an alternate and I believed I was above that level, but I decided to help them out. The few next days I was again invited to some sports events and a Monday night dinner. I learned a lot about their organization, what they were about, what they did for campus and the community and the fact that they offered alcohol free housing. I never thought that fact that a frat could be “dry� and never thought that I would join one, but this factor appealed to my parents and I decided to join up. This organization, I believe, released my potential as a networking person allowing me to spread my name, ideas, and my organization of Phi Gamma Delta throughout campus. Our nickname is FIJI and ever since I joined, our house has increased our GPA, our amount of community service has gone up, and our recognition has increased all around by other Greek members. I have been Social chair for FIJI, setting up large formal events and exchanges, which by someone of my members have said had been the best ever. I am currently Sports chair, setting up rosters and being a captain for my football and basketball teams. We are currently in the playoffs and just lost out championship game in our homecoming league. Also I am on the recruitment committee, I have been learning how to reach out to random people and improve my speaking and communication skills. We do a lot of event coordination and have to know how to make people interested in this amazing organization that I myself have come to love. Since joining my GPA has increased and I believe I have a lot of life skills that I have greatly improved that will dearly help me in future jobs and careers. I believe that my fraternity of only 25 people has allowed me to meet and reach out to hundreds making this huge campus of 50,000 people seem like it really isn’t that big after all. It isn’t and everyday I see many of my friends constantly as I walk down the streets.
In addition to all the work that I do in Phi Gamma Delta I have learned and been involved in some addition activities. Through a few close friends I had spent a lot of time at Hillel meeting the people and going to a couple of their events. I almost ran for a cabinet position, but my schedule is very busy. I still try and get over there a lot to see what’s going on. It’s just a great place to study, meet new people, and relax even though I am zero percent Jewish. In addition to zero percent, lets talk about the Pakistani Student Association. Yes, that right I have been to a couple of these events so. I am Catholic, white man at a nearly 100% Pakistani event. The reasoning is that I have a group of really close friends that are all Pakistani that lived by me and went to my high school. Now most of the same kids went to the University of MN and we continue to hang out all the time. I love going to their ceremonies, weddings, and other random events as I learn a lot about the culture. Why not get out there and learn about other people’s lives? I know everything about myself and other Caucasians, so how would that be exciting. One of those friends joined Sigma Lamba Beta, a multicultural fraternity without a house, but has told me about the values and landmarks that they are build around and upon. I believe that my best friend and I joined to very similar fraternities; both of us are similar and open to everybody in order to prepare people for the world. Our five top values are Friendship, knowledge, service, morality, and excellence. Every single person has their best value and their weakness. I believe strongest to be friendship, I am an extremely social person and feed of the energy of people around people. I would love to be a leader to teach people about the University of Minnesota because this last summer I worked in a food science lab, with only a few others bored to death. There are so few people in the summer compared to the regular school year. Being an orientation leader would fill my day with meeting new students everyday and making myself enjoy my life and job daily. There is nothing more than I like to help people and set up events. During the week or weekends I am always calling and bringing people places to where they want or need to go. I usually like to take a lot of responsibility and I hate it when I screw up or fail in the sense that I don’t find one’s needs or somebody is not having a great time. I want people to look up to me and see me as someone who can always help. Something that I probably could improve upon that will be necessary will be talking more professionally during tours, or orientation to parents to students. I am a student to I am more relaxed in that sense but I believe through training and when the time is necessary I usually get my act together a lot more. I want to get out there and meet new people. I want my students to remember me down the road or recognize me later on campus. I remember my leader to this day. I have even run into him a couple time in the last year, He was amazing and told us how he has developed since a freshman man. Everybody changes through one’s years of college. I have changed, but am still changing to become one of finest and best know, and someone who can help this campus and prepare myself too.
Opportunities like this cannot slip from me, Orientation and welcome week will be amazing and meeting the other leaders too I believe will be a great experience. I wanted to be a new student weekend leader last year but my class schedule didn’t allow it. This year is different and I will have the time. I am thinking of looking into being a CA and a tour guide in addition to this program assistant position. If selected I will not drop of and continue this till the end and hopefully the year after that. I had many friends that did NSW last year and I was disappointed that I couldn’t do it, this time though, I am going all out.