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What would your mother think?

The "they" that are "THEY" say that one should never do or say anything that one wouldn't feel comfortable telling one's mother. One reason I have not yet posted about something I've done is because my mother might not approve (at least too much). But I've gotten so much positive feedback, that I have to tell her sometime.

I colored some of my hair blue. There. I've said it, and it's out there.

Don't believe me? Here's the evidence:

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It's been so fun. People are always telling me how cool it is. A 70-something gentleman waiting in a line with me leaned over and said, "I like your hair! I had to watch it for a while to see it." You know you've done something right when you get a compliment like that from a much older gentleman.

What's probably more amusing, though, is that almost all of the adults with whom I come into any type of normal contact (friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc.) have all told me they like it. The high school kids with whom I work? Not one single word. I don't know if they think it's normal enough for adults to have colored hair now, or if they are just afraid to tell me how desperately uncool they think I am, trying to be a young person, and all.

I would never have dreamed about coloring my hair when I was in high school. I think I needed to be older than 20, and now into the self-confidence I've gained in my 30s to start having fun.

Yes, I bleached the hair first. That process takes about 4 hours with as dark and healthy as my hair is. The coloring itself takes 30 minutes. It's a fascinating process because the initial blue can be so dark as to really blend in with my original dark brown (ignore any grey you might see--and blame that on my mom....). As the dye starts to fade, though, the colors shift from blue to teal to turquoise. In certain lights, you can sometimes see a purple-ish color. And at other times, it might appear greenish...that comes from where my hair didn't quite bleach to platinum, but stayed more of a blonde color.

But don't worry, mom. I promise I won't go overboard. I'm not a fan of pink or neon colors, so you probably won't see those. And I have a whole jar of blue Manic Panic to get through....

Comments

Doing things you want to do, or experimenting on your own takes a lot of self-confidence. Practice your communication skills and you will gain more confidence.

Communication skills help in developing your self-confidence. You can handle things or situations well if you know how to communicate well. You can talk it out to people and carry yourself in public.

Doing things you want to do, or experimenting on your own takes a lot of self-confidence. Practice your communication skills and you will gain more confidence.

Communication skills help in developing your self-confidence. You can handle things or situations well if you know how to communicate well. You can talk it out to people and carry yourself in public.

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