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One of the topics I found most fascinating from this weeks lectures was egocentrism in children. Some of the videos we viewed in class were quite shocking, for example when the little girl seemed to follow the story of the footprints and who ate the muffins perfectly but could not see that someone could potentially not have all the information she has. Also, children were shown a view of the mountains (as shown below) and then were asked what would you see from a different perspective and they still responded with what they were seeing.


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Egocentrism is defined as children having the power to only think of themselves and putting themselves first. It also makes "putting themselves in someone else's shoes" impossible. They cannot imagine how someone else would feel in a certain situation, only how they feel.

I never put much thought into this particular topic until seeing and reading about this. Now that I have thought about it, I have looked back at my experience with my own little brother and seen how this does prove to be quite a true stage in children. My little brother would always do things that only benefitted him and I or my parents would ask him, "How do you think that made ____ feel?" and he really seemed not to know. He only could think about how he felt and what would make him happy. Even though most people grow out of this phase, I would say some adults seem to always put themselves first, I suppose everyone has egocentric behaviors and thoughts at sometime or another.

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I agree people in general are very egocentric but children are even more egocentric. I like thinking about the biological aspect of how children might be egocentric. Children might be egocentric because of evolutionary causes and the innate behavior to survive at any cost. They worry about themselves all the time and focus on the needs that are apparent to them. When a child is hungry he cries or screams so that his/her mother will feed him/her. They want to live and live a good healthy life and need nutrients and needs their needs to be met.

Your entry makes me wonder how children who are raised in a collective culture (such as Asia and Africa) would fair on those egocentrism tests. It's well known that people in westernized countries, especially Americans, have individualistic views as adults so it's no surprise that American children show great signs of egocentrism. Although this is just an assumption I would bet that children raised in a collective culture might be better equipped to answer those questions correctly.

This entry is very interesting, and I have been thinking about this subject quite a bit also since the lecture. I found it odd at first thinking about how children can be egotistical as you also did, but once I realized that this in fact is very true, it made a lot of sense. I think that children are not necessarily raised to be egotistical, but it is more of their nature as a human. If they were not like this when they are very young and decided to give the extra food to their mother, for instance, or their older siblings, they might not survive. They essentially need to be selfish especially when they are very small because they are not able to take care of themselves, and having this selfish attitude is the best they can do to "take care of themselves," as far as a biological hypothesis for why this happens in young children. My hypothesis does not really cover why children are selfish with their toys and can sometimes be mean to other children, but maybe it just carries over to other areas besides survival when they learn that they can get what they want.

I thought that your entry was really interesting. I think children are a lot more egotistical than people in general, but its weird to think about how children turn out to be this way, and what makes them that way. I agree that i have never put that much thinking into the topic, or hardly thought about it at all but when you do get into it, you notice how realistic it is.

I agree that I have always found this topic interesting. For me, it is mostly because I find it interesting that, like you said, some adults never grow out of that stage. It is interesting to me that some adults can pass that technical stage, but never really be able to put themselves in other people's shoes. I am interested to know what part of the brain controls that egocentrism, if there is one, and if perhaps that is why adults can also be oblivious to other people's feelings to the extent that they cannot even comprehend how what they are doing affects other people at all.

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