Who's your daddy?

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A mother and father are both very important for the development of a child. Most adults if they could choose would like both mother and father involvement in their childhood. Research has shown the positives of father involvement and the negatives of father absent households. However, over 29 million children in the United States do not live with their fathers. This statistic is very surprising to me. I have always known some children do not grow up with a father, but I never knew these children amounted to over 39%. A father present in a child's life has many benefits for example involvement in school which leads to better academic performance, discipline, and encouragement to be independent. While a father absent in a child's life increases the chances of teen pregnancy, crime, violence, and drug abuse, it is certainly not the only agent that influences these children's behavior. Research has shown a father plays a crucial role in the development of a child and I believe society should place a higher value on the role of fathers.

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I agree with your point: we should place more importance on fathers. However, I believe it more difficult to do so with the media implying that men are more self-sufficient, and whatnot. Many women are under the impression that they don't need a man in their lives, and this is also a strong notion for why the media hasn't exactly exulted the fact that 39% of children don't grow up with their father.

I completely agree that the role of both parents are significant for the upbringing of a child, however as you mentioned this is not always the luxury to all relationships. What I personally believe is that it does not really matter if the father is the biological parent or not, but is merely a father figure for the child. Someone to guide him/her through the hardships of growing up, and acting as a support system for the child. Father figures can also take many forms, such as a step father, coach, teacher, uncle, etc. Just someone who will act as a safe role model and is in best interest for that child, even if this figure does not financially support the mother or the family. Moral/emotional support is of more importance in the role of parenting.

I definitely agree that a father often plays an important role in the development of a child. I also believe that two parent households are ideal settings for raising children. Although my father has a presence in my life, I, like 29 million other children in the United States, grew up living in a home without my father. I think that living in a house without a father has much less of an impact than does not knowing your father at all. But I also do believe that several children who grow up never having known their fathers do turn out okay. I think that when a father isn't present, the mother should try to make up for this herself.

I completely agree! I could not imagine not having a father. My dad is my hero, and has had such a positive impact in my life that it would be hard to imagine me being the person I am today without him. That is amazing the statistic you brought up though about how many kids do not have a father in America. Good post, very informing!

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