Engaging Assignment #2
I thought Bornstein’s gender exam was interesting because even before I took it Bornstein made a disclaimer to let the reader know this is not a fair test but this is how we are tested everyday in our culture. I felt angry and ashamed when answering some of these questions and especially the ones where it asks if you believe you are better than others due to some circumstances. I was surprised at some of my answers as well because after going through the test again I realized I came off as superior on some of them and I do not believe that is who I am. Although I felt that way I still only got a 770 on my exam.
I completed the exercise on page 63 and this one was about making a list of the different identities I have been and no longer consider myself to be. Then I listed some things I liked and some things I didn’t like about it about those identities. After completing the exercise I realized all the things I used to be I didn’t like besides one identity. In fact I could not find anything positive about what I used to be so that makes me feel as if I am on the right track in my life. Most of my former identities were harmful and only got me into trouble. Like I stated there was one certain identity I could not find anything negative about so I would like to incorporate it back into my life.
Gender according to Bornstein is something that is linked with sex, it is about the man and the penis and it is something we learn how to achieve. Gender according to me is a continuum rather than binary. I believe there are more than two genders and it is up to the individual to decide which gender they may be. I don’t believe gender should be so rigid and unfortunately it is in our culture. I believe the individual should have as much time as they need to see who they really are and then go from there. Gender according to dominate society is all about class, either you belong to the male class or the female class and there is no in between. Society also pressures you to figure out what class you are in so then you are not considered deviant.