More Choice
Choice occurs when you have a multitude of options and the ability to select whichever of them you prefer. One choice is whether or not to bear children. Another is to become a mother. But these decisions build on a legacy of choices that the ‘choice’ debate seldom mentions, like the choices to pay attention in sex ed, to read Savage Love, to consent to sexual activity, and even to rape. Still other choices may occur parallel to the pro-life/pro-choice debate. Some of these include the choice to work, to sell your eggs, to stay home, to pay for day care, to save for your children’s college, and to return to college yourself. When we talk about choice, I’m concerned we are ignoring these choices.
The right to choose is important to each of us, and to feminists, because choice (control over your own lifestyle) is essential to ending oppression by others and by other systems.
But I think we need to remember what choice really means, and that choice is something all people deserve, rather than collapsing it into a pro-life vs pro-choice binary.