The Toy Store
Walking in to the toy store you immediately see a gender division. There are “castle door�-like entrances to the “princess�-part of the toy store, big LEGO constructions encapsulating the LEGO shelves and the primary colors surrounding the part where all the board games are. I don’t mind this division. It makes is easier to find what you’re looking for but in terms of gender branding, it’s very, very bad. Now, I’ll admit it (even though I might anger some people) actually don’t mind that toys are very gender-specific. What’s wrong with girls wanting a fashion doll to dress up? And with boys wanting to crash toy trains and toy cars together? I really don’t see the big problem with all the pink tulle and glitter on toys that signals girlyness. I like the color pink and I’m damn proud of it. I don’t feel oppressed by it or feel that is telling me to be something I’m not. It’s pretty and that’s it. Anyways, with that out of the way, I do feel that it’s wrong for parents and society to forbid or look down on children who do want to play with toys that aren’t considered “appropriate� for their gender. However, that’s almost what is being said in the toy store, not only by the boxes where the toys are but also by the parents who dismiss a little girl for wanting a toy gun or a buy wanting a play cash register. However, the gender specific toys aren’t all over the plays. While in the aisle for baby toys, I noticed something...
The Toy Store
Walking in to the toy store you immediately see a gender division. There are “castle door�-like entrances to the “princess�-part of the toy store, big LEGO constructions encapsulating the LEGO shelves and the primary colors surrounding the part where all the board games are. I don’t mind this division. It makes is easier to find what you’re looking for but in terms of gender branding, it’s very, very bad. Now, I’ll admit it (even though I might anger some people) actually don’t mind that toys are very gender-specific. What’s wrong with girls wanting a fashion doll to dress up? And with boys wanting to crash toy trains and toy cars together? I really don’t see the big problem with all the pink tulle and glitter on toys that signals girlyness. I like the color pink and I’m damn proud of it. I don’t feel oppressed by it or feel that is telling me to be something I’m not. It’s pretty and that’s it. Anyways, with that out of the way, I do feel that it’s wrong for parents and society to forbid or look down on children who do want to play with toys that aren’t considered “appropriate� for their gender. However, that’s almost what is being said in the toy store, not only by the boxes where the toys are but also by the parents who dismiss a little girl for wanting a toy gun or a buy wanting a play cash register. However, the gender specific toys aren’t all over the plays. While in the aisle for baby toys, I noticed something...
Baby Toys
The early age toys do not seem to be affected by the same gender branding as the rest of the store. Early age toys include push around buggies and other transportation toys, educational toys, music instruments and mobiles. The toys come in the primary colors and are thus quite gender neutral. What’s more neutral than blue, red and yellow put together? I like that the toys are gender neutral and reminded me of something that was mentioned in Orenstein’s article. She mentioned that experts believe that while children are below the age of 6 they seem to be unaware of their fixed, unchangeable gender. Supposedly, children think they can decide whether to be a mommy and daddy. Maybe this is why the toys are gender neutral. And yes, I am aware that there are a few baby toys that are spruced up with typical boy and girl colors but I don’t feel it is as dominating as the toys for older children.
After Age 6… The Gendering Begins
The first very girly toy I studied after walking away from the baby aisle was My First Purse Which I saw on the internet after further research was in “Every girls’ favorite color; pink and purple�. Now, I don’t mind that it said that, ‘cause you can’t run away from the fact that pink is the ultimate signal for “girl� and that purple is slowly getting the same status. What really disgusted me was the description of the contents, namely make up, mirror, keys and debit car “just like mommy’s�. How’s that for raising a consumer? I actually thought, while reading Lynn Peril’s Kiddie Pink, that the days of raising little girls to be lean mean buying machines were long gone. I thought that as we live in a capitalistic world and there’s no avoiding being a consumer anyway. However, this toy angered me a little. Now, come on… a debit card? What’s wrong with play money? Not only is it insulting that toy companies assume that “mommy� only has a debit card but it is just completely wrong value to teach kids. And this is not the only purse. Sesame Street also has one. It is also pink and purple… While as their play electrical guitar is dark blue and black. I thought Sesame Street would know better but apparently this is what happens when one enters the realm of toys for older kids. Suddenly, even educational toys such as instruments are gendered. The truly gendered toys appear such as beginner’s ballerina set, pink jewellery boxes, toy guns and action figures appear at this stage. And transportation toys such as bikes and cars, which we saw in primary colors, are now branded with pink and blue hues.
Arts and crafts, which I would consider gender-free, I figure out is not. There are the generic paints and coloring books which seem neutral but as one comes toward the more advanced crafts, it seems to almost only appeal to girls. Forget the “make your own jewellery�-sets, those are and will always be for girls but other things like the “paint your own ceramic lamp�-set should have been more neutral. As I look at the box I do see that there are other varieties than the one the one that caught my eye which is the “Groovy Ceramic Lamp�. However, this is the only available at the moment; it has pink trimmings… need I say more?
The only really neutral toys seem to me classic or family board games but other toys that seem very unisex are given very distinct color. Toys like Speed Stacks and children’s digital camera come in different colors as to signal “Hey, both boys and girls can play with us! Buy us… now!� It is almost insulting that companies don’t give enough credit to parents… as though parents would only buy a certain toy if it has the true color for their little girl or little boy.
It isn’t only the color that gender brands a toy. Toys that should be gender neutral aren’t because they have a tie in with a certain character such as Dora the Explorer. She has her own cashier register and her face is plastered all over it. Now, I’m no child psychologist but I have a feeling that a little boy wouldn’t pick up this cash register, because he won’t be able to identify with the face looking back at him… even though she is a bit of a tomboy. And this is really sad because from experience, I do know that both boys and girls like playing supermarket… There are of course play cash registers that are more neural but the point is; you’ll never see a Superman cash-register. Which leads us to
Household Items
The playhouses I saw was divided between two categories; the tricked out ones that are pink and fancy, and the simple ones that were either wood-colored or tinted with primary colors. I’m not sure as what to think about the blinged out houses. On the one hand they are great for pretend which playing is all about- then again however, they do present wrong values and ideals for children. The less glamorous houses may not be all that exciting but they do offer one great thing and that’s neutrality. We like that. The kitchen sets are less pink than the ones Peril described in her article. They look like the real life ones and that signals that both boys and girls can play with it. The boxes in which these kitchens are in also display both girls and boys playing with the stoves and cupboards. However, the tea sets remain as girly as ever. Pinks and flowers cover the cups and plates however, household appliances look less “pink think� as I could imagine they did in the “old days�. They now look like the real appliances which mom and dad (hopefully) use at home. I do know that the fact they aren’t all decorated with flowers and rainbows doesn’t make the world a better and non-women oppressive place but I do feel it is a step forward in the right direction. And yes, I am aware that there are still pink house appliances… I’m just saying…
Princess
The princess stuff is very prominent and dominates with all its pink and flutters. There’s no doubt that this section is “No Boys Allowed� with all its pinks, pastels and frills that flutter. I am as opposed to Orenstein all for the princess. I’m no expert but I don’t think that little girls grow up thinking that they are supposed to be tall, skinny, wear long gowns and be in Technicolor. I give kids a little more credit. When boys run around pretending that they are cars, no one worries that they will grow up thinking that they’ll become a car or an engine. I feel that being a princess is just a fun and playful fantasy… I grew up playing princess with all my friends and I think we turned out alright. Anyways, what I wanted to get into was that no one ever makes a big deal out of the boys having their own special “thing�. No one complains when a boy plays too much baseball or basketball or wrestle each other to the ground. It’s always “boys will be boys�. But why can’t girls be girls?
Dolls vs. Action Figures
As Shari Inness has already touched much upon this, I won’t get much into it. She is right about the female action figures. There aren’t many on the shelves. I would however just point to the fact that action figures based on comics can’t help if there aren’t female figures. It’s not always that comics don’t always include female superheroes. However, I would like to criticize the WWE action figures. I’m sure there are more women in wrestling than the two they had as action figures. They had Fabulous Moolah (I’m not even sure she is a girl) and Melian (who was a part of a set). That was a bit off, I thought. The dolls are what dolls used to be. I can’t say much except that they really ought not advertise “Playing mommy� or “Take care of her/him just like mommy would� on the boxes. I think it’s wrong that there isn’t some indication that some daddies do take care of babies also. Not only mommies take care of babies.
Barbie vs. Bratz
Oh, and just a quick comment on Barbies and Bratz dolls before I end this rather long blog. I feel Barbies (the original ones) are better than Bratz because first of all Barbie is PC; she has a pooper scooper as accessory, dang it! � Second of all Barbies aren’t as “destructive� as Bratz because Barbies are supposed to look and be grown ups. Bratz aren’t which signals that kids should look like Bratz dolls do. It’s quite clear that Barbie is a figure kids would “want to become� later in life while as Bratz is a figure kids would “want to be now�.