The Digital Storytelling of Unequal Rights
America is the home of the brave and land of the free, right? Unfortunately not. At least not free for our homosexual population. Though for centuries we have been known for our human rights and equality, today we are behind other nations in our stance on gay rights.
I chose two digital story telling clips form The Center, a digital media project website based out of San Diego County. It’s sole purpose is as a website to support the LGBT cause and its members. I decided to go to this website because I avidly support gay rights. So much so that I can’t see the other side of the issue when I try to. I feel that I could never succumb to that level of ignorance. My feelings are really strong on this, as you can tell.
A Marriage Equality Story
The Triumph of Forbidden Love
The first clip that I watched was “A Marriage Equality Story.� Fernando Lopez wrote it. He had met his husband when he was 19. They soon fell fast in love. Michael got sick soon got sick with a pain in his side. He did not seek medical attention because he did not have insurance. Because his condition was left untreated his health quickly worsen and he went into the hospital where he was unconscious for 5 days. After this ordeal they have started speaking out about marriage equality, in any way possible. Fernando has become a public speaker on gay rights and continues to fight for his rights each day.
The second clip that I chose is “Forbidden Love� by Bob Kelly and Bill Taylor. It is a story of gay love between two men that met in 1979. Back then gay rights were even less prevalent than today. They were separated through their jobs and had to hide their relationship from their families. They survived the hardest years of their lives and are still together and happy. Their message to the listeners of their story is “Live be happy, and be true to yourself, in this there lies the victory.�
I chose this video because I thought it was a touching story. They had to hide their relationship from their families. Love is the one thing that will always make you feel alive. And to keep that inside of you and hide it has got to be one of the hardest things in the world. I have so much respect for these men. They lived through decades that were not as accepting as society is today. Even though we are not where we should be, we are still better off than where we came from.
Both of these pieces were made with photos from the men’s’ relationships. Both also have a voice over telling the story in the background.
I liked these two stories because they made me realize again how important gay rights are. Everyday that I wake up I believe in equality. If I were to be asked how I felt about gay rights I would give my opinion. But sometimes I feel that people form opinions and keep them the same, unopen to change. And today I realized that I don’t do that. I am always up for listening to a good argument or hearing new viewpoints. I have not yet heard a good argument for discriminating about a group of people, but maybe some day I will. Or maybe, I never will. Because the voices of these men rang so true, that they could never be wrong.





























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