The Value of a Woman
Rich plastic surgeons in a city where beauty means everything, Dr. 90210 is a reality TV program that follows the lives of plastic surgeons in Beverly Hills, California. The episode that I viewed was “Girls Just Want to Get Done�. It featured two Hooters waitresses hoping to get breast augmentations and a young teen girl in for pubic liposuction. I enjoy watching the show, but when using feminist analysis to examine the storyline I can see that the show really exemplifies what is wrong with the stereotypical lifestyles of women that American society has created.
Dr. 90210 is broadcast on E! Entertainment Television and is typically there for a male audience. This show depicts the pressure put on people (especially women) to be perfect. The Hooters girls are shown making comments on how women need bouncy breasts and big boobs=good boobs, etc. This is one instance of how our society has made it “normal� for women to have big boobs because it’s the only way that men will find them attractive. Laurel Richardson states on page 101 of Feminist Frontiers that “in practice women are defined in terms of their sexual desirability to men�. It should be a top priority for all good girls to settle down and find a good husband to raise a family and live the American dream. It’s become so normalized in our society for plastic surgery as a quick fix. One doctor showed this when he stated, “Coming to Beverly Hills for breast augmentation is like goin’ to Belgium for chocolates.�
Because of the easy access and availability to plastic surgery one doctor went so far as to say, “Personality is #1 when looking for women because we can change anything else we want to after�. If we aren’t perfect enough for the eyes of society, we can be “fixed�. However, even our personalities aren’t free from the pressures of society. Later in the program, Dr. Rey (one of the surgeons) is on a trip to Venezuela trying to find out why Venezuelan women are so beautiful. In one scene, Dr. Rey is visiting The Giselle Academy where young girls and women are taught to behave like ladies. True ladies have certain personalities and characteristics that they have to exhibit if they want to fit in with societal norms.
Another way that societal norms intervened was through the relationship of Dr. Rey and his wife. Dr. Rey was able to go off to Venezuela and meet beauty pageant queens while his wife stayed home being “mom�. One scene showed Dr. Rey at the beach with a gorgeous woman and then cut to his wife at home playing and reading with the children. The wife was also shown making statements like “I feel more confident when I’m alone�. Living in a dichotomized world of man or woman places expectations on both genders. Men are the providers and thus deserve “nights out with the boys� and vacations. Women are expected to be weak and dependent on their husbands, being stay at home moms or homemakers while their husbands are free to chase their dreams.
In another segment, a different Dr. is shown throwing a “Botox Party�. It’s becoming unacceptable for women to look their age; younger is better. After injecting a beautiful woman with botox in her forehead, the doctor commented, “There, now you’re normal.� Even in old age, it seems as though the true measure of a woman is in terms of her beauty and her sexual attractiveness to men. This just isn’t the case for aging men.
Feminist Frontiers examines plastic surgery in Debra Gimlin’s “Cosmetic Surgery: Paying for Your Beauty�. Gimlin states on page 105 that “cosmetic surgery stands, for many theorists and social critics, as the ultimate invasion of the human body for the sake of physical beauty�. On page 203, she states that “some writers have dealt with cosmetic surgery as if it were an attempt to attain idealized female beauty in order to gain the approval of men. Rather, they alter their bodies for their own satisfaction…to create what they consider a normal appearance�. This leads one to ask the question, what is normal? Mass media is constantly stuffing images of the real/ideal woman into the minds of young women and men. These images give the false hope that if we have the perfect, most attractive body we will be more self-confident and find more lasting happiness. This leads to another question, aren’t even the most gorgeous people on Earth unhappy at times?
Society has placed all this pressure on women to be “normal� to be “beautiful�. We have to be beautiful so that we can fit into the general public’s view of what a woman should be doing with her life, what types of relationships she should have, etc. Dr. 90210 is, in my opinion, a very entertaining show. At its core, it represents the need for women’s value to be defined as our culture says it should, by how attractive we are to the men around us.
Comments
Creating confidence is not only by making yourself beautiful. Creating confidence should start from within yourself. You have to start believing that you are beautiful.
A woman becomes more beautiful if she has the inner beauty. She needs to be more confident of herself because that's what makes her more beautiful. To be beautiful, she herself should believe that she is beautiful so that it will come out of her.
Posted by: Creating Confidence | June 13, 2007 12:18 PM
Inferiority complex has really been an issue with women. The society has set a certain standard of beauty for women - physical beauty. But what women must realize is that its the inner beauty that matters. Its what they need to be confident of. They must be more confident of themselves.
Women will be more confident if they improve their communication skills better. It will help them to be more outgoing and not shy as they seem to be just because of their inferiority complexes.
Posted by: Communication Skills | September 18, 2007 5:34 PM
Dr. 90210 is a reality TV show that really exemplifies the fault with the stereotypical lifestyles of women in American society. Mere plastic surgery does not have the power to uplift the certain personalities and characteristics that true ladies have in them and exhibit to fit in with societal norms.
Posted by: Philips | January 2, 2008 1:02 AM
This type of show can really affect a woman's self-esteem. It somehow dictates what a woman should be. It causes for most women to feel insecure or lose self-confidence because they are not what is depicted on the show.
Women should be positive all the time to be able to feel great about themselves. It will show in them if they feel confident and will make them beautiful. The Sedona Method is an effective way to gain emotional wellness that helps a person feel positive and great. Inner beauty reflects in one's outer being that is the real beauty a woman should have.
Posted by: sedona method | May 12, 2008 11:32 AM