November 2011 Archives

Key Takeaways from Psychology 1001

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Overall, taking psychology 1001 was a positive experience. At times, it was very time consuming, and I spent more time doing reading and homework for this class than my upper level business classes. I learned a lot though, and it was worth it to put the time and effort it. Since there are so many things that interested me, things that I will always remember, about this class, it was hard for me to pick one thing that I particularly liked.

            After contemplating for a while about what I would choose, I decided the chapter about psychological disorders was the most interesting. Reading this chapter actually kind of scared me! Some of the psychological disorders, like schizophrenia and psychopathic personality, were very creepy to read about. However, hearing things about mental illness is so prevalent in our society these days, so it was easy to relate this chapter to the real world.

            In higher school, I read several books and watched many movies about regarding mental illness, like One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Girl, Interrupted,  "As Good As It Gets," and "The Sixth Sense." It was interesting to be able to learn about the various psychological disorders portrayed in these movies, books, and in the media and connect them to the characters.

            There were a lot of things I learned from taking this course, and I think it applies to every major and every field of work. I would recommend this class to everyone even though it was immense amounts of work.

Life-long reminiscence

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Going through the Introduction to Psychology was a requirement for my degree. I have never taken a Psychology class before and I was hoping that I would really like it but overall, we didn't mesh well. I still learned clusters of helpful ideas such as helpful study tips that I will use for later classes. During the tenth week of our semester we read through chapter 7 that had all to do with memory. Throughout the week Mr. Matthew Mcgue spoke about the chapter and made sure to hit major points preparing the students for the exam and the real college world with the necessity of studying. He went through the three systems of memory. These are visual, short term and long term memory. When it comes to studying all three are needed but unless the information gets into the long term memory you will not be able to recall it when you really need it such as an exam. Mr. Mcgue also gave his students great ideas for studying such as instead of cramming, which in the end rarely ever works efficiently, read a little every day and make sure to relate what you are reading to your own life. When you are reading those daily portions make sure to question yourself that you understand what you are reading. Using these new study skills I have seen an improvement in my scores and hopefully this is just the beginning. 

The Big Five Model of Personality

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I have thoroughly enjoyed all of the concepts and reasoning that I have learned in this psychology course. To me, none of the things that we have learned stick out more than the Big Five Model of Personality. I believe that this model will be something that I will never forgot for the rest of my life, and will change the way that I think about people's personalities in every day life. 

This model is so important to me because I believe that it demonstrates a great way to divide people's personalities into categories. You could take just about any human being on this planet and fit their personality into one of the five. Here are the five different categories:

1. Openness to Experience: people tend to be intellectually curious and unconventional.
2. Conscientiousness: people tend to be careful and responsible.
3. Extraversion: people tend to be social and lively.
4. Agreeableness: people tend to be sociable and easy to get along with.
5. Neuroticism: tend to be tense and moody.

As you can see, many personalities if not all of them can fit onto this list. If you have a friend that is always the life of the party you know that they are an extraverted person. If your mom is very responsible and careful with her movements you know that she should belong in the conscientiousness category. This concept has been embedded in my mind, and I believe that I will always be consciously aware of it when evaluating personalities. It's even a good way to pass the time, evaluating people you know and trying to fit their personality into one of these categories. 


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Use of Physical Violence in Raising Children

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Varying forms of physical punishment have been used in the raising of children for many years.  Does this mean that physical violence such as spanking is a proper and effective way to raise children? No, just because something has been used in the past does not make it right on any accounts.

 

In an article done by Time magazine in May of 2010, "Of the nearly 2,500 youngsters in the study, those who were spanked more frequently at age 3 were much more likely to be aggressive by age 5." The article also states "The odds of a child being more aggressive at age 5 increased by 50% if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began."  The article offers fairly strong evidence that spanking in any situation is never okay.  The reason as to why spanking is ineffective is that it promotes fear in children and may actually increase their likelihood of doing the behavior.

 

The article offers time outs as a more effective way to discipline children.  My parents used this tactic with me when growing up. I have used this tactic many times as well when I worked at a camp with children that had behavioral problems.  Time outs give children a chance to think about why they are being punished.  It also gives them the ability to think about how they are feeling and why.   Physical violence in children should never be used as a parenting tool but instead time outs and communication between parents and children. 

Link to Article
Time Magazine-The Long Term Effects of Spanking

Corporal Punishment and Children

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                It has long been discussed whether the use of physical violence to punish children leads to a higher level of discipline, or simply reinforces violent behavior in children. One study reported by the American Psychological Association compared the relationship between parents' views towards violence, and children's attitudes towards the appropriateness of violence in social situations. This study found that parents who displayed their disapproval of violence to their children raised offspring that were less prone to violent behavior. In addition, parents who used physical violence as a form of punishment typically raised children who were more likely to fight or bully other children. This concludes that the presence of violent behaviors in parents correlates with aggressiveness in children. However, as stated in the Lilienfeld text, it is not only the parents' behavior that affects that children's, but instead, the way the child acts affects how the parent will respond. This leads me to wonder whether violence in child rearing causes violent behavior in children, or whether it simply implies correlation.

                Even if this study cannot prove causation between the two, there has been research done to show that children of young ages lack the cognitive ability to fully understand their experiences, and are more vulnerable to these violent influences. This information, along with the previous relationship, suggests that violence does not mix well with child rearing. Violent themes and behaviors in the presence of young children is strongly associated with violent behaviors later in life.

                As a child I was never exposed to high levels of violence, but in retrospect I can see the relationship between violence in the households of my friends and their behaviors. From this I will conclude that I will never use violence to help discipline children.

http://www.apa.org/pi/prevent-violence/resources/violent-behavior.aspx

The Practicality of Corporal Punishment

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Physical punishment has long been used as a method of keeping misbehaving children in line. Often times a spanking or a pinch on the arm is enough to keep a child from acting out of line. But is this method ethical? And further, is it even effective? Proponents of this form of parenting argue that it holds practical value and that even if it is objectionable, children learn right from wrong quickly. To the contrary however, there are several pragmatic implications that reject this use of physical punishment.

One reason is that children who are the recipients of this form of punishment may in turn act violently towards others. As we learned in chapter six of the Lilienfeld text, children engage in observational learning. In other words, if a child were to witness physical violence (or in this case, experience it) they may become more aggressive towards others. In fact, a study from the University of Connecticut found this to be the case.

                Another reason to withhold the metaphoric (or god forbid, literal) whip is that it has the possibility to create divisions between parent and child. While using corporal punishment isn't mutually exclusive with having a loving parent or guardian, it would seem that violence used towards children has a propensity to create a fearful relationship. According to researcher Elizabeth Gershoff, children who receive physical punishment may respond with emotions of fear or anger that are then associated with their parent. And as we learned in chapter 10, a loving and trusting relationship is important to a parent-child relationship.

                Further, using physical punishment may not even result in corrected behavior. According to B.F. Skinner, continued use of punishment (as with corporal punishment) doesn't teach a child what to do - it only teaches them what not to do (Azrin & Holz, 1966). So while hitting a child may stop them from acting out on one or two occasions, in the long run, physical punishment will do more harm than good.   

Don't Hit Your Kids Forever?

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In Science Daily, a news website devoted to scientific news, an article has stated that a correlation has been found between parental use of physical discipline declining as their children grow (spanking, hitting, etc).  The article also states when physical discipline persists throughout childhood that children may be more likely to develop behavior problems in their teens and later years.  The research that supports this correlation was compiled at Universities such as Duke, Oklahoma State, Pittsburgh, Auburn, and Indiana. These universities followed hundreds of children ages 5-16 on their study.

While the broad amount of researchers of this claim and its source makes it seem trustworthy, the provided information is vague at best.  The article is actually making two claims, one that physical discipline by parents tends to decrease as children develop, and another that children that are continuously disciplined in this manner throughout their development are more likely to have behavior problems.  Exactly what types of behavioral problems are exhibited is not identified in the article.  Also numbers such as the percentage of parents who used physical discipline and the increase in behavior problems shown by the children who are continuously physically disciplined versus their counterparts are not given.

While this claim may not be extraordinary, the severe lack of evidence given makes the results questionable.  Also the explanation that parents stop physically disciplining their kids as they grow is vague, and does not rule out rival hypothesis such as children may behave better if parents take a semi-violent stand against them when they are younger, exposing confirmation bias.

Personally I believe children should never be physically abused as other methods are more efficient and identify the bad behavior more satisfactorily, but this article does not necessarily take a stand against physical abuse in early childhood. This flaw could possibly make reader infer that physical correction of "naughty" children is okay to a certain point of development.  A preliminary study to this one should be conducted to find if there is any difference in behavioral problems in kids who are disciplined physically or by other means.

Blog#5: Use of violence rising children

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This weeks' discussion is about using physical punishment in children. This topic has been discussed for a long time and there are some different groups that agree or disagree about this issue. Personally, I think that use of violence rising in children is not right thing to do. While many people across the world have different thoughts and argument by the specific cultures or traditions, my country, South Korea, is actually one of the nation that uses corporal punishment. However, I don't believe that punishing children physically is the best way to treat children. One of the friends of mine grew up under very strict parents. His parents always gave his physical punishment when he did something wrong. I remember that he told me that his parents punish him so often even with very trivial thing that he have done. So he always had a lot of complain about that. As he is getting older, his parents physical punishment affected his so badly that my friend actually ran away from home and did not even keep in touch with this parents for more than a month. I understand that his parents were thinking that they were doing the right thing to thier child in order to make him as a good person, however, their abuse of physical punishment produced a contrary result. Like this, there are numerous ways to treat children other than physically punished. Actually, the children who grow up in love and care of their parents seem more happy and have great personality than the children who raised up in violent parents. There is a book called, "Do not even hit with a flower." Like the title of the book said, parents supposed to rise children with great love, not the punishment.

Violence? No way.

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     There are many controversies over whether physical punishment is helpful in raising children or not. Some people believe that it is ok to give children a little discipline like spanking to help children getting rid of the bad manners. People who against the physical punishment believe that teaching is correct but parents need to have proper method. I agree with the second idea. There are so many people every day studying in teaching methods, therefore, I think there should be tons of ways to raise children. Why people are just considering using violence?

     When I was in elementary school, there was a boy in our class who had an aggressive father. (That's what we thought, at least.) He physically punished the boy for many small reasons. I can still remember once, the teacher informed the father that his child hadn't turned the homework in. Of course, there were many other kids hadn't either. This father showed up after the school and took this boy to the restroom. Then we heard some punching noise and the boy's begging sound. These noises continued until the teacher walked in. Besides, we could always see the scars and bruises appeared on the boy's body. We asked him what's going on, but he never gave us the answer. This boy was living in the fear of being beaten all the time and this kind of thought distract him from the regular school work or even prevent him from being a normal child. He dared not to ask a question or spoke his opinion out loud because he was afraid of making mistakes even his father was not there. I have never seen this boy after primary school but I am sure even the scars on body were all healed. The scars on heart would be hard to remove。

     Having this part of the memory so clear, I just have several suggestions to the parents. First, never forget what the purpose is. Parents are supposed to conduct the kids in doing the proper things. So do not let the inappropriate ways of teaching distract the purpose. Second, the children likes imitate their parents. When they are hitting the children, in some ways, they are actually teaching the children that it is ok to use violence to solve the problem. The children might be more aggressive when they are going to solve the problems in the future. Third, consider corporal punishment as the last resort to teach the children. Try something else. I believe there will always be a win-win situation of parents and children.

Violence in Child Rearing

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As I was browsing the internet for varying opinions on this issue I found appeal to both sides of the argument. However I have concluded that for myself at least violence in child rearing has no place. To me it boils down to laziness on the parents part. Punishing children to teach them lessons without the use of violence takes ingenuity and creativity. It takes real thought to make in impact on a child in a way that doesn't involve smacking them.

This was the conclusion that I came too but another thing I wanted to address was a website I found that I find truly appalling. This Christian site to me is promoting nothing short of child abuse and I have to wonder how this can be considered legal. How can adults in this day and age still believe that this is ok?

http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0303/spanking.html

Violence in child rearing.

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In child rearing, parents are presented with tools to raise their children, such as positive reinforcement or disciplinary action. The latter is a touchy subject. At what point is disciplinary action considered excessive, brutal, or violent? Discipline is important to child rearing, but there should be guidelines.

Research shows that using aggressive disciplinary action can raise a child's aggressiveness by 50% by age 5. Unless the parents are trying to raise their children to be in the NHL, this can not be perceived as a good thing. However, if a parent spanks their child, or uses some other form of aggressive treatment, there isn't a single definitive outcome. A child MAY become more aggressive or the child may learn a valuable lesson--without becoming fearful or aggressive.

What is my stance on the matter? I am against violence in child raising, but I am in support of disciplining children, as it was an integral part of my upbringing. I believe there are guidelines to how parents can discipline their children and it involves self-control on the parents' behalf. If a parent spanks their child in anger and frustration, it is violent, but I believe it can teach valuable lessons when used with composure. I remember my disciplinary treatment when it was aggressive. I was more afraid of the white-hot anger, even when the punishment was trivial. However, I did develop an aggressive stance in certain and sometimes necessary situations, but as my parents showed me self-control, I developed my own and I wasn't fearful anymore.


Post 5: Corporal Parenting Practices

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The debate over whether or not to physically punish children is a difficult one for me to decide.  My personal experience with corporal punishment leaves me with mixed feeling on the subject.

My father used obedience practices that would probably provoke great protest in light of the responses to recent videos (Hillary Adams whipping video).  Until I left home I never realized that most parent-child relationships were non-violent?  Most parents don't rehearse answers to the pediatrics' questioning "Do you feel safe at home?"  And, most parents don't reiterate to their children that they're merely property -- owned and alive only because of their parents' generosity. 

I will confess there is a very powerful psychology protecting family constructs of this type.  From very early, my sister and I were taught never to discuss our father's obedience practices -- in fact we were taught to protect him from the scrutiny of others.  Members outside the family were untrustworthy in this respect, unless of course they followed the same dogma.  We were taught to laugh at and pity the concerns of the unsuccessful parents who believed in simple "time-outs", whose ineffective practices lead to unruly children without ambition.  Time and again spectators complimented our excellent behavior and lack of rebellion -- reaffirming the appropriateness of our punishments.

I still would likely be steadfast in my promotion of physical punishment were it not for my complete rejection from its system after the disclosure of my sexuality and subsequent dismissal from my parents house. 

Three years after my forced flight from my parents' nest, I believe I'm probably in an unique situation.  After being consumed in a likely abusive and certainly psychologically-entrapping patriarchal system; after being rejected by this system; and, after re-defining myself with a self-empowered dogma, I can could look on my adolescence rather objectively and sift from the remnants of an omnipotent parenting style the few successful nuggets.

First and foremost, the hard thing about physical punishment is that it works.  Children respond to pain.  Pain hurts, and after repetition a well-directed inflicted pain could be associated with a particular unwanted action.  Highly-controlled, emotionally-independent distribution of corporal punishment would theoretically work similar to Pavlovian conditioning.  The bad behavior (UCS) becomes associated with spanking (CS) and triggers fear (CR).  Upon aging, children would realize their parents' conditioning methodology, be thankful, and then convert to a conscious understanding of their behavior, rather than one motivated by unconscious responses.

Parents are not highly-controlled and emotionally-independent, however.  And, furthermore, the notion that children subject to corporal punishment could suddenly transition their conditioned responses to consciously-controlled decisions is optimistic. 

My father would rage after our disobedience, and punishment would almost always ensue after angry outbursts.  My father's rage became my CS, and the fear that was my CR was over time replaced with hate and contempt.  Corporal punishment, though theoretically effective, is so easily prone to emotional infection, and seems to sever parental ties rather than support them.

As far as preparing children for conscious decision-making, I'd argue corporal punishment, or probably any physical conditioning for that matter, does a poor job.  Perhaps this sort of practice is arguably necessary when a child is incapable of understanding the consequences of their behavior; however, continued practice can only stifle individuality (by way of stifling individual motivation and decision-making) and deprive children of conscious experience. 

I've realized my success (good grades, athletic ability, yadda yadda) as a child was not a sum of my punishment, but the product of my praise (as cliche as it sounds).  My motivation was fueled more by a desire to please my parents than avoid punishment.  For me, the punishment served only as an angering reminder that I was subservient and controlled. 

So, although I am vehemently against violence especially to children, I do acknowledge that well-controlled conditioning by means of physical punishment could serve well young children who are incapable of understanding the consequence of certain actions.  However, physical punishment should be revoked quickly and should not be used in older children capable of grasping consequence.  It's use likely taints parent-child relationships and certainly renders children inexperienced with conscious decision-making. 


Potential Lasting Effects of Corporal Punishment

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Corporal punishment in child raising has been called many things: spanking, discipline, physical punishment.  Research by Murray A. Straus And Carrie L. Yodanis of the University of New Hampshire has shown a correlation between corporal punishment experienced in childhood and instances of physical assaults on spouses. One major factor they found was that some cultural norms support corporal punishment. Some people perceive parents who make it known that they would never spank their children as ineffective and tend to view these parents' children as poorly behaved, even through these children are as well-behaved or better behaved than children whose parents never spank. Studies show that physical abuse is in many cases the escalation of a cycle that began with corporal punishment.  Studies also show that families that say they do use corporal punishment tend to do so quite frequently.  Corporal punishment has also been associated in children with aggression towards other children.  Over time, children who are punished physically for misbehaving tend to apply a similar principle to other children. Some believe this mindset extends into their adulthood, and those individuals are more likely to attempt to solve the situation by physical means when they perceive that their spouse is 'misbehaving'.  These findings are correlational rather than causal, so caution must be exercised in making statements such as, "Corporal punishment in childhood leads to spousal abuse." Nevertheless, the severity of the potential negative outcomes warrants extreme caution when disciplining children, and, in my opinion, not any form of violence should be used.


Source:  Corporal Punishment in Adolescence and Physical Assults on Spouses in Later Life: What Accounts for the Link?

Violence in child rearing.

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In child rearing, parents are presented with tools to raise their children, such as positive reinforcement or disciplinary action. The latter is a touchy subject. At what point is disciplinary action considered excessive, brutal, or violent? Discipline is important to child rearing, but there should be guidelines.

Research shows that using aggressive disciplinary action can raise a child's aggressiveness by 50% by age 5. Unless the parents are trying to raise their children to be in the NHL, this can not be perceived as a good thing. However, if a parent spanks their child, or uses some other form of aggressive treatment, there isn't a single definitive outcome. A child MAY become more aggressive or the child may learn a valuable lesson--without becoming fearful or aggressive.

What is my stance on the matter? I am against violence in child raising, but I am in support of disciplining children, as it was an integral part of my upbringing. I believe there are guidelines to how parents can discipline their children and it involves self-control on the parents' behalf. If a parent spanks their child in anger and frustration, it is violent, but I believe it can teach valuable lessons when used with composure. I remember my disciplinary treatment when it was aggressive. I was more afraid of the white-hot anger, even when the punishment was trivial. However, I did develop an aggressive stance in certain and sometimes necessary situations, but as my parents showed me self-control, I developed my own and I wasn't fearful anymore.


The people of Mbuti

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Raising children with the use of violence in the modern day western world is a typical and overlooked issue that according to our textbook's author's research has been proven to positively correlate with a child's future aggressive tendencies. Whether this correlation is a causation relationship or not, it was found in a study by Sarah McElroy in 1981 that in a society with virtually no violence, physical or otherwise, children "grew out" of their unacceptable behaviors at an early age and began to take care of others some thereafter. 

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(The people of Mbuti)

The people of the Mbuti tribe start increasing an infant's physical activity with others the third day of life by passing the child around to others in the tribe so they can hold the child to their chest. However, if the infant shows discomfort the mother will take the child back until the child calms down. This allows the children to grow up knowing there are others who care about them and will take care of them if they are upset with their parents or family, which eliminates the opportunity to fight and show aggression because both children and parents are able to walk away.

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(Mbuti Mother and Child) 

In addition, when children show aggression that isn't extremely physically harming to their parents they are simply ignored rather than reprimanded. If the child is upsetting another child the children are just separated, and the only time there is any sort of reprimanding is when a child is physically harming another child. A possible effect of this behavior as the child grows up is that the child becomes more nurturing at an early age, which is demonstrated in the study. A large influencing factor is also the adult model the children are to follow, which is non-aggressive. As a result this culture is virtually completely rid of hitting, kicking, killing and verbal "put-downs", as well as an almost non-existent population of psychotic behavior. It is necessary however, to take into account the lack of media influences on this culture. Therefore, it is difficult to say that with the application of these things in the western world a less aggressive culture will emerge. But even with those doubts aside, this research is an important element in the evidence that a complete absence of aggression is the determining factor of a child's perception of right and wrong. 


You can find the entire research article Here.

Threat over Actual

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  It is hard to imagine the true effort required to be a parent without being one. This means that I have personal memories, others and experts to turn to in determining what path makes the most sense in the argument of how much physical punishment is okay. The US Department of Health and Human Services Administration for Children and Families Child Welfare Information Gateway official website includes a number of sources with different information that tend to lead in the same direction. The consensus seems to be that of rarity is alright but only if it includes a teaching moment. One of these articles, written by Karen M. Carlson, specifies, "Punishment often has little or no effect on the misbehavior, and takes the responsibility for the misbehavior away from the child." She goes on to say, "A child who is punished with spankings, shouts, and threats may learn how to avoid these punishments simply by not misbehaving in that particular way within sight of the person who punishes."
  This suggests thabanner_image_17.gift nothing positive can occur from a punishment. I would suggest that an early punishment specifically linked to one behavior can allow for lighter treatment in the future. As a child I do not remember my mother ever specifically using the large wooden mixing spoon on my brother or myself. I do recall the later threat of the spoon (effectively in replacement of spanking) would quickly quite us down. In response to Carlson's comments I would agree that it did not necessarily prevent continuation of an action however it demanded a respect. It created a conditioned response in both of us with both the tone and the visual feedback from Mom that was applicable in any setting. She did not need to have the spoon, but we both knew that we were out of place in our actions.
  That said I distinctly agree that overuse does not help. Yet part of me thinks that the child has to know that there is a larger punishment to avoid. I think that this is important in decision making. Every choice has a consequence. This is where the over utilized, under enforced use of "I'm gonna count to three" falls apart. The consequence becomes attention and no action and becomes a reward in its own right. A threat without follow through eggs the problem on. Whereas a threat the has followed through consistently with a specific reason as to why needs not to be repeated. This is the learning process that I think Carlson was referring to. Without a reason the child cannot decipher what was wrong and is doomed to repeat the same error in judgement. Through this I completely agree with the end results that Carlson points out, "The use of punishment can be a problem if the punishment is severe, if it's used
regularly, and if it is the only method of discipline being used."

Spanking Misbehaving Children

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When I was four years old, my mom and I went to the mall to go see Santa Claus. As I'm sure a lot of you can remember, going to see Santa at the mall to tell him exactly what I wanted for Christmas was one of the most exciting and memorable moments of my childhood. When my Mom and I arrived at "The North Pole", we were surprised to see that Santa was on break. I was devastated. I had been looking forward to seeing Santa all day to tell him I wanted a gameboy and now, for all I knew, I wouldn't be able to get one come Christmas time. So what did I do? I did as every other 4 year old would do...cried my eyes out! I cried and cried and through the biggest temper tantrum in the middle of the mall. My Mom had had enough of it. So what did she do? She sat me down on a bench and spanked me. Guess what happened after that? I stopped crying and behaved myself. End of story.

I remember a couple years ago when some over-reacting parents went on a public campaign to make spanking illegal. According to them, disciplining your child would psychologically disturb/scar them, leaving parents to blame for misbehaving teenagers in the future. I find this claim to be absolutely ridiculous. Parents discipline children and it has always been this way. Whether by means of spanking, lecturing, or any other means, disciplining your misbehaving child is a must when raising children. If you let your children throw huge temper tantrums and walk all over you without letting them know who is the parent and one in charge, they will continue to walk over you, cause more problems, and eventually cease to respect you as a parent and authority figure. Of course, I couldn't agree more with the prosecution of those who literally beat their children using what could basically be considered weapons (belts for example). Disciplining, however, by means of spanking is not something to be condemned or discouraged on a misbehaving child.

Blog #5: Child Abuse

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Corporal Punishment - Getting With the Times

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I believe corporal punishment, at least in the form of the violent discipline of children, is unnecessary and not as effective as its proponents claim. While it may carry salient appeal in that it appears both to work more quickly and produce more lasting effects, we cannot overlook the fact that times have changed, dramatically. The ultimate conclusion to draw is that corporal punishment is outdated.

Many proponents of corporal punishment look to history for support of this violent practice. Whether they reference teachers from ancient times beating their lazy pupils, lashings delivered to the inattentive seaman on a 15th century ship, or a young student in a boarding school receiving a caning for tardiness, the underlying claim remains the same: the method is tried and true. Corporal punishment yields obedience and success. Thousands of years of historical practice cannot be wrong.

However, when considering such claims, attention must be paid to the exponential progress of the last few decades alone. Not only has technology made astounding leaps as of late, but a new style of thought has been taking over as well. Less and less emphasis in education is being placed on the old reading, writing, and 'rithemetic, the purported staple subjects. Our society, and many other worldwide, are embracing creativity more than ever--creativity which thrives in our freedom to explore alternatives, creativity which for centuries was thought to be irrelevant, unhealthy, even detrimental to a child's development. 

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The simple truth behind corporal punishment is that it is indeed outdated. Over the past millennia the military-like structure and obedience it yielded was sought after because it was suited to the culture of the time. However, education is no longer defined by such unquestioned obedience. We value our freedom to deviate, and from that deviance to make unconventional and potentially monumental discoveries that social code had long prevented.

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Blog #5: Physical Punishment

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The topic of whether children should be physically punished is a very controversial topic.  Physically punishing your children is something that is different across different cultures and societies.  It is a very vast topic that cannot be fully discussed within a few paragraphs, so therefore I will just state my opinions about it in general.  

In my opinion physical punishment is not okay, and is only okay as long as it does not leave any marks, is not done excessively, and only done RARELY.  I also believe that if used only under dire conditions it can have some positive results.  Punishing children under the age of 10ish should not be done, because they are not mentally capable of understanding their mistake.  Around the age of puberty punishing your children physically becomes less effective and more elaborate methods must be adopted, because they are developing more complex minds that make physical punishment ineffective (both mentally and physically).  We can see from the two time frames mentioned above that physical punishment has no place. 

Overall I believe that physical punishment should not be used unless in certain conditions, where all other methods have failed.  From an Islamic perspective abuse is prohibited, and physical punishment is greatly frowned upon.  Physical punishment on children is something that has developed culturally.





Blog #5- Raising Children with Violence

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Blog Entry 5

David Cesnik

Parents and Violence on Children

            The debate among parents nowadays is whether it is okay to inflict violence on their own children as a form of punishment or even teaching as a way to correct an incorrect practice by the child. There are certain degrees, however, where the amount of violence put onto the children by the parents become too much and the relationship no longer feels like a parent to a child, but more like a schoolyard bully beating on an innocent kid because he did something wrong. In the case of corrective violence on children, I have no problem with a slap on the wrist or a little slap on the head, but when it comes to physical beatings or any kind of violence where the child begins to fear its parents, violence should not be okay in that instant.

            A lot of this debate also depends on when the violent punishment begins in childhood. It is not okay for a parent to be disciplining an infant in a forceful manner. With everything we know now about child development and how much a child learns and absorbs in its first few years of life, instilling a lasting fear of a parent in a child at such a young age would not be a good practice, and, since a child doesn't begin to firmly understand much language until about 18 months or two years old, trying to teach a newborn child right from wrong is essentially useless. Even then, physically disciplining a child at that age still has many moral injustices. A child who isn't able to defend itself should not be subjected to physical violence as a means of corrective punishment.

            The debate between the legitimacy and morality of raising a child by using violence as a form of punishment is only because different cultures have different standards with their parent-child relationships. Also, as certain cultures have evolved over the years, certain traditions, like corporal punishment and spanking as a form of punishment, have virtually disappeared. However, in certain parts of the world, children are still being helplessly beaten and oppressed to be put in line and taught a lesson. No child should ever be struck by their parent until they are old enough to defend themselves.

Corporal Punishment

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I believe that Corporal Punishment is not the answer to solving problems with children in the household.  There are a couple specific jobs that a parent has when raising a good kid.  One of those jobs is to have a healthy relationship with their kids.  By using Corporal Punishment I think the idea of having that healthy relationship is not possible.  The second job parents have is being able to solve any problems they have with their kids without the use of violence.  Parents should be teaching their kids what to do to be successful in the world.  Not physically hurt them to force them to do the right thing.  

I read an article on the internet titled "Corporal punishment, death penalty are misguided".  This article starts out speaking about how a judge in Texas who whipped his daughter for downloading some music off of the internet.  This is a case where I believe the healthy father- daughter relationship was ruined because of the use of violence.  The father could have sat down and talked with his daughter to instill the idea that downloading music off the internet is not okay.  It would have taken more effort on the part of the dad but it would have saved their relationship.

Punishing Kids

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It is difficult to takes sides on the argument that parents should use punishment towards their children. On one side of the dilemma, parents argue that punishing their kids, such as spanking them, is a horrible way to discipline their children. They think that this kind of punishment is violent and it promotes violence in their children. They say that it may also make their children afraid of their parents, and that's the last thing the parents want. Parents that are okay with punishing their children with spanking say that is is just a way to teach them a lesson. They say that the kids need to know right from wrong, and they need to know that the parents make the rules in the family, and if they disobey, they face the consequences, much like life decisions they will have to deal with later on in life. In my opinion, I think punishing children with spanking should be in moderation. I definitely wouldn't want my kids to be scared of me, but I also want them to obey the rules that I have in the household. If they do not respond to just talking to them about breaking the rules, I don't think a spanking would be the worst thing in the world. When I was little, my parents spanked my  brother and I whenever we did something very bad. We would rarely do this because we knew the consequences. We knew that our parents made the rules, and we have always been very good kids. Personally, I don't think that the spanking of my past has hurt me in any way. I don't look at my parents differently for doing that and I just don't have a very negative outlook on it. However, after reading some articles about the subject, I might need to think twice about punishing my children in the future. According to the article from USA news by Nancy Shute A good parent's dilemma: Is spanking bad?  a study showed that spanking children is linked to increased misbehavior in children as well as adult problems such as increased spousal abuse. There are many articles out there that explain the pros and cons of spanking, and both are very important to pay attention to.

Violence in Raising Children

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When it comes to using violence with children, I feel that the use of any violence in raising a child is the worst thing you can do. Growing up in a family that didn't promote violence in any way, I feel that I was raised in the most proper fashion, which was that I was never violently punished for my actions. I feel I have grown to be a more laid back, and non violent person due to the fact my parents never displayed violence towards me or toward others in my family. I have no desire for violence, and I have no violent tendencies. I hate fighting.

            There is no doubt that being violent around a child is no means of raising one, and we all can assume that this would lead to a more highly aggressive and abusive child in the future. However, the real question is, does mild violence help to better raise a child than no violence at all? Although it may for the short term allow a child to learn from their actions, it will not necessarily teach the child what they did was wrong. It will show a child more so that violence is a good way of showing dominance and allows for that child to become more aggressive in adulthood. The early years of a child have a huge play in they way they act when they get older, and instead of using punishment it would make more sense to assess the situation so the child learns what they did wrong in the long run, not only for the time of punishment. There are much better ways to deal with children to resist violence- as this website shows.

            When it comes down to it, violence isn't the answer. Many cultures have raised children without violence and this has also been shown to have good benefitting factors. There is no reason for violence at all. People have very great cognitive abilities: they should use their brains to teach, not their hands.

Why Beating Your Children Doesn't Work

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To-Train-Up-A-Child.jpgThe topic of corporal punishment, especially corporal punishment of children, has taken the media by storm. Most captivating has been the book called "To Train Up A Child", by Michael and Debi Pearl, and the stories pouring in about children who died after their parents took the book's advice too far.  Now, parents on both sides of the debate--and the political spectrum--are up in arms.

 

Even before these stories started to surface, my stance on the issue of corporal punishment was very clear: it is an ineffective way to raise children. First off, it is psychologically counterintuitive: of all the modes of operant condition, punishment (the administering of physical pain, in this case) does not really discourage the behavior, but instead encourages the child to perform that behavior in secret, away from the eyes of their parents. Secondly, I have always felt that a pain response is not the true way to teach something: the more a parent can help a child to come to their own realizations about their behavior, the more this learning experience will stay in the child's mind. My parents have shown this to be true on numerous occasions: they have helped me, through tears and fights and yelling, to talk to me about ways to improve my behavior, and these conversations have often helped me realize that what I had done, or was doing, was wrong.

Lilienfeld, Scott. Pyschology - From Inquiry to Understanding. Custom Edition for the University of Minnesota. Boston, MA: Pearson Learning Solutions, 2010. Print.

Assignment 5 - Spanking - Pat Bodnia

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        There is an on going debate on what and what are not ethical ways of disciplining children. No other technique is more heated then the idea of physically disciplining children in ways such as spanking. My immediate viewpoint on spanking is that it is wrong and does not teach children what to do; it only stops the unwanted behavior in the meantime. I believe that this only angers the child and would make them more aggressive in the future if the spanking continued. 


Article on the study can be found here

           After researching about the arguments for and against spanking, I was persuaded to stick with my original viewpoint after reading a study done on spanking. The study showed that of the 2500 children who participated, those who were spanked more frequently by age three were much more likely to be aggressive by age five. This study seemed to be very valid considering they accounted for lots of confounding variables. Variables such as mothers dealing with depression, alcohol and drug use, spousal abuse, and even natural aggression in children which could all be factors leading to aggressive behavior in these children. Regardless, it showed that all these children, with different types of personal situations, had aggressive behavior increase by 50% if they had been spanked more than twice prior to the study.

         The children who were spanked exerted behaviors of being defiant, demanding immediate satisfaction of their wants and needs, and having temper tantrums lashing out on people and animals. It really shows that there is a correlation between spanking and aggressive behaviors. The punishment is instilling fear and influencing aggressiveness in the child rather then having an understanding. Spanking is only hurting children physically and mentally in the long run. It should be stopped and is an unethical way of disciplining children.

Consequences of spanking

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All children require discipline. However, discipline should not include any form of physical punishment. Even the smallest form of physical punishment, spanking, can have long term effects if done often enough. Spanking can range from a quick, few smacks on the bottom to a severe prolonged punishment. 

 

A study conducted by researchers at Tulane University resulted in the strongest evidence yet that spanking does carry long term effects. About 2500 children at the age of 3 were monitored. Those among the group that were spanked more frequently turned out to be more aggressive children by the age of 5. The study was led by community-health-sciences professor Catherine Taylor. Factors affecting the mother during her pregnancy were also controlled during the study. The factors included depression, alcohol abuse, drug use, abuse from her spouse, and thinking about having an abortion during the pregnancy. Even if these factors contribute to violent behavior of the child, spanking was still the highest factor in aggressive behavior.

 

A child's personality is also affected by frequent spankings. The children that experienced spankings until the age of five were seen to demand satisfaction to their needs right away and threw temper tantrums. Spanking is a vicious cycle that only instils fear in the child, rather than understanding. If a parent spanks their child that throws a tantrum, it does not teach them why their behavior was wrong. A very crucial effect of spankings, or corporal punishment in general, is that the child will think that violence is the answer to all of their problems. 

 

I am not in favor of any form of corporal punishment. Hitting a child because of an incorrect behavior will not teach them anything positive. I am glad I was not one of the unfortunate children that experienced violence from their parents as a form of discipline. 

 

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1983895,00.html

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Spanking, yeh or neh?

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Being raised Catholic; the controversy of spanking has been possibly overlooked and more than likely taken for granted. Being a Catholic you are supposed to look at the bible for answers as well as prayer and mass contingencies. As Samuel Martin states in his published book, Thy Rod and Thy Staff They Comfort Me: Christians and the Spanking Controversy, the Bible does not teach that spanking a child will save him from hell, so why do it to your child? http://www.biblechild.com/ The Bible does not teach that spanking children should bring tears.  There are some countries around the world such as Sweden who banned spanking all around, in 1979. Also the United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child has been seeking a ban on corporal punishment worldwide since 1996. If these countries have gone to such extremes, spanking must be no good. http://health.usnews.com/health-news/family-health/articles/2008/06/12/a-good-parents-dilemma-is-spanking-bad The bible teaches that you shall not cause harm to another. When I was a child I was spanked and I can honestly state that I am not a bad person because of it, but I believe that my parents could have went down another route to get their points across. My parents are still phenomenal parents but now looking back I realize that spanking was more accepted in that era. In my future house no such punishment will be accepted.

Corporal Punishment

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Corporal punishment has long been used by both parents and teachers, but in modern society it is slowly being phased out as the negative effects have started to be shown in studies. The debate is not if corporal punishment has negative effects on children, but rather how negative the effects are. the following video does a really good job at bringing just some of the negative effects of corporal punishment to your attention.  
 The main reason that I personally believe that corporal punishment should not use is that it is a form of positive punishment, and as we learned earlier this year, punishment is not as effective as reinforcement. It is also proven that punishment often has very negative psychological effects such as anxiety and submissive behavior. The use of any violence either on or just around children also teaches them that it is an acceptable behavior, so essentially by using corporal punishment you are only creating a larger problem.

Durring our early years of development the main way we learn is through imitation of what we see. If corporal punishment is something used often both on and around us when we are young, we are likely to repeat it on others around us. Corporal punishment also instills fear in children and will often therefore grow up to fear their parents to a certain extent and thus damaging the parental relationship. 

As the fact in the video and the ideas that I have presented both show, the effects of corporal punishment on children is often more damaging than helpful. It is this knowledge that I feel parents need to know when disciplining their children in order to stop the use of corporal punishment. Although some may still believe that there is a time and place for corporal punishment, I believe that it is something that has way too many negative effects to ever be used as a form of punishment on children.

Assignment # 5 Spanking

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Shana McDonald
Psy 1001
Sec 26
11/20/11

     Is spanking your child an unacceptable form of discipline? My sister, and I received the same type of discipline. My sister was very lazy, and didn't think about her actions. We were raised with the ability to receive a spanking, but were never allowed to tell our parents no. Although, our personalities were very different. I have always been very mindful of rules, very hard working, and motivated.  She was spanked once; I was never spanked. I do not feel that she was made this way by receiving a spanking. She had been this way even before. I also do not believe that it made her more violent. If anything she is much more gentle than I am. 
     I also believe that spanking didn't deter her from paying more attention for very long period of time either. I, however, was especially mindful because I knew that this was not a fate I wanted to receive. 
     My brother was raised much different than us. My mother negotiates with him to do the right thing. He is a very sweet boy, but tells my mother no, yells at her, and rarely listens. I am embarrassed of his behavior in public some times. Maybe this is his predisposition personality or maybe it is his lack of discipline. 
     In an article by the TIME 'Is Spanking O.K.?' "John Rosemond, executive director of the Center for Affirmative Parenting in Gastonia, N.C., and author of several books on discipline, notes that 50 years ago almost all children were spanked. Yet by all accounts, children are more aggressive and prone to violence today, and at earlier ages, than they were back then." I believe that  if spankings were causing children to be more violent this trend would be reversed. I believe that maybe if you have an aggressive personality spanking may make your more aggressive, but it will not make a docile child extremely violent. The article went on to say that  "Robert Larzelere, a psychologist at the University of Nebraska Medical Center, concluded that in children under 7, nonabusive spanking reduced misbehavior without harmful effects." I believe that Cheri Weeks's, a child psychologist, and her parents philosophy was correct, "I need to discipline my children so that the world doesn't have to." This was also found in TIME 'Is Spanking O.K.?' I believe this because the world can be harsh. I would rather learn a lesson by someone so forgiving as my parents, because the world can be a very unforgiving place.
     Another TIME article 'Long-Term Effects of Spanking' http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1983895,00.html reports Catherine Taylor, a community-health-science professor says "The odds of a child being more aggressive at age 5 increased by 50% if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began." I feel that spankings in this circumstance were perform at excessive levels. Spankings should never be the primary for of punishment, but they should be used in extreme circumstances. 

Physical Discipline in Raising Children

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As I first sat down to work on this blog, I thought - what do I really think about corporal punishment? Yeah, sure: I remember writing a paper in eighth grade when I supported the use of mild physical punishment. I started looking up articles on the internet about mild physical punishment and how it doesn't cause problems. Of course I found some. However - in eighth grade, virtually everyone just viewed the world as their parents taught them to view the world. Since then, a lot of things have changed about my life. I think for my own now.

Does that mean I think that corporal punishment (and my parents) are wrong? What our psychology section leader told us about how she believes causing harm to any other person is wrong. That made sense to me. But I needed to look at the facts:

-The textbook says that physical punishment by parents is positively correlated with aggressive behavior in children (correlation, could be caused by genes or some other cause)
-The association actually depends on race and culture: "physical discipline and childhood behavior problems are negatively correlated in African American families" page 216 of textbook
-immediate discipline can be useful
-psychologists have found that authoritative parents, a mix between permissive and authoritative parents (page 388 of textbook) seems to be the most effective way of punishment.

TL;DR (too long, didn't read, also known as the short answer):
It depends.

When I have kids (hopefully), physical discipline is something that my wife and I will discuss, although I don't think I will use it. I am highly against violence, but based on the evidence, I think that physical discipline is a good thing in some circumstances. And there are articles, of course, to back it up, just like most other opinions.

Freud's Perspective on Women

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images.jpegIn the text book, it is very clear what men find attractive in women. It states that men seemed to attracted to women with a waist-to-hip ratio of about .7, but what i am curious is to see what it is that women are attracted to. 
"The great question that has never been answered, and which i have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine should, is 'what does a women want?'" (From Sigmund Freud: Life and Work by Ernest Jones, 1953)
Freud had many theories on women. One in particular was Penis Envy. Freud stated that during the ages 3-5 young girls distance themselves from their mothers and give their affection to their fathers. This occurs when a girls realize that they has no penis. "Girls hold their mother responsible for their lack of a penis and do not forgive her for their being thus put at a disadvantage," Freud suggested. ---  http://psychology.about.com/od/sigmundfreud/p/freud_women.htm




Hitting is hitting

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There are all kinds of evidence out there showing that hitting your child negatively affects them in the future. After skimming through other blog posts, I realized that corporal punishment is just an old tradition that people need to stop. I understand that children have a hard time understanding things sometimes (especially during a tantrum!) but hitting a child will only get through to them temporarily. Children are humans, and they deserve to be heard and understood.

I grew up in a home with conflicting views on parenting. My dad demanded respect by ruling with fear, and my mom earned our respect by ruling with love and communication. To this day, I have a great respect for my mother, and little to no respect for my father. Personally, when I raise kids, I want them to love and respect me, I don't want them blogging in their psychology class about how they don't respect me! That being said, my dad spanked my brother, but never spanked me. My mom tried spanking but did not find it to be affective. My mom just allowed it to happen because it didn't seem to have any affects on my brother. My brother has always been the violent one though, and it makes me wonder if it is just because he was older and bigger that he hit me a lot, or if it was taught to him at a young age that hitting was okay. One day when my brother was around 12 and I was 9, he hit me extremely hard in the stomach. I told my dad, who then proceeded to "give my brother a taste of his own medicine" which was absolutely the wrong thing to do. My dad was a full grown man, punching a 12 year old boy in the stomach. This was a very disturbing time for our family, and it is no surprise that my mom left my dad (and got custody of us) within the next year or so. Some may argue that this is just crossing the line between discipline and violence, but I say that there is no line. Hitting is hitting.

I always used to say that spanking was okay to do if it is not out of anger. But why would you hit your kids if you weren't angry? There is never a good time, or a right way to use physical violence to discipline your children. I could never imagine physically hurting a being (that I created nonetheless) that could simply not fight back. It seems that it is just an uneducated thing to do. People need to learn to take charge and control their emotions, and use healthy communication to get through to their children. People usually do not hit infants because they cannot communicate and they are absolutely helpless. People also usually do not hit adults (especially ones that they care about) because they can use other means to solve problems (not to mention these adults can fight back) so why would you hit a child? They are as helpless as infants, but they have the means to communicate just as adults do.

The issue of using physical discipline in child rearing is controversial to many cultures in society today. Appropriate child rearing is important to child development and practices are different ranging from all over the world. Some people accept the concept of physical discipline as a means of rearing your child, but on the other hand, many believe that physical discipline causes children to become aggressive and anxious. 

Here is an interesting article published in the Child Development Journal explaining a study of how disciplinary actions affect children from six different countries. ---> http://www.naturalchild.org/research/discipline.html

This study found many interesting notions and conclusions. Universities from all around the world questioned 336 mothers from the following countries: China, India, Italy, Kenya, The Philippines, and Thailand. To sum up their conclusions, they ordered these countries from least likely to physically discipline to most likely starting with China, the Philippines, Italy, India, to Kenya.  They also concluded that physical discipline was less correlated with child aggression and anxiety when the discipline was more culturally accepted. Overall, in all countries they found that children who received physical discipline showed more aggression and anxiety in life. 

To me this study was interesting because I expected a different order for physical discipline among the countries surveyed. As a child growing up, I was physically disciplined but physical discipline in Vietnam is culturally accepted. In my opinion, being physically disciplined as a child has created me into a person who makes better choices. I feel like I listen to my parents more compared to other people my age. I believe that physical discipline is different from child abuse and child violence. You are teaching your kids right and wrong when you discipline them, but under certain measures. Physical discipline remains controversial today and cultural practices are always changing.

Assignment 5

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As a child, my siblings and I were spanked for our wrong-doings. I recall whenever we did something bad, my mom would pull us into the kitchen, take out the wooden spoon, and asked us how many spankings we wanted on our hands. My brothers and I knew we couldn't say none, because it would result to getting double the amount we could have gotten. So we'd mutter a number between each sob, and prayed for the best. Other punishments my parents resorted to was sending us into the basement in the dark, standing in the corner, and if we were really unlucky, the belt to the buttocks. Stating that now, makes it sound terrible and all. And as a child, it was. But thinking back now, we did deserve some of those punishments. The pain of each spanking, definitely helped us remember not to do certain things again. But as I sit here and think back to that time in my life, it was terrifying. The yelling and emotions flying through the air, along with the searing pain that came from the wooden spoon, or the belt, it changed me as a child. Now when I get yelled at, my anxiety is shot through the roof, and it's most likely in result from my past.
     I just asked my mom why she spanked us as children, and she replied with the fact that it was because we didn't listen to her, or broke certain rules. As children, my siblings and I never truly had tantrums or threw objects around or such. We were spanked purely based on the fact that we didn't follow our parent's rule to the dot. Knowing that now, I feel that the spanking and the whipping weren't necessary each time we did it. Maybe the first time, and every other time after that. But every single time? That explains why my brothers and I turned out to be pretty aggressive beings today. When we do something to each other, and the other does not like it. A fight would most likely break out. Which is a result from spanking that was discovered. The fact that aggression was found more in children who were spanked, than in those who weren't. 
     So in the end, would I use spanking on my own children? Most likely yes, due to the fact that it was how I was raised. But I hope if I do result in spanking, it wont be nearly as terrifying or as often as it was done on me. I know what it is like to live a life with so much anger and anxiety in you, and I don't think I could put my own children through that.

Here is an article of the long-term effects of spanking. As I read it, all of those effects have caught up to me. And since I am the oldest of my siblings, and recieved the most spanking of the three of us, I hope I've spared my brothers of suffering from the same issues that I have to endure. 



Violence and Children

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When I was a child I was very rarely physically disciplined. Probably less than five times do I remember ever being spanked. The use of physical discipline differs with each parent depending on how the parent is going to handle certain situations. In my case I did some pretty bad things to deserve my spanking, like running away cursing at my mom when it was bath time all while drawing on the wall with a marker. In my opinion though, I do not think physical discipline should be used on children at all. After researching many scientific articles I have come to the conclusion that violence should not be used to discipline children for misbehaviors.

http://www.apa.org/pi/prevent-violence/resources/violent-behavior.aspx


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In this article researchers studied the impact of physical discipline on children from the age of 10-15 year old, with 134 families participating in the study. The study's results showed many interesting results from the use or dis-use of physical discipline on adolescences.

"Adolescents who were more likely to engage in fighting, bullying, and victimization of others reported that their parents engaged in corporal punishment as a disciplining method"

This shows that physical discipline can result in the increase use of violence among peers between adolescents. This is directly resulting from parental modeling of a negative behavior, like hitting or spanking a child. This can give children the idea that this type of behavior is acceptable in every day society. Another interesting finding from this research is when parents distinctly disapprove of violence, their children are also affected but in a positive way.

"Results demonstrated that perceived parental disapproval of the use of violence was associated with more prosocial attitudes and less use of physical violence among adolescents"

These findings show that physical violence should not be used with children because of the adverse effects on children in the long run. It also shows that children learn a lot from the way their parents raise them. So when becoming a parent, taking the time to discipline the right way instead of physical violence can have a  positive impact on children  in the long run.

Discipline or Abuse?

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When To Spank

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When To Spank
By: Dan Hodac

Growing up in a strict Vietnamese household, I was always spanked as a child and even into my early teen years. Thinking back, it was weird that I never resented or hated my parents for spanking me. This is mostly because of how my parents conducted each session of spankings. Unlike many other households, my parents used the traditional Vietnamese ways of disciplining a child. Whenever I was spanked, it would always be a formal "event" almost. They would make me lie down on the floor (in the carpet of course) and have me lie there until they were not as angry anymore from whatever transgression I had committed. After that, they would come to me and tell me what I had done wrong (with a calm and focused mind) and then spank me (It was always either on the hand or butt never anywhere else). They made sure that I knew exactly why I was spanked. I was never "grounded" and that was probably because my parents had never heard of "grounding" their kids. After recieving my punishment I was free to go, only after I apologized, of course.

This manner of disciplining me was very interesting, now that I look back on it, because they somehow did it a way that made me know that they still loved me and cared for me even as they are spanking me. As I got older and learned more about the different methods that other households have spanked their kids, this became more apparent. As said in the report When to Spank.doc by L Rosellini to the US News & World report, there is a right time to spank and a wrong way to spank. Beating a child senseless with a belt when the parent is in a deep state of anger is most likely the wrong way to discipline one's child, as seen in the picture below. Obviously, these kinds of senseless beatings will psychologically damage the child in the future.

Corproal Punishment

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As a child, I was spanked for things I did wrong. At that age, I don't believe I would have clearly known the difference. If I think carefully and bring those memories of being spanked to my mind, if I try to relive those moments, I can't feel anything but fear, paralyzing fear. It was the kind of fear where I knew I had to run, or I should, but I couldn't. If I reasoned it out, it said that if I ran, I'd only be caught. Those memories of spanking are painful to speak about, especially since I realized that I've buried them deeply. I hope that I'm not misunderstood, being spanked as a child hasn't scarred me for life. Yet, I feel as though it has changed me. Being spanked taught me that the best way to make my little sister stop bothering me was to hit her. While it nearly always worked, I'd be spanked again for hitting my sister. Spanking taught me that hitting was a way to get my point across, which was a completely wrong way to deal with my problems.

Corporal punishment hardens a child's heart against the horrors of abuse and pain. I noticed it in my youngest sister. She used to cry instantly when she was being yelled at, or punished physically. But that has since changed. Now she treats scolding with a cold shoulder and an upturned chin. She gives the world her brave "I don't care" face. My sister, who used to cry while watching Alice in Wonderland because Alice was lost, didn't even shed a tear when she was manhandled. She has stopped herself from showing any emotion, so that she can't feel hurt.

Corporal punishment, even in a mild form, should never be used. It causes more than bruises and scratches. It causes a hardened heart and painful memories. It changes the way children view the world and how to solve their problems. Corporal punishment has a greater impact on children than just physically, and it should never be used.

Discipline v. Abuse

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My parents raised me with minimal physical discipline. Only once do I recall being spanked, and in retrospect, I deserved it (I was throwing random objects into the fire despite verbal warnings not too, circa 1996). Physically hitting children, I do not think, should be outright illegal, but it definitely ought to be carefully considered and a last resort of the parents. Hitting a child on several occasions, especially if it was not necessarily warranted, will cause the child to resent the parent, as well as behave more aggressively by mimicking the behavior. Also, as we all have probably experienced, punishing a negative behavior is a far less effective way to operantly condition a toddler or child then rewarding good ones. Also, to teach kids self-control, it is more important to teach alternative behaviors that are more socially acceptable when strong emotions arise. For example, if a young boy is pulling his older sister's hair and won't stop, instead of just spanking him (which will probably only be a temporary solution) teach the child to confront the sister verbally if annoyed, etc. Also frequent punishment can create apathy towards others' pain and teach kids only that large people have power over small ones, and physical force is analogous to power. In my opinion, I would not ever physically discipline a child unless the child is not listening and is or has a serious chance of hurting others. There are far more effective ways to teach then negative reinforcement.

Attached is a pamphlet created by a  U of M department I found on childwelfare.gov outlining practical divisions and applications between discipline, punishment, abuse, etc.
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This week for our blog entry we are all supposed to write about whether or not we think that violence should be used when raising children. I think that it definitely should NOT be used. I believe that violence will only make children scared to do something wrong, rather than reward them for what they are doing right. There is a for sure a difference between punishment and physically hurting your children. Here is an article that says that there is a fuzzy line between abuse and discipline (When Discipline Becomes Child Abuse.) The laws about child abuse are kind of case to case but I guess if it leaves a mark on your child, it's abuse. I feel like parents not only shouldn't hit their children but especially not to the point where it leaves a mark! That is ridiculous! There should be a law saying that no form of abuse is okay when it comes to parenting. I think that it would be VERY hard to enforce, but it would save many kids from trauma in the future. I have never been punished with physical punishment of any kind and I believe that I have grown to be a responsible person, so I just don't see why abuse would ever be necessary.

The Real Effects of Spanking

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I found this video while looking online, I thought it was a very interesting perspective considering that our topics in discussion included whether punishing kids physically was okay. We have always looked at it from a certain perspective, but this video changes it around.  It is told from the eyes of the children, and how they feel about the punishment that they personally received.

The video consists of pictures that students have drawn, and they all have crying children and messages.  All of these messages are negative and they describe that spanking and hitting makes them feel embarrassed and scared.  Some of them even talk about running away.  It is important for us to hear how children feel about it.

At the end of the video it talks about spankout day on April 30th, raising kids without hitting.  It is clear that these parents and this organization view physical punishment as a highly negative thing and it actually ends up hurting kids mentally for the future.  It is actually a whole website about how parents can raise their children differently, the right way.  It even has tips on what to do in certain situations.

From my knowledge of what I know about physical punishment, my opinion stands at that punishment is a negative thing.  I believe that there are many different ways to raise children, and it varies depending on the family and parents, but I don't think physical violence is ever the right answer.  That is not how I was raised, and I still learned discipline. 
Physical violence is definitely a big debate that has been going on for a long time, and it has many stories from both sides.  There are still people who support it as well and will continue to use it as their families grow.

The Effects of Discipline

Assignment#5 - Samantha Chan

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A slap of the wrist, a pull of the hair. Growing up in my family, there was no such thing as hitting or whipping when something wrong was done. When I speak to my peers, I hear stories that involve getting whipped in the back or smacked with a wooden spoon. Even some things that seem minor such as kneeling on the ground, but for extended periods of time, severely damaging the knee.

In my family, there was no such thing as physical punishment. If something was done wrong, we were sent to our rooms to think about what we did. After about 15 minutes, we would talk about it, in order to clear that air. That was when my mother was home. When my father was home, it was a different story. He never whipped us, or laid a hand on us. Instead, he abused us in a way that made him seem harmless: Mental abuse. 

Although we never had physical bumps, bruises or scars we had the same bumps, bruises and scars hidden under our skin. When something was done wrong, we were conditioned to never tell our father. If he found out that something was wrong, he would manipulate the situation, tell all his friends at work, which made us look like the "bad seed" to the Chinese community. It seems like nothing, but we would get sneers and mockeries from so many people that it made us feel low and insignificant. When we started school, we weren't allowed to talk to people because we were told that  no one wants to talk to the Chinese girl. And often times, we were told that we look ugly, sang terrible, would never succeed in the arts or sports, and that we were pieces of useless "crap".

Seems harmless enough, but when you're an adolescent, you believe everything the most important man will tell you. I believed everything he said, and as a child, I thought he was telling me to do me good. Once I got some sense knocked into me with school, and watching TV shows, I realized that my life was not normal. After 15 years of such mental abuse, my parents finally divorced, and we never had to deal with him again.

Any abuse whatsoever, whether it be physical or mental abuse should not be allowed. Children should not be raised to be a version of ourselves that we wish we could have come. Children should be raised as the unique individual that they are. I am completely against abuse. It cause mental issues, whether they be minor or severe. Children will have this urgency to be perfect and when one day they fail, and no one is there to punish them, they may feel the need to punish themselves.

Children are humans too. They have just as much rights as we do, they should not be treated otherwise. As parents and potential parents, it is our job to guide and assist them to their potential and goals, not lead them to the life we wish we had.

Child Abuse

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            Spanking children is a very controversial topic in our world. Many people have different beliefs about the spanking of children and whether if leaves long-term effects on the children effected. According to TIME Magazine Health, there are reports that there is indeed a report done at Tulane University that provides evidence that children's response to spanking may make them act out more in the long run. This study took factors that normally have an affect on children's' aggressiveness and were sure keep them controlled. They then proved that "The odds of a child being more aggressive at age 5 increased by 50% if he had been spanked more than twice in the month before the study began," says professor Catherine Taylor, the leader of this study.

            I personally was never spanked as a child. When I was a kid, if I ever broke a rule, my parents used a time-out method rather than a spanking. I believe that this method is a lot safer and better overall than spanking a child. Although my parents never spanked me, they did however use spanking as a threat. I was so scared of getting spanked I never broke the rules anymore. I know that many people might think that if a person is threatened with something time after time with no spanking after all, it would be like the little boy who cried wolf and I would break rules because I knew that my parents wouldn't ever spank me. That wasn't so for me. I definitely think that this method has worked for me and that is what I will do with my children.

The Perfect Environment?

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Both the Mbuti indigenous group of Africa as well as the Fore group of New Guinea have unique cultures, especially when it comes to child rearing.  Both cultures attempt to raise their children in as non-violent of an environment as possible. When children are aggressive, adults usually use non-aggressive methods, such as ignoring the behavior, to deal with the child's aggression, as opposed to physical punishment. The children in these cultures tend to be more cooperative and nurturing towards each other. In these cultures, there are also adults other than parents that are constantly available to the children, which gives them an outlet when they are at odds with their own parents.

 

I believe that an environment such as the ones present in these two cultures is much more conducive to producing non-aggressive adults. Children learn from what they see, and so when they see non-aggressive approaches to their aggressive behavior they are less likely to act aggressive in the future. I don't think there's a perfect environment or a perfect way of dealing with children that will automatically make non-aggressive adults. However, I think when there is a lot of aggression (in the form of physical punishment) in a child's life, they are much more likely to be aggressive adults.

 

Article: http://www.context.org/ICLIB/IC04/McElroy.htm

Undesired Consequences of Spanking

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Norman Rockwell Sat Eve Post- 'Child Psychology'.jpgSometimes when a child is spanked, it teaches him something other than the intended lesson.  Instead of learning that they shouldn't have done the offending behavior, they learn Mommy hits when she's upset.  They also learn that when they are upset, then they should hit someone or something,hich is not the intended lesson.  I once saw a bumper sticker that said, "Why do we kill people who kill people, to show that killing people is wrong?"  A similar thought could be said about spanking; that if we hit children, they learn to accept hitting as an outlet for anger.

I was spanked as a child, and quite often, as I had ADHD and therefore serious behavior problems.  Getting spanked was a common occurrence, and I began to be less affected by it as I was spanked more often.  I remember that my dad did most of the punishing, and that I was often afraid of doing something wrong.  When I was about 9 years old, we were sitting at the dinner table.  My father reached across the table to get the ketchup, and I flinched because I thought he was going to hit me.  My mother said, "That's it- no more spanking!  She's terrified of you to the point where she thinks you're going to spank her when she hasn't even done anything!"  So we abruptly became a no-spanking household, which 

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changed a lot of things.  I became closer to my dad, I put more thought into my actions, and we had more grown-up punishments, such as revoking privileges. 

Studies have shown that spanking produces immediate results but that there may be long-term effects that are undesirable.  Elizabeth Thompson Gershoff, PhD, (a leading researcher on corporal punishment) did a meta-analysis of many years' worth of studies, and found correlations between spanking and effects on the spanked children (Psychological Bulletin, July 2002).  Eleven behaviors & experiences of children were evaluated, and all were found to be positively correlated with spanking.  The effects ranged from immediate compliance of the child to physical abuse by the parent, and more internal effects on the child, such as aggression, mental health, relationship with the parent, and criminal/antisocial behavior.  Murray Straus, another leading corporal punishment researcher, states that there may also be a link between spanking and risky or violent sexual behavior as an adult.  This, according to Straus, may be due in part to the line between violence and love being blurred when the child is hurt by a loving parent.  "It fuses a relationship in a child's mind between loving and hitting," says Straus, which can continue into adulthood.

Parents need to think carefully about whether or not to spank their children.  Is the offense they've committed worth harming their well-being in the long-term?  The way I see it, you can judge parents' feelings by their behavior in public.  If spanking weren't wrong, people would do it in public.  But instead, parents treat it as a taboo subject, and if they do spank in public, they are ostracized by other parents.  Shouldn't that tell us something about what we should be doing in the first place?Spank in the park.jpg

Assignment #4 - Samantha Chan

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sleep garfield.jpgSleep: Researchers say that the average person needs approximately 8-9 hours of sleep a night. On average, a college student probably gets anywhere from 4-6 hours of sleep, if that. According to CNN's article on sleep deprivation, lack of sleep is just as bad as alcohol impairment.

As college students, we juggle being involved in student organizations, participating in sport, working one, two, or even three jobs, all while being a part time student. I, myself, am constantly running around from place to place, trying to keep my head on straight. Many times, I drive from work to class, and with only 20 minutes to get from St. Paul campus to West Bank, I drive from class to class as well.

I know from personal experience that driving while sleep deprived can be just as dangerous as driving under the influence. Driving aside, many college students will agree that after a certain point of sleep deprivation, new information or information in general can be difficult to retain. As the same with alcohol, many people don't remember occurrences that happen while under the influence.

So, before you decided to hop into a car or go to an exam with little to no sleep, think about how much safer you'll drive, or how much better you'll do on the exam. 


Obedience Training, No Clickers Needed

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On the controversial discussion of using violence in child-rearing, I found an interesting article from Psychology Today. The author gives a brief history of physical punishment in teaching (or obedience training, depending on how you look at it) beginning with some quotes from the bible recommending the use of a rod to keep children in line. He later goes on to discuss how this was used in the past in schools, with a very disturbing account of a German teacher who "proudly kept a record of all the beatings he administered in 51 years of teaching: "911,527 blows with a rod, 124,010 blows with a cane, 20,989 taps with a ruler, 136,715 blows with the hand, 10,235 blows to the mouth, 7,905 boxes on the ear, and 1,118,800 blows on the head."".
The most interesting topic he brings up, though, is the idea that in modern society, we are still using the same techniques, only instead of physically abusing students, we are mentally abusing them.  His thoughts on grades bring up an interesting point.  Many students are brought up on the idea that you must achieve the "best" in everything in order to not wind up as a complete failure. He also says this may be more detrimental than physical abuse, because at least with a beating, you can get over it with minimal bruising, but this type of mental coercion can stay with a person for life.
As a pre-med student, I can relate to this. There is a huge amount of pressure to keep grades up, and even getting a B can feel like the end of the world, or at least the end of dreams of Harvard medical school. Honestly, sometimes I would rather take the sharp rap of a ruler across my knuckles.
In his last argument, Gray discusses how aggression plays a role in all of this. He brings up a (personally) heartbreaking account of his experiments on rats, and how he felt anger towards the rats he was shocking.  He related this to his experience teaching, and how he also developed anger for students that performed poorly, despite having done nothing to Gray, personally.
This makes me wonder, in cases like these, who's fault is it for this anger? Does it fall on the student, who obviously should have tried harder? Or is it the fault of the teacher, who may actually be angry at themselves for not having a perfect class? These are all interesting, and somewhat disturbing questions to address, but I believe it is a very important topic for anyone in academia to consider.
To note, it is also unquestionably disturbing that corporal punishment is still legal in 20 states.

Assignment #5: Child Abuse

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When I was much younger my parents were not very strict and usually let me do what I wanted; however when I did do something wrong/bad they would spank me (sometimes really hard). I honestly did not think it was that big a deal; after getting spanked I would remember not to do it again. For the most part spanking kept me in line; after getting spanked I would understand that I did something bad and remembered not to do it again. I t was kind of my parents way of saying, "Hey stop that! That's bad!"...and I didn't think it negatively affected me as a kid; until I read some article about it

Reading a few articles about spanking children as a form of punishment was very informative; I learned that there is actually a lot of evidence that supports claims that spanking your kids may lead to negative effects to their attitude. A child who is consistently spanked may grow to resent his parents and interpret hitting people as a way of getting what they want. According to one study, "children who had been spanked were more likely than the nonspanked to be defiant, demand immediate satisfaction of their wants and needs, become frustrated easily, have temper tantrums and lash out physically against other people or animals."

With the knowledge I have now, I take another look back into my childhood... I realize that my parents spanking me may have actually had negative effects on my attitude growing up. Starting from my early elementary and middle school years I got into a lot of fight in school, this may have been the result of all my punishment. However correlation does not always mean causation; there are dozens of other confound factors that may have caused me to start fights in school.

There has to be a limit between "spanking" and child abuse...If your child is misbehaving a light spank might be what they need to keep them from causing more trouble. Also it's important to let them know what they did wrong; it's not merely punishment, children have to know why they are being punished. So I say, spank if necessary and in moderation.

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1983895,00.html


Ken San Juan 

Can I Spank my Kid?

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In 1979, Sweden became the first country to ban corporal punishment on children. Sixten Pettersson, a Swedish member of Parliament declared, "In a free democracy like our own, we use words as arguments, not blows. We talk to people and do not beat them. If we can't convince our children with words, we shall never convince them with violence." As of 2010, corporal punishment is now illegal in 29 countries. These countries agreed with the Swedish that their children are better educated with words than with violent punishments. The use of corporal punishment of children is not, however, illegal in the United States. The law states that as long as the punishment is "reasonable" then it is not illegal. The definition of "reasonable" is ambiguous though. How far is a parent allowed to go to discipline their child? And are these disciplinary methods actually effective?

Spanking was the primary form of punishment historically. Over the years many have claimed of its effects in keeping children in line. They claimed that the fear of being spanked overrules the child's want to disobey, causing the child to make the right choices. However, The Family Research Lab of New Hampshire University in 1994 stated that the parents who believe that these tactics work have fallen under the confirmation bias. These parents only think of the times when the spanking did work rather than the times when it hasn't.

Many studies have shown that ineffectiveness and potential trauma that corporal punishment can have on children. A study conducted by the Voices for Children found that starting at the age of 2, children distance themselves and resent the guardians who physically harm them. Spanking and other forms of violent punishment has also been shown to lead to increased aggression toward their peers. This is most likely a result of the children mimicking the physical abusive they have experienced from their parents or guardians. Other potential trauma associated with violent discipline includes learning inadequacies, lower mental stability and being more anti-social. 

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Effects of Corporal Punishment

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Corporal punishment is defined as using physical acts as a form of punishment of children. One of the most common is spanking. Parents use this technique to reduce the chances of the act returning. Although there is a difference between corporal punishment and abuse, there have been repeated studies that correlate corporal punishment and future negative behaviors. 

Elizabeth Thompson Gershoff, PhD of Columbia University conducted research and compared 62 years worth of data. She compared those who received corporal punishment as a child and those who did not and examined 11 future behaviors. These behaviors consisted of things like mental health, criminal tendencies, aggression and compliance. She found that there was a negative correlation between these behaviors and those children that did not receive corporal punishment in all eleven factors except immediate compliance. These studies have been repeated by many other psychologist. 

Although these correlation findings do not lead to a conclusion of cause and effect, the heightened negative behaviors like aggression and criminal tendencies are not too much to risk. There are other effective measures that parents can use. Some of these are talking to the child about there behavior and ask them why they behaved in the way they did. This allows for both the child and the parent to understand the motives for the act can prevent it in the future. Also this allows  a time for the parent to explain to the child what was wrong with there actions. 
Relax people. Think back a generation ago and there were still kids spanked in public and the generation before that still got the belt. Now there is a difference between being hard on a child for misbehaving and abuse. Abuse should always be prevented and is never acceptable. Corporal punishment may be good provided the parent does not act too aggressively or the child may misinterpret what is happening. These actions do improve short term behavioral correction and seems to serve as a negative renforcer. Quite honestly if anyone was to think back to their childhood they could probably imagine a time when they deserved a good slap on the wrist and should thank their parents for instilling discipline in their schema.

http://www.psychpage.com/family/disc.html 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUmJDVRDRTQ

Think About It

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It's a natural thing for children to test their parents' skills, expectations, and authority. We all have done it before without really realizing it. When children do something naughty or not good, or if they disobey their parents and ignored the rules, then discipline comes into play. Discipline is where the children learn the difference between right and wrong, and if discipline is given out the wrong way, the parents are potentially putting their children at risk of learning something that was not meant to be taught.

According to the American Humane Association, disciplining children through the use of violence does not facilitate learning and does not help differentiate the difference between what is right and what is wrong. To the child's eye, if violence is used to enforce discipline, they will learn to not misbehave in front of the adult and they will also learn to fear it as well. Also, even though physical discipline such as spanking or hitting is used to teach the children not to misbehave, it may unintentionally lead to an injury.

I personally do not like using violence as a way of teaching children to not misbehave. Children will be children because they do not have a mature-enough mental brain to decide what is right and what is not. It is up to the adults, the parents, or the caretakers to positively teach the children and to also care for the children, not the other way around. If violence is constantly used, it can lead to serious injury, both physical and psychological. Violence can harm the relationship between the adult and the child, it can cause low self-esteem in the child, it can cause neglect, and worse of all violence can teach the child that this is the only acceptable way to handle a misbehaved person or conflict.

There are many alternatives to violence such as putting the children in time out for them to understand that they need to rethink about their actions, listen to why they did what they did, or develop some kind of creative way of good positive behavior from the child like giving them a sticker or a treat each time they behaved good. Violence is not the only way to discipline a child. People just choose to only turn to violence because they find it most effective, but in reality it's the opposite.


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The most important part of a parent's job is to guide their children on the path to becoming an adult.  They need to provide an example for their kids to follow and imitate which outlines what not to do.  Giving children an observable means of seeing how to act properly in the household as well as outside of it proves to be the most effective way to teach children proper behavior.  But what happens when kids refuse to adhere to parent's rules despite being told not to do something over and over again?  This is an area of great debate because there are some who believe that giving children a little discipline by the means of a spanking or other forms of corporal punishment is the best way to have children get rid of improper habits and behaviors.  On the other side, people against the use of corporal punishment see it as an improper means to getting children to accept the target behavior and just causes fear in the child.  Many articles show that some use of corporal punishment can help to shape children's behavior.

In Walter E. Williams article, Making a Case for Corporal Punishment, he argues that society should bring back the willingness to use physical punishment on children.  He goes on to say that teachers as well as parents used this form of punishment to teach children what to do until they let "experts" say otherwise.  Another argument he makes is that the practice of whipping and or spanking kids undeniably produced a more civilized younger generation compared to today's current youngsters.  The use of foul language and assault on teachers and adults by those younger would never have been thought of in past eras when corporal punishment was used says Williams.  He makes a strong argument of how criminals who are arrested and are repeat offenders would probably agree that the use of punishment on them in the beginning to set them straight would have done more to change their behavior rather than giving them counseling over and over again.  There seems to be a strong point to the use of some mild forms of punishment on children to set them on the right path.  Although it really is impossible to prove one side or the other, the use of corporal punishment can have very positive effects on unruly children.  

This chart shows which states(red) have not made corporal punishment illegal in the U.S.

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Sources:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1571/is_34_15/ai_55821653
http://nomodernslaverynow.blogspot.com/2010/11/cruelty-still-at-large-behind-closed.html

Extreme Animal Phobia

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Extreme Animal Phobia

    Spiders, snakes, and bees are very common creatures that we often feel fearful of; but what about being afraid of animals such as puppies, kittens, or butterflies? The fear these people have is so extreme that in some cases, it prevents them from living their lives. Fortunately, this problem has been receiving some very publicized help. Dr. Robin Zasio from the Anxiety Treatment Center of Sacramento is working to help people with such phobias, both with the typical and atypical feared creature. Her work on the television show, My Extreme Animal Phobia, currently airing on Animal Planet, primarily deals with increasing exposure to the animal. The idea of exposing the patient is that desensitization to the fearful stimulus occurs.
    Desensitization in the show happens in several steps and at the pace that the patient is comfortable with. During one episode, the patient will typically be led to a place where the animal they are afraid of is behind glass, in some sort of container. One would think that even though they are in the same room as the animal, but there is a barrier between them, they would feel safe since this is a way to make the patient feel in control of their fear and of the situation. Sometimes, the phobia is so extreme, the patient feels overwhelming anxiety and would immediately try to leave the room, but will eventually stay with the patient guidance of Dr. Zazio. Another type of exposure that Dr. Zazio has tried during an episode, is to decorate the room where the patients are staying while in treatment. The decoration is far from what one would usually think of. For example, a patient with a fear of spiders will have fake spiders and spider webs made of cotton balls all over the room. At first, the patients were upset, but found the decorations easy to adjust to, since they were fake. Dr. Zazio also eventually has the patients touch or pet the animal they were afraid of, once the patient has a good level of comfort and safety.
    Unfortunately, I have not had a chance to watch a full episode of this series on television so I still have a few questions about how the phobia is ultimately cured, or at least reduced, as well as what patients can do to retain their cure. I am very intrigued by the idea and I think that it is a great way to educate the public about phobias so that people who may be ashamed or afraid to get help might change their mind. Lastly, I would like to see what other psychological techniques Dr. Zazio uses, especially for patients that have less common phobias to animals, such as puppies.

Youtube feature: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xge49FuX5v4
Internet article: http://tv.nytimes.com/2011/10/21/arts/television/my-extreme-animal-phobia-on-animal-planet-review.html

Misbehavior

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Much to the dismay of many parents, despite their efforts to discipline their children, they still misbehave. The simple thought is that if parents punish their child for misbehaving, he or she won't do that wrongdoing anymore. And inversely if a parent rewards their child for good behavior, they will continue with that desired behavior. This technique usually has beneficial results in the short term, but long term benefits may not come through. This may be due to a misunderstanding or miscommunication between the parents and children. Some children misbehave to earn attention, when they are in a new situation, or if they are just in a bad mood. The parents reaction to this and their choice of action towards the child may reinforce or diminish this behavior. If parents are constantly over-belittling or patronizing, the child may never learn to behave properly. Children are especially attentive and learn mostly through observation. If their parents participate in negative behavior, physical or verbal, and the children don't see them getting punished, they may think it's okay for them to do the same. This becomes very apparent with swearing. Adults use vulgar language without punishment, so children become confused when they get punished for using those words. 

It's hard for children to understand everything, so the responsibility for understanding lies in the hands of the parents. By figuring out why their children are misbehaving, the parents can then adjust their disciplining strategies to help the children understand their behaviors. Hopefully, parents of today can apply these techniques when raising their children.

Corporal Punishment: Good or Bad?

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Corporal punishment is a punishment inflicted on a child by adult authority; examples are spanking, whipping, hit with a paddle, etc.  According to Science Dailey 79% of preschool aged children and 50% of eight and nine year olds are hit with objects such as paddles or a switch in 2002.  Though this is an 18% decline since 1975 it is still a very large number of children on the receiving end of corporal punishment.  Showing that through everything that the world has been through we still haven't completely changed our ways for the better.

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Some of the ideas around corporal punishment blow my mind.  I could never imagine using objects to physically harm my child or any other child.  The idea that people believe hitting a six month old baby will teach them something is ridiculous!  What could a six month old baby do to deserve any form of abuse?  The only things they want to do are eat, sleep, poop, and be loved.  None of these things could allow for a baby to get hit by its caregiver.

I 100% completely disagree with using corporal punishment.  But I will not judge someone for how they chose to raise their child, until it becomes a point where they are actually causing damage to that child.  When I was little I saw my brother spanked and knew that it was something I didn't really want.  But there was one time where I was on the receiving end, but I can't remember why.  I do remember my reaction vividly.  I was leaning over my mom's knee and when she spanked me I began laughing!  My brother couldn't believe it and neither could my mom.  This obviously wasn't the reaction she wanted so I was spanked again and again I began laughing harder.  I laughed so hard that I started to cry and my mother gave up.  I can't remember the exact number of spankings I received but it couldn't have been more than 3 or 4.  This is the earliest time that I can remember where I used my number one defense method.  Whenever something bad happens I tend to smile and laugh, most people would think it was fake but it is a true smile and genuine laughter.  I don't know how I do it or why but I realized that day when I was about 5 that a smile and a little laughter can make anything better.  So I guess in my case I got a very ironic positive effect from corporal punishment.

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Child Abuse

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Many children in today's society become victims of child abuse. Child abuse is defined as the physical, emotional, or sexual mistreatment of a child. Many people may be unaware of the effects of child abuse and do nothing to prevent it. Violent behavior is one of the leading causes of mortality among youth. I have found two studies on child abuse and would like to share them as I believe that more people should become aware of child abuse.

 

In the first study I found, researchers examined the relationship between young children's involvement in and attitudes toward violence, parental use of physical punishment, and parental expectations of violence use among children. What they found was that children who were more likely to engage in bullying, fighting, and victimization of others reported that their parents engaged in corporal punishment as a disciplining method. This suggests that parental use of corporal punishment may pose a risk for violent behaviors among children.

 

The second study I found was called the Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) Study. In this study, each participant completed a confidential survey that contained questions about childhood maltreatment and family dysfunction, as well as items describing their current health status and behaviors. The researchers used their score to assess the total amount of stress a child had demonstrated during childhood. They found that there was an increased risk in the following health problems: alcoholism and alcohol abuse, depression, drug use, liver disease, and suicide attempts to name a few.

 

 

 

The ACE pyramid has five layers. The bottom layer represents

 

 

This graph/pyramid shows the levels of increasing behavior at risk for children due to the cause of child abuse. This is from the ACE Study.

 

Both of these studies just come to show that negative parental influences on children at a young age can and probably will affect them in the future. It's such a terrible thing to hear about because these children at young ages don't know who to turn to make any form of abuse stop from their parents. I hope that the child abuse awareness message gets out there to others and that maybe they can help save a child's life.

 

Research:

http://www.apa.org/pi/prevent-violence/resources/violent-behavior.aspx

http://www.cdc.gov/ace/about.htm

http://www.wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

Corporal Punishment

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I think that corporal punishment should be used in schools and in homes, kids need to learn how to behave and in my belief corporal punishment is the most efficient way to teach them. Some parents use timeouts as a punishment however if you have to give your children a timeout multiple times every day are they really learning to change their behavior?

I have a friend from middle school who moved to Texas our Freshman and Sophomore year and then returned, the school he attended allowed corporal punishment but only if the parents signed a waiver to allow it. His parents signed the waiver, in middle school he was somewhat of a trouble maker definitely not the worst kid in our class, however he liked to get a reaction out of teachers. When he came back he was telling me about the paddle that the principle used to enforce the punishments, he only had to see one kid get in trouble and he never acted out again.

This form of punishment not only teaches them quickly it also sticks with them, even after he came back to our school with no corporal punishment he was always very respectful and follows all of the rules even to this day. If corporal punishment can teach kids lessons without ever having to hurt most of them I think that it should be used.

Recently a video titled "Judge William Adams beats daughter for using the internet" was uploaded on YouTube by Hillary Adams. It depicted Judge Adams beating his daughter with a belt for downloading MP3s off the internet. The video wasn't posted until 6 years after the actual event, but it has sparked controversy over the line between corporal punishment and abuse. Corporal punishment is not allowed in schools in the US but there is no law against using corporal punishment at home.


This is something that needs to change. According to many studies, this type of punishment can seriously harm the brain development of children. When a brain does not develop normally this affects the ability to deal with emotions, cognitive abilities, relationships, and job functioning. Corporal punishment is not allowed in schools, so why should it be allowed in homes? Parents should not have more rights to harm their children than anyone else. 


The United States is not one of the 22 countries in the world that outlaw domestic corporal punishment. Therefore the question of where do we draw the line between corporal punishment and abuse is not clear. Hopefully the Supreme Court can come to a final decision, ban domestic corporal punishment, and stop these tragedies from happening again. If you want to learn more about this controversy you can watch this video of Dr.Drew's reaction to Judge Adams. Disclaimer: this video contains graphic scenes of physical abuse.


Not a Lesson...Assignment #5

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Put yourself in a child's shoes, would you like to live with the fear of being beaten every time you do something wrong even if it was just a mistake? Everybody makes mistakes that is part of life and learning from them is the other part.  Physical violence is the use of kicking, beating, spanking, or anything else that causes harm physiclly to an individual know as discipline. "Now they'll know better" is basically the default or excuse for physical violence against children. Adults or personal caregivers argue that the use of violence is for the childs own good, but in the long run it really is not; the child is left both physically and mentally scarred, and in the long run that form of discipline has negative effects. Parents should know it is far more effective to explain to their children in words what they did wrong and why it was wrong not lash out at them every time they are frustrated or feel disobeyed. A home and family should be a feeling of security and safety not a feeling of fear.
A Reading by the United Nations Secretary-General's study goes in deep detail about the use of violence against children at home and within families. This reports key features discuss how a child should feel protected by a family and to build relationships and not tear them down by anger. If a child is raised with anger and impulsive violence, the child will also grow up with that way of life. Because young children are so dependent on their caregivers, they are unable to understand the fact that it is not right, but as they grow up and become more independent they will spend time in different environments such as school or a friends they will see other interactions amongst family and begin to understand and feel inferior to their families. The report mentions that the consequences of violence can result in physical disabilities, other physical and mental health problems, trust issues, and developmental issues later in life. Big proof of the consequences that impact children were that children whose mothers beat them avoided their mothers more than those children whose mothers did not beat them. The reading also mentioned the relationship between violence and children later in life and showed that children who did experience violence were more prone to alcohol and drug abuse, cancer, depression, and other diseases. If beating a child to discipline them is claimed as good discipline tool and will teach the child its lesson not to repeat the bad deed again, why are they turning out so trouble for the majority.
I believe the use of violence should not be used in raising children. A child may misbehave or color on the walls with nail polish every now and then, but that is normal, all children go through their terrible twos...and threes and fours and so on but that is part of life and development and adults just need to learn to understand that. Though I do not have children, again I am mentioning the kids I babysit. There mother is amazing she has never hit them and the kids are just the sweetest they are very social and do not fear people. Though they have their temper-tantrums and are not perfect, they are happy. Abusive punishment is not necessary to punish kids, however punishment is necessary, it just has its limits. I think the time-out ritual is a good form of punishment and is effective, for one, the adult gets a break and two it gives both the child and the adult to calm down and recall what just happened, how it was handled, and what needs to be done to improve the behavior the next time. I believe using physical abuse against children will eventually drive families apart and lead to depression and stress which leads to illness both physically and mentally.

Corporal Punishment in Moderation

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coporal punishment.jpg     David Benatar, the author of Social Theory and Practice, states that corporal punishment can be a wide variety of punishments from forced labor to mutilating torture. These are obviously not the actions we are referring to during child rearing; "the infliction of physical pain without injury... including spanking, paddling, swatting" is the main controversy in society (Benatar). In Benatar's journal, he states his thoughts on corporal punishment at home and in schools, whereas these are the two places with the most similarities. His opinion is that punishment should not be administered regularly and for small infractions and when punishment goes beyond this, it is "correctly labeled as child abuse."

     I agree with Benatar in the fact that there is a time and a place for corporal punishment. It should not be advocated in situations with little to no importance, such as because of an argument between siblings over a toy. It should not be applied on a regular basis, whereas this can lead to bad/abusive relationships between parents and their children. This video states and shows a situation in which I think is appropriate to use corporal punishment.

     I didn't get in trouble much as a child; however, I got spanked a few times. Corporal punishment worked on me because after those couple times, I have done very little to make my parents upset. Some psychologists will argue that corporal punishment leads to children lying to their parents about doing wrong. I believe this has nothing to do with the corporal punishment; this is actually the underlying personality of the child - whether they are honest or not. A dishonest child is going to lie to their parents to avoid any kind of punishment, even if it is only one day grounding with not TV.

     To avoid falling victim to confirmation bias, I watched a couple of videos and read articles about the other side - corporal punishment is wrong and should never be administered. Here is one of the videos.

 

Corporal Punishment in Child Rearing

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When searching for a resource related to corporal punishment in child rearing I decided to search YouTube for an interesting video. I came across this clip from a Little House on the Prairie episode about spanking.

In the beginning of the episode, the teacher is shown and implied to be spanking the little boy. This sort of corporal punishment by (in my mind) an insider, I do not find appropriate. Especially in this case the man is punishing the boy for silly reasons or in some views no reason at all.

After the little boy locks the teacher in the outhouse, the father of the boy comes to the school. The father makes it clear that he is disappointed in the boy's behavior and that it was wrong. He then allows the teacher to spank the boy with his belt to a limited extent. My favorite quote from the clip was, "punishment will follow wrongdoing." In my mind, this summarizes my view of corporal punishment in child rearing.

I believe that physical punishment has its time and place. I was spanked as a child and after one time I never needed it again. I think that it is a very effective way to teach children right and wrong. In the clip, the boy realized that his last spanking he deserved and that he had acted inappropriately. I don't believe that the father's actions were any sort of child abuse, simply good parenting. The teacher's action during the first two spankings were uncalled for and I would consider child abuse.

Overall, I am pro corporal punishment in child rearing when done right. There is a fine line, but I believe walking that line has its benefits. Spanking in particular to this case, was associated in the deep respect the boy showed for his father and I don't think that either of them would trade that. 

Abuse or Discipline?

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         Many families believe in spanking as punishment. Is spanking abuse? Most states do not have a law that prohibits spanking. They do have statues that define child abuse. Abuse is the improper usage or treatment for a bad purpose, often to unfairly or improperly gain benefit.

         Last week in the discussion section we talked about corporal punishment with children. In many articles it says that there is a fine line between punishment and abuse. I believe that the line is very clear. I do not think that anyone should use physical punishment. It is horrible. There are many other ways to punish naughty children, such as time-outs, raising your voice, etc. There is no need for spanking or any other physical punishment. For people that do believe in corporal punishment how do you know when to draw the line? One parent might consider their actions as punishment, but someone else would consider it abuse. 

         I think the article below does a very good job of laying out the boundaries for punishment. Abuse demonstrates anger and hostility, but discipline demonstrates love and affection. Abuse teaches children that the caregiver has all the power and the child is given no respect, but discipline teaches a balance of power and mutual respect. Abuse involves humiliation and discipline does not. These are only a few examples of the differences between abuse and discipline. How isn't there a distinct line between them?

The Effects of Corporal Punishment on Children

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Corporal Punishment is defined as a form of physical punishment that involves deliberate infliction of pain for the purpose of disciplining a wrongdoer. A child being spanked by his or her parent for doing something considered wrong in the parent's mind is one example of corporal punishment. There is much controversy over whether this type of punishment towards children is helpful in teaching children what is right and wrong or even if its morally right alone. There is a great deal of supporting evidence in this article that states many reasons why spanking children is not the most effective form of punishment to use when disciplining children.

For the past several years, many psychiatrists, sociological researchers, and parents have recommended that the U.S. ban physical punishment of children for many reasons. First, when a parent hits a child, the child learns that violence is okay. The child then has a greater potential to also use violence compared to those parents who don't use violence as a punishment. Also, hitting a child as punishment will distract them from learning how to resolve conflicts in effective and humane ways. Lastly, physically punished children become preoccupied with feelings of anger and frustration. These feelings usually cannot be adequately expressed throughout childhood. They are then in turn stored inside until teenage years when the anger and frustration are finally released, although not in a healthy form.

These are just a few among many reasons how hitting children has a negative effect not only on their reaction from the hit, but also on their later years as a teenager and an adult. This kind of corporal punishment can cause aggression, antisocial behaviors, and mental health issues among others. There are many other alternatives for punishing a child, such as taking away a favorite toy or giving them a time-out, to avoid these negative outcomes.

The Triarchic Model

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Robert Sternberg developed the triachic model because he believed that there was more to intelligence than just g (general intelligence). The triachic model consists of 3 different types of intelligence:

1) Analytical intelligence (book smart) 
2) Practical intelligence (street smart)
3) Creative intelligence (creativity)

Most of the time a person can be placed in any one of these categories, and some times people are placed in two or all three categories. 

I find this theory of intelligence very interesting because it touches on aspects that a lot of the other theories do not. The triarchic model doesn't solely base intelligence on how smart you are, or how well you do in school, in other words. It accounts for other factors such as surviving and being able to blend in with the rest of the human race efficiently. 

A person with high analytical intelligence has the ability to reason logically and usually does very well with school work. According to Sternberg, analytical intelligence is the most closely related intelligence to general intelligence. People that fall into this category are usually very good with complex information that doesn't pertain to every day life.


Someone who has practical intelligence is typically someone who does very well in the real world and knows exactly what to do in certain situations. People skills have a lot to do with this type of intelligence, which is why it is also sometimes called social intelligence.


Creative intelligence applies to people who demonstrate out-of-the-box thinking to come up with new solutions to difficult problems. These type of people are usually skilled in art forms such as composing music or analyzing a poem.


The Triarchic model of intelligence is a diverse representation of the way we think and process information. I believe that it is very important because it shows different aspects of intelligence unlike general intelligence. It is a very deep way of analyzing intelligence.








Violence in Child Rearing (Shelby Miner Sec 26)

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Corporal punishment is characterized by the use of force or violence when disciplining a child.  Contrary to popular belief, this method is still used and it not illegal in schools in the United States, though it is in 112 other countries around the world, according to the Center for Effective Discipline (http://www.stophitting.com/index.php?page=laws-main), nor has the US outlawed its use in families, as have 29 other countries (Center for Effective Discipline). I personally suspect that this has much to do with the emphasis upon freedoms in the US and the governments inherent opposition to imposing laws restricting these, especially since, contrary again to the ideas of many, corporal punishment is not child abuse.  However, there are scientific reasons that it should have no place in raising a child.

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There is, according to www.naturalchid.org, "Extensive research data is now available to support a direct correlation between corporal punishment in childhood and aggressive or violent behavior in the teenage and adult years."  Aggression towards children leads them to be aggressive themselves, perpetuating a continuous cycle of corporal punishment in families and possibly increasing the child's tendencies toward crimes.  It seems to me, personally, that's the opposite of the goal of discipline. The same source also points out that violent punishment "distracts the child from learning how to resolve conflict in an effective and humane way (The Natural Child Project)." If violence is used, a child may become angry and less open to learning from the experience.  Furthermore, violence only teaches a child what they did wrong, not what the correct behavior is.  These factors indicate that perhaps violence is not the most effective means of teaching. 

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The last reason against corporal punishment I will address is not scientific but of my own reasoning.  I come from a family that is adamantly against any type of violence toward children.  This is not to say that is the correct way of child rearing; it is simply to preface what I'm about to say.  I trust my parents with all of my being, and I know that I can approach them with any problem I have or mistake I have made.  But I do not think this would be the case if I feared from them the possibility of violence.  How can one trust someone who would hit them?

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As for my personal beliefs on the matter, I am strongly opposed to the limiting of freedoms.  Therefore, how a parent chooses to raise a child is not of the business of anyone else.  And, as I have turned out to be a functional human being, I am sure there are children from families who used corporal punishment that are also quite highly adept at life.  I have not experienced both situations, and therefore I cannot say that one way of parenting is better than another.  All I can say is that, no matter what they did, I do not believe I could bring myself to hit a child.

Corporal Punishment

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Writing Assignment #5: Corporal Punishment

 

Corporal punishment can be defined as a form of physical punishment that involves the deliberate infliction of pain as retribution for an offence, or for the purpose of disciplining or reforming a wrongdoer, or to deter attitudes or behavior deemed unacceptable. The topic of corporal punishment is very touchy and debated a lot. I think that the use of corporal punishment is not beneficial in children's learning. The reasons why corporal punishment is bad:

 

1.     Self Esteem: Corporal punishment can lower self-esteem to both the punisher and punishee, and may have longer-term psychological impact too.

2.     Unnecessary: There are other means of education that are effective too. A common alternative is to educate why the action was wrong to the point of invoking empathy or shame.

3.     Hostility: Those people receiving punishment are more likely to be instilled with rage and hostility even into adulthood.

4.     Violence: Are you familiar with the old adage: "monkey see, monkey do"? Well, corporal punishment trains children to be violent to other children and educates them that it is an acceptable means of education. This will carry on into adulthood too.

5.     Child Abuse: For corporal punishment to typically continue working, more punishment, pain, or force may be necessary. As a result, child abuse typically starts as corporal punishment.

 

My parents never used physical punishment when I was growing up. I am the first born, so my parents didn't know anything about parenting except for what they had read in parenting books. They tried a lot of things, found out what worked and stuck with it. One time, I was doing something I wasn't supposed to be doing, so my mom swatted my hand. Unexpectedly, I hit her right back. Obviously, they didn't stick with this type of punishment because they thought it would teach me to be violent.

 

For new parents, I would recommend to not use corporal punishment on their kids. It has many negative side effects, and can hurt the child in the long run. 

Violence and Children is a no-no

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While we were discussing the use of violence as a means to disciple a child in class today, my mind raced to a scene in the recent movie The Help. In The Help a mother ignores her child at almost all costs, that is until she sees her daughter doing something semi-inappropriate. When she sees her daughter going potty in a toilet in her friend's front yard she immediately spanks her daughter. Of course her daughter starts to cry. Is this a good way to punish a child and to show them what is right and wrong?

I personally do not think that violence is a good way to discipline a person and Kids Health agrees. I was never physically punished by anyone, my parents went with the vocal, or sometimes lack of, approach. They would tell me how disappointed they were in me or they would give me the silent treatment, a method I think is significantly more effective. This method still sent me into tears like any other type of violent punishment, but the difference between my parents approach and the violent approach is that I knew what I did wrong.

Kids Health says "It's important to not spank, hit, or slap a child of any age. Babies and toddlers are especially unlikely to be able to make any connection between their behavior and physical punishment. They will only feel the pain of the hit." The only thing violence will do is cause children to shy away from their parents and feel physical pain. In the end violent approaches to build disciple just send kids into tears, and no one wants to see a crying child.
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Sexual Orientation: What makes gay people gay?

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Does Violent Video Games Lead to Aggression?

One emphasis in this course has been to introduce different approaches to experimental design, such as the discussion on the pros and cons of cross-sectional and longitudinal design in chapter 10, and teaching us to evaluate them critically.  All of the articles used for discussion last week had problems in their experimental designs and in the conclusions drawn from them,  but in particular the two discussing the connection  that playing violent video games causes aggressive behavior both short and long term, http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ulterior-motives/201003/the-broad-view-research-video-games-and-aggression and   http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/05/110525151059.htm ,were seriously flawed.

The first article discusses the use of Meta-Analysis to show us that video games cause aggression in players.  They discussed both correlational studies and longitudinal studies concluding that people who play violent video games become more aggressive.  While Meta-Analysis may be an improvement on other statistical approaches used to present an overview of the literature, the best criticism I found of it was "garbage in ... garbage out" www.stat-help.com/meta.pdf .  Combining badly controlled studies with poorly defined variables  only amplifies their inaccurate conclusions.  For instance, what defines a violent video game?  Does it need to contain blood; gore, killing etc. or does it just need to contain harm to a subject.  Does it need to involve realistic human characters or do fanciful abstract characters qualify.  Also, the definition of aggression is varied and vague while what constitutes an appropriate control need to be reevaluated.  Possibly a more appropriate control for "violent" video games would be any other competitive sport such as hockey, football etc. instead of the often used non-violent video game.  The topic of whether violent video games are beneficial or harmful is difficult to obtain a conclusive answer to when many of the studies are small with such varied set ups and read outs.

                  The variety of video games is larger than people may realize.  Depending on what you define as violent, you could say a lot of video games or very few are violent.  For example, games like Halo, F.E.A.R., Left4Dead are all very violent games in anyone's eyes, but they all contain characters that aren't real (ex. aliens and zombies) that most people are able to tell the difference from humans.  However, games like Grand Theft Auto, Max Payne, and the Getaway are very violent games that contain blood and gore and involve realistic looking human people, while some games contain mild violence, such as World of Warcraft, Starcraft and Tekken.  Depending on how you define violence, it may be difficult to decide what games should be in the research designs discussed in the article.   Yet, often they are lumped together in a study as if World of Warcraft is comparable to Grand Theft Auto; trust me they're not.  Another thing to keep in mind is that people choose video games based on their personality, people who are aggressive may tend to play violent video games.  Therefore, recruiting the people for these experiments needs to be very carefully controlled for.

                The second article is a good example of the care that needs to be taken in what your read out is for a study, what you are measuring.  The researchers make the observation that people are desensitized to photos of violence as a result of video game playing and try to extrapolate this meaningless finding to a response to real life violent situation.  This gives people very little credit for being able to distinguish fantasy from reality.  People who love to watch horror movies hardly ever turn into psychotic killers as a result viewing them.  Much more thought should be put into the design of these experiments and they should be weighed carefully against the numerous benefits video games have to offer as both entertainment and education.   Quite frankly killing off Bambi's mother is probably more traumatizing to children than most video games.    

 

Affects of Divorce on Children

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In the textbook it talked about the affects of divorce on children. Some studies showed that divorce may have an affect on children. This demonstrates the principle of causation vs. correlation. It is not known whether children act out of character before the parents were divorced as opposed to after. My parents are divorced and I believe that divorce does have an affect on children. It is a hard situation for anyone to overcome. The article below believes that divorce doesn't necessarily have an impact on children, but in some cases it may.

Violent TV ruins our kids...? Not in my family.

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I grew up with a little brother who watched violent TV shows day after day. He would play video games that involved beating up another character, and he would play with action figures in violent ways. But this is as far as my brother's aggression goes in his every day life.
I remember watching Barney, and the Teletubbies in daycare and I always thought they were boring shows. Of course they taught a kind lesson, but they weren't as engaging as the action television shows my brother was interested in. Therefore, I started watching the same shows, playing the same games, and interacting with my brother's "violent" play.
I personally do not think that viewing this material makes a child want to be violent in real life. I think they can tell the different between what they see on the TV, and what they see on the playground. They may pretend to be like their favorite super hero who fights crime, but to that extent only, if they are guided the right direction by their parents. Parenting has a lot to do with how kids see the world. If a mom or dad teaches their child right from wrong, they can see what is right and wrong in a violent television show, and they will know not to portray the violent actions in their every day life, because of what their "mommy" told them. However, I think if a parent chooses to teach their child about violence, that's all they will know. If they are taught to stick up for themselves in a violent way, they might be the one to actually use what they see on TV shows on the playground, and either hurt themselves, or worse, someone else.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/12/101214112031.htm
This study supports that violent video games do not cause violence in children. It simply states that there are far too many factors that can cause a child to be violent, one being depression. If a child is having troubles with too many things at one time, they may lash out in violence as their way of dealing with it. But playing the violent video games didn't have a correlation with the violence they were involved in 12 months later.

Better dating through science

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     Dating is not as romantic as it sounds, from what we have learned in the past few weeks. It can actually be manufactured, that is, it can be altered by some research results and scientific methods.  There are several useful terms that can be used before attending or arranging a date. Proximity means people are more easily to be attracted by those who are sharing the same physical traits, for example, living in the same country or state. Similarity is people who might be more attracted to each other if they share the same religion, education, social class or behavior style. Reciprocity means that during the date, if one side is receiving some type of positive messages, they might need to show the same thing back in order to get this relationship continuing smoothly.
     

     I actually find this topic interesting so after the discussion session I have searched for related information. I have found a funny article named "Valentine's Day dating tips from lovestruck scientists". There are seven doable tips for people who are going to date. "Wear red" is one of them. According to the article, "red is hypothesised to serve as an aphrodisiac for men because it carries the meaning of sex and romance" while "women also preferred men wearing red clothes, or in front of red backgrounds." Although I may never know what would be the exact underlying reason, it could be worth trying the trick for the next date.

     Dating is a large portion in human's life because that is the foundation of building a family. If getting married is the final, then every date is the test. Therefore, the purpose of the scientific method is to help people to get a higher score on the test. Check  it out, maybe that is how the romance starts. 

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/blog/2011/feb/14/valentines-day-dating-tips-scientists

Eastern Societies vs Western Societies

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Many times in our textbook, our authors compare different psychological concepts in eastern society and western society. In this chapter, the example is used that four-day-old infants with sheets placed over their heads. American babies fought to take have the sheet taken off, but Japanese babies were less likely to fight. This chapter gives a word to the differences of societies: western societies have individualistic cultures, and eastern societies have collectivist cultures. Among other things, in general, I think of individualistic cultures with having a higher income inequality than collectivist cultures. This is because individualistic cultures value achievement and independence, while collectivist cultures value group harmony.

Intuitively, a hardworking society where people cooperate but also compete is better than a society that exclusively competes. Don't get me wrong - I believe in capitalism. But working together, perhaps reducing our income inequality, could help our society.

As I researched this subject, I realized that this intuition is based in fact.
As income inequality increases, the following get worse: life expectancy, math & literacy, infant mortality, homicides, imprisonment, teenage births, trust, obesity, mental illness, and social mobility. This holds true both among countries and among states in the USA.

I especially like how the speaker in this video, Richard Wilkinson, mentions that based on how low social mobility is compared to other countries, Americans hoping to live the American dream should move to Denmark. Social mobility is a measure of how much your father's income matters on how much you will make. A high social mobility means that children's income is not necessarily based on how much the parents make.

A higher income inequality nation will have people that are more preoccupied with superiority and inferiority. People will worry more about how they are seen by others; fear of judgement increases. All the data in this video aren't picked and chosen. All the data in this video is all the data available from any country that has recorded these measures.

One of our themes is causation vs. correlation. While this can be argued, the highest driving factor seems to be income inequality. I'm sure some bidirectional arrows can be drawn, but reducing our income inequality would almost surely result in a better society.

Entry #4: Language

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One of the topics that seemed very interesting to me these past couple weeks, has been the topic on language.  Language is something we use to communicate and express ourselves and according to some psychologist it is something we use to think and without it we cannot think.  According to Webster language is words, their pronunciation, and the methods of combining them used and understood by a community.  

The most interesting part about languages was how in some languages the sounds used to describe an object felt similar to the object.  For example mamula sounds like something blunt and smooth and taktite sounds sharp.  


Cooking eggs with cell phones

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"An egg can be cooked by placing it between two activated cell phones."

How cool right? It is doubtful that this could actually be true. Through the process of scientific thinking, this extraordinary claim needs support that proves or disproves this statement. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. It is widely known that during phone calls, cell phones emit low levels of radio frequency radiation. However, is this radiation powerful enough to fry an egg? Probably not. Unless someone actually shows me that it can be done, doubt remains in my mind. There is controversy over how this radiation affects humans. Because there is no conclusive evidence on how much this radiation impacts the brain, this minimal, possible effect cannot be carried over to this extraordinary claim. It seems that if this radiation isn't strong enough to affect human brains, then there is no way it could fry an egg. Some scientists are worried about the long-term effects that cell phones may pose. Similar to cigarettes, cell phones may have unanticipated long-term effects. Again, there are no conclusive longitudinal studies that prove this. Even if there are damaging effects on the brain over a long period of time, it would take that length of time for an egg to receive enough radiation to fry as well. This extraordinary claim can be disproved by just basic scientific thinking, by requiring significant evidence that proves this. You needn't crack an egg over your cell phone to figure this out.




Facial Feedback

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According to the Lilienfeld text, the facial feedback hypothesis is a theory that we our likely to feel the same emotions that our face is showing. Robert Zajonc hypothesized that when we are making faces that show emotions such as smiling or frowning, those positions change the temperature in our face. These temperature changes "feedback" information to the brain which changes our mood to the corresponding facial feature. 

I have my own small connection with this hypothesis. As a cheerleader everyone has always asked me, "how do you stay so happy all the time?" I have always thought that was a very odd question. It has never seemed that hard to me to smile? But how is it that when our team is losing miserably, its 90 degrees and were doing back flips we still leave TCF in a good mood? The facial feedback hypothesis can explain why we stay so peppy during the games, we are smiling through the whole thing. It also explains why that good mood often does not  last and about 10 minutes into half time everyone is upset. 

The Lilienfled text also proposes an alternative hypothesis that we are classically conditioned to feel that emotion when we are doing the corresponding facial feature. We have learned that happiness is shown with a smile. 

Development age and violent intake.

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Development age and violent intake.
  Violence in respect to development is an interesting and debatable issue. Christopher Nave of University of California, Riverside authored a study that looked at changes in personality over decades. The people were originally tested back in the 1960's and were rechecked after 40 years. The general results indicate that the core of the personality is formed by as early as 1st grade. This would suggest that violence and aggression shown to children after their personality has formed will have a smaller impact than on those who are still forming their personalities.
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WK #9: DEV on the class blackboard learning system, the subjects were between 10-14 or considered to be young adults. Using Piaget's theory of cognitive development as a general outline as well as simple observation we can tell that what people are going through and learning are vastly different at these alternate points in development. Young adults are also starting to mature and enter puberty, and these are bound to have an additional impact.

  A specific incarnation of plasticity of the mind is suggested by the article The broad view of research on video games and aggression. Simply stated, the more violence and aggression a person sees the less of an affect it will have on them. Does this make a person more likely to commit aggressive acts on other people in society? To this I submit another article that was required for class, Could Violent Video Games Reduce Rather Than Increase Violence? This article shows data that suggests that this transition does not occur.

  The findings show that video games and tv shows can increase aggressive behavior. However, there is insufficient evidence to show at which age ranges it is most likely to produce an individual that will commit more aggressive actions against others. As children are in the early stages of development I would predict that there would be a greater change in their brains than in those of young adults for each hour watched. There are fewer frames of reference for younger audiences, such as it is alright to shoot fictional characters in a video game but not a real person, versus the learning to prepare for the world ahead that toddlers and young children are likely incur regardless of which show that they are watching. From this, I would hypothesis that children that watch violent acts(from tv, video games, role models) while young would be more likely to play violent video games than children that watch a consistently smaller number of violent acts because their formed world view suggests that aggression is more heavily required skill.

  If there have been studies that relate to this suggestion please let me know!

Assignment #4 - Mozart Effect

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    The Mozart effect is about the supposed enhancement in intelligence after listening to classical music. When this idea appeared, this led to many parents to expose their children to classical music in hopes to achieve what the effect is supposed to do. Some findings show that the Mozart Effect is nothing but a parsimonious explanation for increased "intelligence" because of a boost in short-term arousal. Other findings show that the effect is nothing but a coincidence. Many began to be skeptical to this effect so scientists began to challenge the idea.  
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     A research study was run that involved rats being placed into 4 groups. The groups were rats who listened to classical music, minimalistic music, white noise and silence. These rats were then tested for their ability to negotiate a maze.The mozart group was found to significantly complete the maze faster and with the fewest errors. The results showed a correlation between rats listening to mozart (classical) music and completed a task faster with fewest errors. 

    I strongly feel that this research claim was solely based on coincidence and I also really don't think that the mozart effect can really be proved. It could have been just by chance that the rats who listened to the mozart music did better. If this experiment was run several times i feel that their will be results that show rats in the other categories finishing faster. Thus, showing that the mozart effect is not always valid. In humans, i feel that some people do better on tasks while listening to mozart because it acts as only as a motivation to try to concentrate and perform better on the task, thus, showing "increased intelligence" or better results. 

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1281386/

Impact of violent video games or violent imagery on children

 

While we were discussing about the development of human behavior, the topic was especially about whether violent video games or violent imagery on TV shows or movies causes aggressive behavior of children. I totally agree that violent imageries give huge impact on children's aggressive behavior. Everyone might realize that young children learn something by watching and following what others do. Also, as young age children, violent things motivate them more that peaceful and friendly things, because they might think it's cool to be a super hero. Children learn things more quickly than old age people, so I think it's going to be very dangerous to expose too much violent shows to the children.

I actually read a lot of news and articles about shocking facts related with violence. For example, there was a teenager boy who addicted to play violent video games. He plays game more than 10hours a day. The game was about shooting and killing the enemies with guns and knives. And one day, his mother told him to stop game and when the boy refuses to stop, she took away the video game from him by force. Then, the teenage boy killed his family using the knife when they were in bed. There are several more articles about similar issues. Parents should realize how much impact the video games have on childeren. Even shy children can change violently through seeing them in short time. So, I would like to conclude that violent imageries never going to be helpful to educate children, and parents shold be more careful to let them watch the show or anything like that.

 

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/01/110119120550.htm

A constant in humanity

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Quick think about every person that has ever existed in all the lands through out all of time. Now with that in mind think about, with all of our differences in cultures and in knowledge, what could we all have experienced that every single human can relate to? As it so happens we all share somethings in the form of primary emotion or emotions we all have the capacity to feel, recognize, and understand. Across every culture people will get if you are Happy, Sad, Surprised, Angry, Disgusted, Afraid, and in a mood of Contempt. It is just an amazing thought to ponder that if you put the Pope, a Tibetan farmer, and a head hunter in the same room they could each tell if the other person was feeling these things and know they have felt this way as well.

Video Game Violence: The Good Guys

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    In the past few decades, the debate arguing the detrimental effects of violence in entertainment has been both constant and popular. The main concept under inspection is the seemingly logical claim that exposing children and minors to violence through video games and television encourages aggression and crime further on down the road. Countless research studies have been conducted, as one can see in the following article:

http://www.media-awareness.ca/english/issues/violence/effects_media_violence.cfm

   However, many such cases, having been closely scrutinized, have proven to be insufficient in their methods of data collection. As a result, the professional psychology community has had to adopt a non-conclusive stance toward the debate. Even the Supreme Court recognized a lack of evidence for the alleged claims in a recent court case, Brown v Entertainment Merchants Board, in which a state's ban on violent video games failed to back up its similar claims. 
   Though it is not uncommon to hear parents complaining about the difficulty of protecting their children from the seemingly unavoidable violence in today's media, and elderly citizens can be seen shaking their heads at the same, science simply does not back up the claim that this violence is seriously harmful to the world's youth. In fact, as the following article describes, many video games actually promote social behavior, and while video games may feature violence, it is often in a negative sense and instead promotes fighting evil and violence, instead of participating in it.


    With this knowledge, it seems as though not only does research show fail to prove a causal relationship between violence in video games and aggression and crime, but research has actually supported the opposite--that said video games can actually encourage the player against such violence. Most teenagers will probably agree that they once dreamed of being Batman, not the Joker.

Separation Anxiety

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     Some children experience separation anxiety when a parent leaves them in the care of another.  This phenomenon begins after the child masters the idea of object permanence; that something exists even when he/she cannot see it.  Once the child understands that Mom is gone from view, and I miss her and want her back, the crying begins. 

     I have two children, dissimilar in many ways.  The second is a boy, easy-going, DSC03639.JPGhappy, and has never cried when left in the care of someone else.  He is thrilled with every new situation he encounters, and has virtually no anxiety.  My eldest child is a girl, tightly-wound, uneasy in strange situations, and happy but anxious at times.  I have extensive experience with the onset of separation anxiety, because from the age of 15 months until age 3, she cried eDSC01568.JPGvery time I left her.  Whether I went to the gym, out with friends, or even to the grocery store, the receiving caregiver had a tough job ahead.  My husband was in the military, which meant that he was gone a lot.  We lived far from family, so there were no weekly visits with Grandma to keep her from being afraid to let me leave.  The two of us were together 24 hours per day, and she didn't have to worry about being away from me.  However, once I did start leaving her again, she had developed a sense of where I was (or wasn't!), and she definitely had something to say about it.

     I used to loathe leaving her, because I could hear her crying, and felt guilty.  However, according to "The Strange Situation" (Ainsworth, et al., 1978) outlined on page 386 of our textbook, it seems that her behavior upon my departure was somewhat normal.  Whenever I returned, she was elated and showered me with affection.  She was the classic example of secure attachment, which makes this mother feel relieved.  My son's reaction might be more worrysome according to Attachment Theory, that he wasn't sad to let me leave.  However, he was just so happy and flexible, that he too was well-adjusted, but doesn't fit into the 4 attachment categories in our text.  He was thrilled upon my return as well; he just fared better in my absence than did his sister.  Kids can be so different from each other, even when they have the same two parents.  Many things factor into the differences (gender, birth order, parenting styles, personalities), and an outcome of the differences that is easy to see is the difference in manifestations of separation anxiety. DSC00207.JPG

Is Beauty in the Eye of the Beholder?

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            There has always been the myth that people of different backgrounds are attracted to different physical traits when searching for mates. This seems to make sense because of the differences of physical preferences within and across cultures. According to the Lilienfeld text, African American men tend to find women with a large body size more physically attractive than men of European cultures. However, this is only partially true because many studies have shown that people tend to agree at significantly higher than chance levels about who is, and isn't, physically attractive. The way that researchers prove that physical attractiveness is programmed into our brains upon birth, is by studying the behaviors of infants. Studies have shown that babies less than one week old will stare longer at adults who are considered attractive by other adults. These babies have not developed manners or experienced cultural influences, so they are incredibly hedonistic and will stare at what they find to be the most appealing. This is proof that standards of physical appearance are innate, meaning they exist since birth.

           

            A better understanding of the innate nature of physical attractiveness standards will help us understand social influences on interpersonal attraction between people of different cultural backgrounds. It teaches us that friendship, dating, and mate choices aren't random, but rather rely on attraction levels between people. By understanding that these standards are innate, we can comprehend and predict interpersonal interactions.

            

Growing up in a high school of diverse cultural backgrounds, I have seen many intercultural relationships first hand. Anecdotal evidence provided by these experiences usually supports the findings stated in the article. My friends and I would almost always agree on the attractiveness of girls, regardless of their cultural backgrounds. However, I do not believe that attractiveness completely relies on physical characteristics. Social behavior must play a role in attractiveness, leaving me wonder if the different behaviors of people of different cultures could change the interest level of mates. If this were true, it could be claimed that overall attractiveness is in the opinion of the beholder because culturally different norms and behaviors could also define attractiveness.


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200804/all-stereotypes-are-true-except-ii-beauty-is-in-the-eye-th

Peers vs Parents

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In 1995 Judy Rich Harris published a paper in the Psychology Review that sparked enormous controversy. She claimed that most environmental transmission is "horizontal" - from peers, not "vertical" - from parents. In other words children are most influenced by their peers. This contradicts much of early psychological work that has been based on the theory that children develop much of their personality and behavior from their parents. It also brings up the debate over nature and nurture. Do social interactions play a greater role in forming psychological characteristics than genetics?

The first thing that popped into my mind when I read about this topic was, what about children who aren't raised by their parents, or are raised by neglectful parents. My hypothesis is that children are influenced by both their parents and their peers, as well as nature and nurture. Children are raised in countless environments, but they will always learn from their surroundings, it's the only way to get by. That could include their parents, foster parents, other kids, or any other significant figure in their life. 

Also, we cannot avoid our genes. There are definitely some characteristics that are passed down from parents to children that effect our personalities. Just as genes for looks are passed down. Although peer influence is increasing with the ease of communication from internet and cell phones, I can't see a world that doesn't look up to parents or a world without parents like MADD that will try to influence their children in a positive way. 

Development of Sexual Orientation

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The development of sexual orientation has been a long time issue among psychologists.  Every person has different views on why people choose the sexual orientation they do.  Whether a person decides to be gay or straight is up to them, but most of them don't even realize why they are attracted specifically to a certain gender.  There are some people that are even ashamed of their sexual orientation.
Attached is an article that I found that really breaks down what psychologists have found out about where and even when decisions about sexual orientation start.  Decisions about sexual orientation may even begin without the person knowing, or subconsciously. 
Psychologists have come up with a model about the development of homosexual identity, and it is broken down into four stages.  I will just touch base on each of the stages, if you would like to know the full details you may read the article.  The stages break down as follows; stage 1:sensitization, stage 2: identity confusion, stage 3: identity assumption, and stage 4: commitment.  This stage model expresses that the first stage can be achieved as early as before puberty, with the others following during adolescence. 
I found this interesting because I feel like it could maybe help some people who are confused about their sexual orientation understand at least where it is coming from.

Link:  Development of Sexual Orientation
www.education.com/reference/article/development-sexual-orientation/


The Mozart Effect: A Closer Look

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In 1993, an article in the journal Nature reported a fascinating discovery: if college students listened to a Mozart piano sonata for ten minutes, instead of a relaxation tape or no sound at all, they performed significantly better on a spatial reasoning task. From this seemingly unremarkable beginning, the Mozart Effect--the supposition that listening to classical music makes your children smarter--was born.

 

51ABFDAMM4L._SS500_.jpgAppealing as this remarkable finding might sound to parents desperate to help their children get ahead in this competitive world, it has serious drawbacks when we consider the principles of critical thinking. First off, the study was conducted on college students, not babies or children; for the findings of the original study to apply to boosting babies' intelligence without testing any babies, researchers would have to find extraordinary evidence to support such an extraordinary claim. Replicability was also an issue: later researchers found the results of the original Mozart Effect study almost impossible to replicate, and those who could replicate it found that listening to Mozart barely increased IQ scores and lasted virtually no time at all. Finally, studies conducted in years following the Mozart Effect study found a simpler explanation for the study's findings. Listening to Mozart had the same effect on a later study's participants as listening to a scary story: it increased mental alertness, and improved their spatial reasoning ability, but not for long, and not in such a way that it improved their overall IQ.

 

In the case of the Mozart Effect, the principles of critical thinking have revealed that the extraordinary claims it makes do not have extraordinary supporting evidence, that the findings have been almost impossible to replicate, and that Occam's Razor has revealed a simpler explanation: that being alert helps spatial reasoning. However, this hasn't stopped The Mozart Effect from spawning a huge baby-genius-creating industry, nor has it stopped humorists from wondering about what would happen if the Mozart Effect applied to other composers.

 

Lilienfeld, Scott. Pyschology - From Inquiry to Understanding. Custom Edition for the University of Minnesota. Boston, MA: Pearson Learning Solutions, 2010. Print.

Even after our discussion on violent media I was still a bit unconvinced as to the scope of impact it has. The article I found to be most convincing was found in Psychology Today and was titled "The broad view of research on video games and aggression."  This article is written by a blogger named Art Markman and in my opinion he does the best job of presenting a holistic view of the issue of all the articles we were supposed to read. Markman begins his discussion of the issue by summarizing how psychological studies work and some of the biases that may be a part of the results. I was intrigued to hear that one of the biggest biases comes from using the meta-analysis technique. Meta-analysis scours published literature looking for well designed studies addressing a common question. These studies are then analyzed to present a broader understanding of the question. Where the bias comes in is that of the published data, the studies that show a correlation are more likely to get published than those that show no connections. Thus of the published data, most of it leans towards correlations even when there may be other studies which contradict this.

                Markman then focused on a March 2010 study by Craig Anderson, Brad Bushman, and others which was a meta-analysis study focusing on 380 studies that involved over 130,000 participants. The general conclusion of the analysis showed that violent video games increase aggressive behaviors both in the short and long term. It also indicated that aggressiveness was triggered in both men and women. And looking at different cultures, Americans as opposed to Japanese were more affected in the long term.

                Based on this study I would say that "Yes" violent video games to trigger more aggression because this finding isn't based on just on study but on multiple. I do have some concern about the method the data was collected and it would put me at ease if another meta-analytical study was done to incorporate the un-published studies.  Also, I would like to have seen a more comparison of the yes and no studies to see why they decided there was a correlation even though there is contradictory evidence out there.


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ulterior-motives/201003/the-broad-view-research-video-games-and-aggression

Learning Violent Behavior - Toan Chu #4

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In class last Friday we talked about violent media linked with aggressive behavior in children. The controversy of whether violent media has significant effects in children behavior or not is interesting in the way that many people can relate to this discussion. 

Growing up as a kid, I was exposed to what is now considered "violent" games and shows. I remember watching the Monkey King, Dragonball Z, and Power Rangers. All of them showing fighting and aggressive behavior. Many people believe that when a child is exposed to violent media, they will act accordingly to what they see. I disagree with this side of the controversy because what we see is not always what we do. Children even at young ages can discern what is right and wrong according to what they are taught by their guardians. I believe this because growing up watching violent shows did not make me an aggressive person when I got older. This is true with many others. 

In class we watched Dr. David Walsh's study of how kids interacted after watching Barney and Power Rangers. This video was interesting in the way that it shows aggressive behavior after watching Power Rangers but it totally ignored the other kids who chose to sit out of it and not pretend fight with each other. Also, the kids might have been riled up for a short moment after watching Power Rangers but it doesn't mean they will grow up fighting evil.

I found an interesting article from CNN summarizing a study done on children from the U.S. and Japan. ---> http://articles.cnn.com/2008-11-03/health/healthmag.violent.video.kids_1_violent-video-video-games-game-genres?_s=PM:HEALTH

The researches in this article concluded that children who were more exposed to violent video games became more aggressive over time. This is interesting because it tells the readers that  violent media does cause children to act more aggressive and shows one side of the controversy. Something that the researchers did not mention in the study is violent behavior in the family. This is important because kids listen to their parents and do what they teach. If their guardians display or allow and promote aggressive behavior then aggressive behavior will be more prominent in these children. 

Sexual Orientation

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Homosexuality was considered a sin, disease and abnormal. Only because people are attracted to the same sex? According to the Lilienfeld text, two distinct differences in the the brain of a homosexual man and heterosexual man is that the corpus callosum is bigger in a homosexual man's brain than a heterosexual's. Along with that homosexual men and women' brain has been tampered in pheromones (Lilienfeld, 442). Rather than smelling the testosterone/estrogen in the opposite sex, they become aroused of it by the "smell" of the same sex (Lilienfeld 442). But in the end, they're the same as anybody else. So why are they not accepted in society?

Many homosexual individuals are terrified of "coming out" because they are afraid people will treat them differently; or not accept them. Whether it'd be their friends or relative. I remember it was a tough time when I came out to my parents. My dad was okay with the idea, because he has more of a liberal viewpoint. My mom on the other hand, was not fond of the idea. To her, it is not right for two men or women to be attracted to each other, and that what I was experiencing was a phase. According Lilienfeld, 1.4 percent of women identify themselves as homosexual by the age of 18 or older (Lilienfeld 440). So I knew it wasn't a phase. But i talk to my mom more and more, hoping she'd adjust to the idea. But it will take time.

How much time will that require though? Homosexuality has been around since the beginning of time. There are so many different abnormal sexual cultures. But bring two men and women together and everyone freaks out. But society has gotten better as time went on. In California, a lesbian couple was nominated homecoming king and queen for the first time in history. It's definitely a step. Hopefully as time goes on, the psychological findings on homosexuality will be taught, so everyone will understand that homosexuals are not so different after all. 

Does Media Violence Cause Aggression?

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So in our discussion sections this week we talked about how violent video games and TV shows can affect the behavior of children. Some studies suggest that allowing children to watch violent TV shows and play violent video games will make them a more aggressive person. Our group disagreed and said that there may be a temporary change in behavior, but that a child will not suffer long-term behavior problems. An article that I read called "Research on the Effects of Media Violence" (article) said that there is a weak, but positive correlation between violence in the media and aggression in children.This article also talked about how many studies find different data to come to a conclusion because not all research defines violence in the same way. I still think that violence in the media doesn't affect children in a drastic way. I believe that it is more based on the way a child is raised, and possibly their genetics.
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Midlife Transitions

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According to our book a midlife transition is a major adjustment that takes place when adults begin to see gray hairs and wrinkles. A midlife crisis is the example given for men, the typical middle-aged man buying the sports car of his dream to try and regain his youth. The midlife transition for a woman would be empty-nest syndrome, which is characterized by a woman becoming depressed when her children all leave the house.

The book also states that these two seemingly common occurances are more myth than reality, since research shows that middle aged men don't go through an increase in emotional stress. Woman similarly have an increase in life satisfaction when their children leave the house. I think that this is extremely interesting since almost everyone I know who has reached middle age has gone through some form of a midlife transition. I wonder if their might be an alternative explanation as to why these two things happen? Could it be that the middle aged men are buying sports cars because they can now actually afford it? Maybe mothers who children are all out of the house seem depressed because they always talk about their children since they are the most important things in their life? I would be curious to see the results if a study was done to try and figure out the reasons for these midlife transitions.

Post 4: Double Take on Grammie

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The study of my grandmother could probably entertain a psychological case study and a half.  Prior to my partner and I moving in with her, all I knew was that she had a tendency for elaborate exaggeration; she was unhappily married to my grandfather who's death was seemingly more liberating than mournful; and, she conducted with cold indifference around her children and grandchildren.

In an effort to revitalize her own life, my partner quit her unfulfilling receptionist work to pursue a career as a medical professional.  The time she has spent at home between certifications and classes has bonded her quite closely with my grandmother.  Very slowly, my grandmother began to build an emotional confidence with my partner -- the new-found trust and self-esteem my grandmother developed has offered amazing benefit to her attitude on life.  Now grammie avoids exaggeration nearly altogether and surprisingly has spurred interest in other family members.  Her extra-family interactions are still limited, but she has developed a wonderful sense of humor, which is something I've never known my grandmother to have.

Aside from the unprecedented change in my grandmother's perception, my partner and I have also noticed a growing anxiety on her part with the notion of dying.  In the past, with her diagnosis and fight against breast cancer, her anxiety resembled a more bestial fight-for-survival.  This new anxiety is much more emotional and certainly more verbal.    

In Melissa W. Pinson's dissertation, "Effect of Loneliness on Older Adult's Death Anxiety", Pinson defines a few constructs that are helpful in understanding my grandmother's behavior.  Specifically, Pinson notes two types of loneliness: emotional and social loneliness.

Social relationships are the most prevalent.  These interactions form our social network and serve to "acquire information....[and] reassurance of worth..." (Pinson, 2010).  Symptoms of social loneliness may be expressed as "feelings of marginality, feelings of being unacceptable to others, and isolation" (Pinson, 2010).  Emotional relationships most often take the form of the "pair-bond relationship", as Pinson terms it, and this interaction provides a sense of emotional security.  The lack of emotional interaction leaves individuals with feelings of vulnerability and emptiness. 

My supposition is that my grandmother suffered from both social and emotional loneliness.  Pinson also descibes two theories of death anxiety related to social and emotional interactions: Socioemotional Selectivity Theory (SST) and Terror Management Theory (TMT). 

According to SST, elderly individuals acknowledging the impending inevitability of their own death by exposure to death and the realization of their own mortality, will pursue more emotional relationships as opposed to social ones.  This finding matches my own anecdotal experience with my grandmother, whose interest in developing social connections is still very limited. 

TMT suggest that the very awareness of our death is the source for many, if not all, fears and resorting to "cultural worldviews" often alleviates this anxiety by providing order and meaningfulness (Pinson, 2010).  Pinson's research suggests that enhanced self-esteem, acquired either by alignment with a culture worldview or an emotionally securing relationship, etc., is positively correlated with heightened death anxiety.  And, although Pinson acknowledges other research that suggests the opposite finding, my experience with my grandmother seems to follow Pinson's result. 

Regardless of the actual nature of the causal link between loneliness and death anxiety, in my experience as my grandmother's emotional security strengthened and her loneliness subsided, she showed an increased anxiety toward death.  It's possible though, that this anxiety was covert, and only through the confidence of an emotional relationship was she able to overtly express her fears.

The Sixth Sense, Again

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 Everyone can recall the iconic scene in the movie "Sixth Sense" where Haley Joel Osment whispers to Bruce Willis, "I see dead people." The camera then does a slow close-up of Bruce's face, and everything is all dramatic. While this "sixth sense" is debatable, the other five: sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch, have been established since the time of Aristotle. However, they are far from the only senses we possess; they are just the most evident. In fact, neurologists today are unsure of just how many sense there are, or even exactly what characterizes a sense. One point on which they do agree, is that there are more than five. Among these, I find one, proprioception, to be the most interesting and most deserving of further examination.



The Lilienfeld text gives it but the briefest mention, and defines it simply as, "a perception of our body's location." Not at all exciting, but try this experiment. Close your eyes, and then touch the tip of your nose with your index finger. How did you do that? Your eyes were closed, so how did you know which finger was your index finger? Did you hear the air rushing past your hand as it moved toward your face? Or maybe, somehow smell your hand as it approached your nose? Unless you are in fact a very lame superhero, probably not. It was your sense of proprioception at work.


But so what? This is all trivial. Consider then, that were it not for this sense you would have to constantly monitor your feet to make sure that they are, in fact, still on the ground. Or perhaps, you would need to watch your torso so you don't start walking off in the wrong direction. Evolutionarily, this would have been a huge deal. When confronted with some giant predator in the woods, imagine that instead of running as fast as humanly possible, you also had to make sure you weren't running toward said tiger/bear/dinosaur. You can see then, how those who had a more developed sense of proprioception had a better chance of survival.


Your five primary senses may allow you to interact with the world around you, but proprioception allows you to function as a coherent unit. The ability to interact with the deceased may be discovered one day, but it certainly won't be the sixth sense.

Video Games and Aggression

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            Violent video games have become very popular throughout our society. Many adults have come to believe that they are not a very good influence on young kids as they think it causes aggressive behavior among them. There are many opinions about this topic and after talking about it in our discussion section; I have decided to continue what my thoughts are about violent video games and aggressive behavior. Although I do believe that if young kids do play violent video games they will demonstrate some sort of aggressiveness, I also believe that it doesn't.
            Reasons why I believe that it causes aggressive behavior is that while the kids play the violent video games they tend to lose emotional impact and think that violence is alright. When the gamer is being rewarded for committing excessive acts of violence they may think it is alright to do it in real life. The kids will tend to imitate what they see or play because they have become accustomed to the acts.

Reasons why I think it doesn't cause aggressive behavior is because the kid may have grown up in an aggressive environment and plays the games as a way to stay engaged in how they were raised to act. This demonstrates the correlation vs. causation way of thinking because we don't know if their aggressive behavior is caused by nurture or by the violent video games. We can't put a finger on the exact cause. On another note, crime rates have been decreasing in recent years.
            While many people continue to debate about whether or not violent video games cause aggressive behavior, I continue to stay neutral about the whole topic. While I do believe that playing them can have a negative effect on a kid, there just haven't been enough cases where kids have gone out and actually committed terrible acts of violence for me to fully believe it.

Here is a video I found with some data about violent video games and aggression.

 

Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kH38gqvPUuA

Research: http://articles.cnn.com/2008-11-03/health/healthmag.violent.video.kids_1_violent-video-video-games-game-genres/2?_s=PM:HEALTH

http://www.fbi.gov/news/stories/2010/december/crime_122010/crime_122010


Online Dating: Love Through Science?

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In a recent discussion section we focused on the "science of love" and the factors that influence it such as proximity, similarity, and reciprocity. When we discussed different matchmakers it reminded me of all the online dating sites we are exposed to on a daily basis. I decided to investigate one of the main ones in my mind, eHarmony to see what methods they used and if they were similar to the factors we had studied.

eHarmony claims to be the "#1 trusted online dating site" and matches people on 29 compatibility factors. When you sign up for eHarmony you begin by filling out a questionnaire based on these 29 "dimensions" and then your matches are based on how close your answers are with other people on the site. This displays the Similarity concept we learned about.

The site also demonstrates proximity by displaying the location of your matches. There is also a whole section of "success stories" based on people being so close to each other without knowing it until they met over eHarmony. Many different things could contribute to this in my mind, it could be chance but it also could be based on values that are specific to certain areas.

Lastly, when you are given your "matches" you have different options in which to contact your possible future dates. People matched with you can also contact you with these different options. This displays reciprocity because sending or receiving on of these contacting options implies interest in the other person, which could increase the interest of the other party.

At the heart of her image

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In an ever-changing world, diversity is at the highest point it has ever been.  Attending the University of Minnesota, Twin cities, the diversity rate is similarly through the roof.  With all the diversity it's hard not to notice the unusual markings on some woman's faces. The red dot on a Hindu woman's forehead is nothing more than an indicator of her marital status. This red dot, called a bindi is arguably the most fascinating of all forms of body decoration. Hindus attach great importance to this ornamental mark on the forehead between the two eyebrows. They have believed that the forehead is a major nerve point in the human body since ancient times. The area between the eyebrows, the sixth chakra known as the 'agna' meaning 'command', is the seat of concealed wisdom. It is the center point wherein all experience is gathered in total concentration. It is usually a small or a big eye-catching round mark made on the forehead as adornment. In southern India, girls choose to wear a bindi, while in other parts of India it is a certain privilege for only married woman to wear. A red dot on the forehead is an auspicious sign of marriage and guarantees the social status and sanctity of the institution of marriage.  According to the tantric cult, when during meditation the latent energy rises from the base of the spine towards the head, this is the probable outlet for this potent energy. The red dot between the eyebrows is said to retain energy in the human body and control the various levels of concentration. It is also the central point of the base of the creation itself while symbolizing auspiciousness and good fortune.

While this hoax is not completely wrong it was over simplified (Opposite of Occam's Claim) Viewers need to understand that this little symbol has more than one explanation. While the claim could be replicated (Replicability) and disproven (Falsifiability) depending on the culture, this claim is not 100% mistaken. Being a viewer, make sure to have more than one source backing up your knowledge.

 

Mikkenson, David P. "Snopes.com: Religion (Religion)." Snopes.com: Urban Legends Reference Pages. Urban Legends. Web. 06 Nov. 2011. <http://www.snopes.com/religion/religion.asp>.

Subhamoy, Das. "Bindi: The Great Indian Forehead Art - All You Need to Know about Bindis." About Hinduism - What You Need to Know About Hinduism. 2011. Web. 06 Nov. 2011. <http://hinduism.about.com/od/bindis/a/bindi.htm>.

 

 

Fun with Piano Stairs

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As we learned in chapter 6 of our psychology books, humans can be conditioned to formulate associations among stimuli. Classical conditioning is where someone responds to a previously neutral stimulus that had been paired with another stimulus that elicits an automatic response. This kind of conditioning can be used to create an array of emotions ranging from happy to terrified. One of the most famous studies concerning classical conditioning was the study on Little Albert by John B. Watson. By making a loud noise whenever Little Albert saw a white rat, he conditioned Albert to associate the white rat with the loud noise that terrified him. In conclusion Albert would cry every time he saw the rat because he expected the loud noise.

Although this is a more extreme example of classical conditioning, it occurs everyday to us without us even knowing. Every advertisement we see are by experts on the effects of classical conditioning on people. They find out what makes people happy, then set that next to their product. Soon (without us subconsciously noticing it) the product makes us happy.

I came across a video the other day that reminded me of classical conditioning. The makers had a different name for it though. They called it the Fun Theory. Their theory was that if a conditioned stimulus was paired with an unconditioned stimulus that was fun, then fun would be associated with the conditioned stimulus and it would be reinforced. They wondered if turning the stairs next to an escalator into piano stairs would enforce people to use them more. As seen in the video shown above it worked! This youtube video proves what Pavlov discovered over one hundred years ago.

Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Divorce

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Psychological and Emotional Aspects of Divorce

David Cesnik

Source- http://www.mediate.com/articles/psych.cfm#emotional

 

            This article discusses the consequences of a divorce from both the perspective of the divorcing parents, and the feelings of the children. Much of the article focuses on how certain actions by the divorcing parents affect children of different ages. For example, the article states certain signs for children of different ages that they are being stressed out over the ordeal and need help, like toddlers becoming increasingly clingy, or adolescents feeling in competition with their parents. This article addresses every angle of emotion and feeling from the perspective of a child going through their parent's divorce.

http://marriage101.org/effects-of-divorce-on-children/

Having gone through my parents divorce personally, I can clearly tell that many, if not all, of the claims made in this article are true. For example, it claims that the parent who moves out of the home to start their new family will always feel more distant to the child than the parent living in their childhood home. The article also claims that the noticeable changes in the relationship between the parents that the child observes can affect their perception of one of the parents as well. Whether it is verbal conflicts or physical gestures, the child supposedly picks up on more of these cues that the parents realize. Speaking from experience, when one of my parents would talk poorly of the other, I remember myself thinking less of them for down-talking someone they know I love, so that claim is completely true. A final claim that the article makes is that the "children's psychological reactions to their parents' divorce vary in degree dependent on three factors: (1) the quality of their relationship with each of their parents before the separation, (2) the intensity and duration of the parental conflict, and (3) the parents' ability to focus on the needs of children in their divorce." The first part is true because I no longer live with one of my parents because of a poor relationship before the divorce. The second statement is also true because my particular experience stretched out over a two-year span and greatly impacted those two years of my school and personal life. Finally the third part seems valid, but that never came into matter in my case because both of my parents took the divorce as a means to take an extra effort into furthering their relationship with my siblings and me.

Divorces can be very ugly, grueling, and sometimes they can completely tear a family apart. Not only does it separate a once-loving marriage between two people, it can also tear apart a child both emotionally and psychologically. This article shows that children of different ages handle a divorce in different ways, and also have different responses to how things happen during and afterwards. A divorce is one of the biggest events in a young child's life, and it is very important for parents to understand the possible effects that it may have on a child and be able to address their possible new needs.

The Mere Exposure Effect

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    The mere exposure effect is one that we are familiar with even if we don't realize it all the time. This concept mere states that the more we see or experience a stimulus the more favorable we view the stimulus. The bellow video gives a humorous example of this effect, and while it may be an exaggerated example it does illustrate the effect.
    This effect is something we see in our everyday lives as we tend to feel comfort in our homes and with our close family and friends. This effect is something that we rely on every day as we use it to make friends and know who we can trust information with and just with getting used to new environment. The best example I can think of for this effect in my own life is just moving to college. When I first moved in to my dorm, it was a new place that I was not entirely comfortable with. Just with the now daily exposure to my dorm it has become a place that I am not only comfortable with but a place that I almost consider home. It is the examples like this that make the mere exposure effect useful in our everyday lives. 
    Since this effect works so well in our lives and is very important it is interesting to think of the other ways it could be used. Whether that is like the example in the video or some other random application. This is hard however to monitor as sometimes the repeated exposure will sometimes create a contempt for the stimulus. Either way there is no denying the usefulness and importance of the mere exposure effect in our everyday lives

Happiness Defined

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The United States was founded on three unalienable rights; the freedoms of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. While this has governed our way of life for close to three hundred years now, the last of these three is the complete antithesis of what was previously believed. To the ancient Greeks happiness was divine luck, and Christianity defined it as something unattainable in this lifetime, it being a reward in the afterlife. Whatever the case, happiness as something we could work toward achieving is a new concept. In fact, this disjoint in what we pursue and what we are actually searching for is what has led to increased unease and discontent in our modern history. Source


Experiment time: complete the sentence; and they all lived... The idea of attaining happiness is so ubiquitous in our culture we have built an entire genre of stories on it; fairy tales. Yes, we know our lives are not a fairy tale, but that doesn't stop us from working towards happiness as some sort of finish line. It turns out, there is not a finish line at all. Psychologists point out that our brains have a sort of baseline for happiness, a homeostatic point, if you will. Any moment of extreme satisfaction will soon reset back to this baseline, as our brains will start looking forward to the next one. Evolutionarily, this is advantageous in that any setback will not be utterly soul-crushing. It's an evolutionary triumph of the human spirit, in a way. This also means that happiness is not something to be achieved. It's just a temporary state used as a sort of motivational tool.


So now it's established that happiness isn't an end goal to be worked for, how does this actually contribute to more discontent? A study conducted by researchers at Yale university involved participants taking advice from a motivational film, and then trying to improve their mood instead of letting it lift naturally. In the end, they felt cheated that their expectations weren't met, putting them in a worse mood than they had started.


How should on live their life then, if happiness is not something that can be achieved? Just because it is not a state of being, does not mean it does not exist either. Aristotle believed happiness was synonymous with virtuous; being good begets good. There is no panacea for happiness, that much should have been obvious. But if there is one theme throughout all of this, it would be to live a good life, and regardless of what results, call it happiness.  

Schizophrenia

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A possibly huge development in treatment of schizophrenia is being researched with none other then a computer. It is a connection of neural networks mimicking the brain. Researchers from Yale and the University of Texas Austin published their findings recently in May of this year. They developed a neural network that mimics neural activity in a human brain to the point that the network can interpret crime stories importance and even emotion.  Schizophrenia is a mental disorder that occurs in both males and females beginning in the early 20s, late teens. Their theory is that schizophrenia is caused by an inability to differentiate between important information as well as the conscious awareness of their senses and the making of their sensory memory. This is believed to be caused by an overabundance of dopamine in the brain. The researchers were able to test their hypothesis using the simulation. They simulated an increased dose of dopamine in the neural network that caused the computer to respond like that of someone suffering from schizophrenia.  The development of the neural network will also be very helpful in the future to test any other ideas of treating the disorder or anything else that calls for the imitation of brain activity.

The full article is here.

The full study is here.

An interview with a schizophrenic patient can be found here.