"I can tell you're lying!" - Actually no, you probably can't

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I have often times encountered individuals who tell me that they are good at telling when people are lying. These individuals claim they can tell by looking into someone's eyes or by just having a way of knowing. I was surprised to learn, from our psychology book, that the vast majority of people cannot accurately predict when a person is speaking truthfully or when they are lying.

Much like the explanations of these "human lie detectors," most believe that lying becomes obvious through nonverbal communication. While research shows that illustrators decrease and the use of emblems and manipulators increases when one lies, research also suggests that these nonverbal communication changes are not very consistent. Instead it appears that verbal communication changes more significantly when one lies. Thinking back to times where I have lied, I realize that my amount of details and qualifiers spoken is quite lower than when I speak the truth - just as our book suggests.

Researcher Paul Ekman tested the abilities of supposedly skilled human lie detectors such as police, judges, and psychologists. He found that they could only correctly identify about 60% of liars - an accuracy rate much lower than assumed by the general population, in my opinion. I think people in society need to think more critically about whether or not those working in our legal system have the ability to correctly identify and prosecute liars. I believe more training and education on the communication, body language, and psychology of lying should be a requirement to become a law enforcer. I wonder if "human lie detectors" could be applied to job interviews in order to obtain a more truthful reading on prospective employees.

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Thanks for the post! Ekman's work fascinated me as well, because I always assumed that there were general tell-tale signs of a lie. I remember back when the Scott Peterson trial was going on, there was a segment on Nancy Drew featuring supposed 'lie detectors' who claimed he was lying simply begin he was flashing his eyes to the right when he spoke. Of course, who knows what really happened in regards to that crime, but it's definitely nerve-racking to think that one can be accused of lying simply due to unintentional and often unconscious facial cues one gives off!

Good topic! I've always been curious as to why people think they can tell when someone is lying whether it's with their mind or by the use of a machine. Granted, I'm sure that some people can practically be read like a book, but it is not a flawless system. It is possible for some to make themselves believe that they are telling the truth even if they are actually lying. Mental disabilities, being "hypnotized," and drugs can all cause this.

I wrote what I'm about to write on anothers similar post. I think that lying is just as nonverbal as it is verbal and it's different for everyone. What comes to mind when I think about that is poker. Everyone knows poker is a lot in the luck of the cards. But it seem sthat some people just have a better knack for picking up on this nonverbal clues. I read a book where a teenager had just that knack and would use it to his advantage. Everyone's tell during a bluff is different and isn't a bluff but a lie? After playing with them for awhile he figured their nonverbal cues out and was able to know if they were bluffing or not. I think that we may not have a surefire way of knowing if someone's lying or not ever, but maybe if we spent some time on individual's we may be able to figure out when their lying or not.

What I find even more interesting than people's abilities to detect lies, is some people's ability to formulate lies. I have come across a few people in my life who are compulsive liars and tell lies on a regular basis. For most people telling lies tends to be uncomfortable but these people find comfort in telling lies and do so with ease. Telling lies become an addiction for them. This makes me question the psychology involved in lying, what causes compulsive lying and what can be done to stop this habit.

I am not saying that I can spot any type of liar, but if I know the person really well, I usually can determine if he/she is lying. My sister, for example, she lies WAYY TOO OFTEN. I catch her in lies all the time. She fights me on it, until eventually I am so accurate of the false qualities of her lie, that she has to give it. I am the only one who can tell with her though, my parents can't detect her lies or "what they don't know won't hurt them" type lies. I think it is only because I have witnessed her lying so often, that I can detect her speech, her attitude, and how easily she is offended if someone questions her story. Otherwise, I tend to be rather gullible and trusting of strangers words. I can't tell if they're lying, because I haven't spent enough time with them to understand how they speak or react when in a lie.

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