My girlfriend informed me yesterday that her neighbor was having a baby. I was like, "that's great!" assuming that it was the mother who lived next door. Then she told me it was the 16 year old girl who lived across the street and explained to me that her mother had had her when she was 16 also. So I thought, "wouldn't you learn from your parents mistakes?" I think it's safe to say that having a baby at the age of 16 really isn't a great idea unless you really want to be on MTV. This lead me to do a little research on how often and why children make the same bad decisions as their parents.

It goes deep into the nature vs. nurture debate. Some say it's caused by a constant exposure to the actions of the parents. Even when children aren't paying close attention. Their brain is subconsciously recording information and many children have a desire to be like to be like their parents. On the other side of the spectrum, some believe that genes are the root of our life choices. Maybe there are specific genes that affect your choices. I personally believe that it's some combination of the two. There is definitely a positive correlation between your your actions and your parents. If a parent ends up in prison, your chances of incarceration go up. If a parent abuses drugs, likewise. So what do you think about the choices we make? Many people aspire to be nothing like their parents, but do our parents have a much stronger effect on us than we think?



People have been known to drive cars, turn on electronics, and well as make love to people when they are sleepwalking. But in the course of history, someone possibly committed murder while sleepwalking. The real question is, can this be justified and used as a valid arguement for legal defense. It almost seems too hard to falsify, and absolutely unethical enough to test. It seems like having a trial with defense like this could really complicate things where the court-room could end up at a standoff and obstacle. I wonder if this will ever pop up again in court, and if it does, i am very interested to see how it turns out.
There are countless movies about memory loss and amnesia. From Jason Bourne to The Notebook viewers have been fascinated with the loss of memory. One movie in particular takes amnesia to the next level. In the 1987 film Overboard , a filthy rich housewife falls off her yacht and is found washed ashore only to have forgotten everything she knows about herself. Numerous media stations marvel at this interesting find and her pictures are posted everywhere posing the same question, "Who is this woman?" Her husband sees the news reports and decides not to go after her, instead he wants to live his life as a free man. What does happen is that a lowly carpenter, to whom the rich housewife owes money to, claims her as his wife so she may pay off her debt to him. He takes her home and begins reconstructing her memory, making her believe that she has 4 kids, lives in a dingy home and has questionable moral character. This is where psychology plays a role. The housewife knows something is not right but everyone is telling her the same thing. This is similar to Elizabeth F. Loftus' ideas on suggestibility and the malleability of memory. If the people around you whom you trust (or in the movies case, the only people you know) are all telling you the same thing you are eventually going to believe it. While I do believe this movie goes a little 'overboard' (pun intended) by romanticizing amnesia (at the end of the movie the carpenter and the housewife fall madly in love), in the real world amnesia is a much scarier and stressful thing. Our fascination with memory loss has led to numerous films and books about the subject, but has our fascination led us astray from reality? Have we forgotten the pain memory loss and caused from such things as Alzheimers and short term memory loss? Do you think our society is more obsessed with the romanticized version or the real world version?

ur. I tried so hard to stay awake, to maybe catch the whispers of my beloved cat, but never quite managed it. Since then, the thought has never escaped my interest. I have been training horses and endurance racing my entire life and I even worked at a vet's office for about 5 years. Experience has taught me that if we are going to limit language to the definition of civilized, human speech, then no. Animals do not "talk". However, they do communicate and, with some patience, observance and training, they will communicate with you too. I've often found that animals tend to express emotions more than anything. If you know what to look for, it becomes incredibly easy to discern what a horse is feeling. Anger/fear is often the the most expressive and obvious emotion in animals and this is because it is a necessity from a survival standpoint. I grouped anger and fear together purposefully because oftentimes intense fear is what causes anger in animals. Everyone has heard of the basic instincts of "fight or flight" which are even more highly tuned in other animals then us humans. When an animal feels threatened or cornered or as if it's choice of flight is taken away, anger will emerge. Horses express this by pinning their ears to their head, elongating their neck and snapping their teeth at the source of their anger. They will also resort to kicking in extreme anger or rearing up on their hind legs in extreme fear. This is just a minuscule sample of what you can learn simply by observing animal behavior. Whether you classify it as language or not completely depends on your definition.





Drugs. They are a sin for some and a death sentence for many. What do you think of though when you hear someone talking about drug abuse? Does meth come to mind? A group of potheads in a dark alley? Maybe even bottles of prescription drugs spilled all over the counter? Here's the scoop on what's really going on.
