I worry that when I'm in a group I usually end up playing the part of the pleaser. I don't like to cause "waves" so I usually just go on with what the group thinks is best, even if I have a better idea. Also, sometimes I do voice my opinion, but if it is questioned I have a hard time defending my opinion. However, I have no problems voicing my opinion, and defending it when I'm in a more comfortable setting with people I know better. The thing that would help me in these awkward situations I think would be to make sure I really get to know the people I will be working with better in some sort of team building exercise so I am a more productive team member.
Posted by at October 19, 2005 1:54 PM