Angela Lee
In Searching For Angela Shelton, it seemed to me that Angela was using the road as a way to tell her story and her interractions with other people generally revolved around herself and not the other Angelas. While we did get backstories on some of the other Angelas, such as the anonymous, many of them seemed to just be a person for Angela Shelton to tell her story to and film it. At the opposite end of the spectrum is Grace Lee, who was rarely seen in the shots and only had a minimal amount of talking about herself. Instead, Grace Lee used the road as a way to find out the stories of these other women, and to explore the differences and similarities between herself and all of the other Grace Lee's.
I think that for Angela, her quest was to find closure for herself on her issues of abuse that she faced as a child. For her, finding out that so many other women have also suffered through these issues and then confronting her step brother and father was a way for her to try to get some sense of closure about the whole situation. Grace Lee's quest seemed more to focus just on breaking down some of the stereotypes about Asian women named Grace Lee, as well as focusing on some of the stereotypes that seemed to be prevelant throughout.
In both of these films, the road is gendered towards the female perspective, due to the fact that they are both films of women interacting with other women of the same name. In both films, there is some input from men, but neither are focused at all a mens' perspective. In Searching For Angela Shelton, the different Angelas she encounters on the road are all caucasian or african american, with no other races represented, and Grace Lee is solely asian women, as she is searching for the differences and similarities in asian women in America named Grace Lee.